Going to a country concert Friday Night…

It’s going to be warm and a tad muggy. We have lawn seats…suggestions on what to wear so I fit in…please. I’m very much a golf shirt and shorts with running shoes style. Any help would be appreciated

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u/Popular_Syrup4621 — 14 days ago

Just looking for advice…

I’m long distance about 200 miles. Son is 16 soon to be 17 and my daughter is 20. For a very long time over 10 years I would see them every third weekend. They rarely wanted to come visit me and I always had to get them at their house, no half way meets. In the last two years, they rarely want to hang out or do anything. Most of the times I saw them I’d drive up, have lunch with them and drive back. They don’t return phone calls, don’t text…I feel like I failed them. When they were smaller I brought them to my moms for the weekend…that stopped about 4 years ago. So I cannot afford a hotel room so day trips is all I can do. Looking for advice I guess

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u/Popular_Syrup4621 — 2 months ago

2023 SEL- seat covers??

Does anyone use them? I think mine are starting to slowly rip. Love the white leather like material on my seats but I am wondering if anyone got seat covers and what did you get?

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u/Popular_Syrup4621 — 2 months ago

Golf shirts- tuck😁/untuck🙃

I know in business or in work a tuck should be happening. I struggle with “dressing down” at home and relaxing. I can’t seem to feel comfortable with my golf shirt untucked. Thoughts on this? I really value your opinion.

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u/Popular_Syrup4621 — 3 months ago

Heading to the lake for vacation for a week…

I’m 54…6ft tall, 280
I am packed swimsuits, a few t shirts…
Nice golf style wear for dinners and traveling downtown for my wife..
Boat shoes, flip flops and a pair of simple new balance …and one pair of light weight khakis.
Any other items besides socks/underwear am I missing?
Wanted to find a new updated baseball hat…I have like sports team hats etc…but they are out dated.
Any advice is appreciated. Will be staying with friends want to make a good impression.

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u/Popular_Syrup4621 — 3 months ago

When do you wear plain white sneakers?

I am definitely not used to wearing plain white sneakers with anything but to give you some premise on a school administrator so I like wearing sneakers with khakis and things like that, but I’m wondering asking the group when would these be appropriate to wear? Do you wear them with shorts? Do you wear them with jeans? I don’t wanna look like a fool. I am a Middle School administrator if that gives you any idea, the kids will roast me if it looks bad.

u/Popular_Syrup4621 — 4 months ago

How do I motivate my spouse?

I am eager to keep a clean house, put away things, re organize and support our family. I love my wife, but she has zero motivation unless she is helping someone else outside our house to help. She says it’s overwhelming and shuts down. When I bring up things, she goes to her phone and hides.
I’m trying to be patient, and I keep my things clean and organized but not sure how to get her going. Everytime I ask, it becomes a fight.
We have been married for over 10 years…and she was never like this.
I’m trying to put myself in her shoes, and help with vac, dusting, mopping floors and laundry…so i try and bring solutions, just don’t criticize.
Help?

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u/Popular_Syrup4621 — 4 months ago

Fighting for a hug

My wife has lost the concept of affection.
I’ve let it go for weeks when I went to hug her and she walked away. I tried to softly kiss her forehead before I leave in the morning and she pushes me away.
Tonight I said come here, and motioned for her to hug me…she did but like a side hug.
I’m 54m, she is 52f. I know she doesn’t owe me anything but we have been married for 14 years and this has been the worst. I leave every day early to get in a gym session…I’m the only provider so she has everything she wants…and I feel so lonely. It shouldn’t drive me crazy but it does. And it hurts. I can deal with no sex for 9 months…but a hug? My standards are very low now. And keep getting lower. Just frustrating and when I try and talk to her I’m told I’m just being a baby.

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u/Popular_Syrup4621 — 4 months ago

Oil change question

I have a 23 SEL with connivence pkg. the sticker from my dealership said I don’t need another oil change until 34k miles.
I’m at 31k miles and the sensor went off saying I needed a change. I checked the oil levels and it’s good…thoughts!?
Thanks

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u/Popular_Syrup4621 — 5 months ago

Mohu Leaf Plus- Warrenton VA 20187

Need some help. We want to get rid of Comcast ….cable boxes and go strictly streaming. We bought this antenna for my 91 mother in laws smart tv. It gets like 35 channels…but not abc, cbs 😳
She needs her Jeopardy and Wheel of Fortune. Usually she only watches nbc during the day….any suggestions on getting abc and cbs?
Thanks

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u/Popular_Syrup4621 — 5 months ago

How do I improve randomization of playlists?

Just want to hear more songs on a playlist for the gym that is about 700 strong.
I’ve heard a lot of the same ones over the last few weeks

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u/Popular_Syrup4621 — 5 months ago

Summer/Teens

I just saw this message at my PF that summer is not free for teens, only the first month…not sure where I sit on this.
Thoughts? 💭
I’m older and yes got tired of the kids just hanging out but also know there isn’t a lot to do for someone that age.

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u/Popular_Syrup4621 — 5 months ago