... when suddenly I felt a hand stroking my hair and a pair of warm lips whisper into my ears "She's so pretty... just like you" and felt a knife against my throat.
"This is all going according to plan", I giggled and slowly reached for the gun in my bag...
Since apparently the X in XF can stand for any race, which surprised me, I thought this was the right sub to ask this question in. Because I am genuinely curious here and I know this post would also probably make both a Chinese and Japanese sub burn here due to how the relationship between these two countries is in many ways still very sensitive. So hope this post can stay up here.
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I know that this kind of coupling in modern day era is very rare but it does sometimes happen.
In the city near Ningbo my boyfriend spent a fair amount of time in, there were a few men there who had been working in Japan, met a woman there and when he moved back to China she decided to follow. I asked him if he knew about if the Japanese womens families back in Japan were accepting but he didn't ever talk to them. I also know that there is a couple like this on Bilibili as well, except the guy lives in Japan with his girlfriend. Seems like her family is one of the rare kinds.
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I always wondered how, let's say if a Noriko Tanaka meets a Zhang Weiqing working temporarily in Japan and they eventually bond.
I have a very strong feeling that unless her family and friends are very progressive, it would be very difficult to accept that. Perhaps even to the point of shunning - which I suspect is the reason why those Japanese yangxifus in Ningbo decided to leave their elders behind in Japan and come to China with their men. The Chinese in laws were probably way more accepting and welcoming than the womans very own family. But especially the older generations still probably felt a little weird.
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Like if a 90 year old nainai who survived Japanese occupation with the various traumas will have a great grandchild who will be born to a Japanese woman, and along with Chinese also learn their mothers language and culture and maybe even have a Japanese name? It surely can't be easy neither for the Chinese man as some would call him a traitor.
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So, I am asking here. Does anyone know a couple like this or is there some well known or famous couples like this or maybe even very realistic stories/novels that depict this pairing and the social stigmas that both the Japanese woman and the Chinese man would face?
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Seriously, why don't they just ban people from this "country"? Why do they even let them in?
I wonder what The North Face would think about this prime example of a walking advertisement