Wlw dziewczyny, gdzie się poznajecie?

Gdzie poznawać bi/homo dziewczyny? Próbowałam apki randkowe, ale bez większego sukcesu.

Szczególnie interesuje mnie offline we Wrocławiu, ale wszystkie polecajki chętnie przyjmę

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u/Personal-Level-1970 — 2 days ago

How do you guys find enjoyment in life with misophonia?

All funny activities I can imagine get crushed by misophonia.

I'm currently on vacation at sea. I enjoy swimming and exploring the sea bottom. But as soon as I get to the beach I got so overwhelmed by people and it gets me very upset.

I tried swimming with plugs, but all I have with my are foam plugs. They expand because of water and fall out of ears, and tbh I doubt it's safe. I don't wanna bring headphones to the beach as they easily can get broken or stolen.

And I have really hard time hanging out with people I came with. I know my avoidant behavior upsets them. I don't know what to do.

I feel like every time I want to do something fun I get stopped by misophonia. It's either avoidance or suffering. How do you find any fun activity that isn't isolating? How do you enjoy anything?

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u/Personal-Level-1970 — 5 days ago

How do you respond to "oh stop being so dramatic about it!" etc?

How do you people explain your conditon? How do you make people take your seriously?

I've tried a lot of times to explain this to my family, but all they respond with is "stop being dramatic" or "get over it". On top of that my father has misophonia as well, however even he doesn't take me seriosly. All he says it "you have to just get used to it, like I did".

Did any of you had success trying to explain your situation? Im getting hopeless

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u/Personal-Level-1970 — 25 days ago
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feeling out of place/feeling estranged

I'm not very good at explaining weird feelings, but I will try to keep it short. I'm now comfortable with being female. I love androgynity so I express myself this way. I figured I like styling my hair and feel comfortable with it. However when it comes to other stuff such as makeup, clothes and behaviour I feel very out of place.

I wear light natural makeup in everyday life, mostly to cover my shitty skin. But sometimes I feel like experimenting, I tried some more visible eye makeup and it made me feel so.. not like myself? estranged? made me feel like I'm wearing a mask? I don't know what words to choose.

To clarify I think I look good with it and I do have fun applying it, but actually like..going somewhere with it feels so out of role. I stop feeling like myself and it feels weird. And same feeling occurs when I'm trying certain clothes, behaviours etc.

It doesn't really upset me. Just makes me really confused. Are borders in which I feel like myself this small? Does anyone else experience this as well?

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u/Personal-Level-1970 — 2 months ago

Pimples on mastectomy scars and under nipple graft

I'm about 9 months past my mastectomy. Scars are fully healed. Yet from time to time I get pimples right on my scars or under right nipple graft (only right for some reason). I don't have any chest hair so its not ingrowing hair problem. It doesn't hurt, just makes me concerned, especially under nipple one. I'm currently taking retinoid medication for my acne (about 4 months now), so I suspect it can also play a role. I'm kinda scared to ask my dermatologist about it cuz its pretty embarassing ngl. Has anyone experienced this as well?

u/Personal-Level-1970 — 2 months ago

Pimples on mastectomy scars and under nipple graft. Don't wanna send photo so I made a drawing

I'm about 9 months past my mastectomy. Scars are fully healed. Yet from time to time I get pimples right on my scars or under right nipple graft (only right for some reason). I don't have any chest hair so its not ingrowing hair problem. It doesn't hurt, just makes me concerned, especially under nipple one.

I'm currently taking retinoid medication for my acne (about 4 months now), so I suspect it can also play a role. I'm kinda scared to ask my dermatologist about it cuz its pretty embarassing ngl.

Has anyone experienced this as well?

https://preview.redd.it/mwi4jn0zgm9h1.jpg?width=4092&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5bab83d158cf89563fd16d9ed2ffeeff4fdf1535

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u/Personal-Level-1970 — 2 months ago

Pimples on mastectomy scars and under nip grafts. Don't want to send photo so I made an illustration

I'm about 9 months past my mastectomy. Scars are fully healed. Yet from time to time I get pimples right on my scars or under right nipple graft (only right for some reason). I don't have any chest hair so its not ingrowing hair problem. It doesn't hurt, just makes me concerned, especially under nipple one.

I'm currently taking retinoid medication for my acne (about 4 months now), so I suspect it can also play a role. I'm kinda scared to ask my dermatologist about it cuz its pretty embarassing ngl.

Has anyone experienced this as well?

https://preview.redd.it/7lnyp7xbgm9h1.jpg?width=4092&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=410b97a84a5839e98e7c4495237fbfee43cb9977

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u/Personal-Level-1970 — 2 months ago

Pimples on mastectomy scars and under nip grafts. Don't want to send photo so I made an illustration

I'm about 9 months past my mastectomy. Scars are fully healed. Yet from time to time I get pimples right on my scars or under right nipple graft (only right for some reason). I don't have any chest hair so its not ingrowing hair problem. It doesn't hurt, just makes me concerned, especially under nipple one.

I'm currently taking retinoid medication for my acne (about 4 months now), so I suspect it can also play a role. I'm kinda scared to ask my dermatologist about it cuz its pretty embarassing ngl.

Has anyone experienced this as well?

https://preview.redd.it/7lnyp7xbgm9h1.jpg?width=4092&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=410b97a84a5839e98e7c4495237fbfee43cb9977

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u/Personal-Level-1970 — 2 months ago

Gdzie we Wrocławiu kupić ładne pocztówki?

Zajmuję się postcrossingiem I lubię wysyłać ludziom ładne pocztówki. Zazwyczaj kupuje w galerii plakatu, jednak tam wybór też jest ograniczony. Na pocztach lub w sklepach pamiątkowch zazwyczaj są brzydkie. Ktos ma jakieś miejsce do polecenia?

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u/Personal-Level-1970 — 2 months ago

Scares of social detransition

I'm on second semester in university, which I started as a guy. During first semester I understood I don't want to continue this.

I have only one friend here, she knows I'm detrans and is okay with it. When I don't have classes with her I usually don't talk with anyone else. I am pretty socially isoleted my whole life. I finally felt confident about changing my name back to female this summer after I'm done with exams.

However every time I have a successful smal talk with other people from my year I immediately feel fear of socially detransing. I fear that these 2.5 people I can have small talk with will cut out me as well and consider me a weirdo. I already am kinda considered like this by others.

Additionally Im not very female passing, androgenous at best. If I wanted to pass as female daily I would have to make myself hyper fem and voice train which I don't want to do. ​​

Sooo I don't know how to exist... I feel very uneasy. Scared of negative opinions of others

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u/Personal-Level-1970 — 3 months ago

hair keep falling out?

I'm off T since the end of december. So about 6 months now. In first months of detransitioning the amount of hairs falling out noticibly reduced. But now I'm losing them in increased amount again, almost the same as during hrt. I don't have any particular bald spots, just losing them.

Last time I did blood test around 2 months ago and T lvl decreased in 7 times comparing to T lvl when I was actively taking it.

ANy idea what's going on?

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u/Personal-Level-1970 — 3 months ago

Смена имени в Беларуси живя за границей

Я живу в Польше почти 7 лет (с гражданством), а в Беларуси последний раз была года 4 назад. В 29 году у меня истекает срок паспорта, так что хочешь не хочешь придется ехать.

Пару лет назад по Польской стороне я поменяла имя. Получается в разных гражданствах у меня разные имена. Надо сменить имя и по белоруской стороне тоже, но насколько я знаю этот процесс гораздо сложнее, чем в Польше. Может кто-то был в такой же ситуации и мог бы мне что-нибудь подсказать? Насколько такое осуществимо в принципе?

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u/Personal-Level-1970 — 3 months ago
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What do you like about being a woman?

Since starting detransition (well previously too) my head is flooded with thoughts that I hate being female. I certainly enjoy not being trans, but just thinking that I will be female forever and have to live my life as one makes me upset. I also have overthinking problems.

So maybe I can read your replies and find something positive about being female for myself :)) Please don't respond with anything pregnancy related, thanks in advance

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u/Personal-Level-1970 — 4 months ago