
u/Proper-Ice1162

Why do Kate and Toby not take Hailey to the park with them?
There’s a scene where they go to the park only with Jack, but Hailey isn’t there, do they just leave her at home alone? It’s not implied that anyone was there to watch her, and even if they were, why wouldn’t they also take her to the park?
Plus size girlies! Where are you getting your bathing suits?
Looking for something that has a pushup bra! I know Shein has options, just wondering if there’s any other websites someone might recommend.
Thank you! 😊
Cut my mom off for good, told her she will never know her grandchildren.
My mom told me my whole life that she hated me and didn’t want me. She sat there and agreed with my stepdad when he called me a slut, she hated how close me and my dad were and spent my whole life talking shit about him.
Me and my partner are talking about having kids, the last time I saw her, she got drunk and went on a tirade about my father. I turned to her and told her that she will never know my children, because that would mean they would see how she treats me, and I would never let my children think thats okay.
I feel so cathartic and so emotional, but so proud of myself.
Dinner is apples, I wanted something thats crunchy that tastes as good and has as much mouth effort as what I did today.
Someone who isn’t my partner tried to kiss me tonight, when do I tell my partner?
My boyfriend is in a different state currently, celebrating one of his best friend’s birthdays. I went out tonight, someone who my boyfriend wasn’t a fan of was there, and he tried to make a move on me.
He’s coming back tomorrow and then we’re planning for a weekend beach trip. I don’t know when to tell him, do I call him now and tell him? I feel like that would just ruin his time, but I’m also worried he’s going to be upset if I tell him after the fact.
This advice isn’t about if I should or shouldn’t say anything, I absolutely will, I just don’t know when.
I want to find my best friend from Germany, around 1995 I believe? All I have of her is one picture.
Whats the best subreddit to find her in?
IUD question
I got the Mirena IUD in 2021, I was told at that time that I would have to get it replaced in 5 years, which would be now.
When I tried to make an appointment to get it replaced, they said that I have 3 more years before I need to.
I don’t trust my gyno because they were the same people who said it would feel like a pinch. Were they correct about me being able to keep it in for a couple of more years, or should I get it replaced?
Delusional men
Holy shit, men who make up a whole ass relationship with a woman in their mind, become obsessed with her, never talk to her, and then blame her when they learn that there isn’t a relationship?!
Should I buy an xbox or a gaming laptop to play Planet Zoo?
I really want to play this, xbox would be MUCH cheaper; is paying for a gaming laptop worth it, or is there not much of a difference?
AITAH for thanking my brothers GF for getting him out of our parents house?
I have two younger brothers who are twins, with a 10 year difference between us. Growing up, we were never close because my experience with our parents, and their experiences with them were very different.
I definitely got to live more of a life, because my parents only really concentrated on them, so the fact that I don’t really have a relationship with my parents, isn’t shocking. My relationship with my brothers was also pretty much non existent, a lot of this just had to do with age.
My brothers grew up VERY sheltered. The abuse they endured from my parents was different than mine, but still abuse. My parents thought that my brothers were the perfect opportunity for them to mold their kids into who they want their kids to be.
This meant that they basically have zero social skills, and in my opinion, they weren’t even really people.
About three years ago, one of them got a girlfriend, she’s not white, and although my parents will never admit it, I know that it’s a big part of why they don’t like her. They have openly accused her of using him to get a green card.
My parents don’t like her because they don’t like the idea of not having control of their son, and they think that she’s the one who’s controlling him now, which just isn’t true.
I’ve seen such a huge change in him since they moved in together, he carries himself like someone who has actually experienced the world.
We were having dinner as a family, and my mom asked his girlfriend why her son doesn’t visit, my brother answered that it was his choice, and she needs to stop accusing his girlfriend of being some sort of puppet master.
His twin made a comment about the green card and how family is everything. This got on my nerves, so I turned to him and told him that if it wasn’t for his girlfriend, that his brother would be exactly like him, an incel virgin who genuinely believes the holocaust didn’t happen, and I thanked her for saving him from that future.
This started a big fight, was I wrong?
Also! The Holocaust denying thing was NOT something he learned from my parents. My mother fled a genocide, that was ignored by the world for many years, she would never ever think something like that.
Why aren’t urinals in stalls?
Do men like to watch each other pee?
Does anyone wanna buy this?
It’s making my cat throw up, unopened bag.
Looking for $20 but if anyone needs it, I will give it away for free.
Who else is going to the MSG show?
Just got my ticket! Been trying to see Cudi for years. Psyched is an understatement!!!
WIBTAH if I don’t visit my mothers side of the family when I go to our home country this summer?
Me and my boyfriend plan on visiting my motherland this summer. It will be the first time I’ve been there since I left when I was a child, it will also be the first time that my boyfriend will be meeting my family.
A bit of backstory, my parents divorced shortly after we moved to the states, me and my mother moved to a different state not too long after she and my father divorced.
My dad is genuinely one of my best friends, while me and my mom don’t have much of a relationship despite me living about 5 minutes away from her.
This trip was planned with my dad, my mom really had no clue I planned on coming until I brought it up and brought up that we were trying to figure out what days to go, when I was at her house for mother’s day.
She and my stepdad asked me to consider going at the end of July, because then I would be able to make it to the family gathering her side of the family has. I thought this was a great idea.
That was until the night progressed and the drinking did too. My mother is a bad drunk, she has a tendency to get really mean, specifically to me.
She got upset with me and my brother because we told her that as parents they don’t deserve a pat on the back for raising us, since that’s their job.
She proceeded to ask me what my father had done for me, and mentioned how he refused to pay for my college. I told her he had done a lot for me, and I never faulted him for not wanting to pay for my college, since I didn’t want to go.
She got pissed off at this and told me that my father broke our family up when he cheated on my mom. This isn’t true, my parents divorced because my mom reunited with her high school sweetheart, she didn’t want to divorce because she was worried how it made her look, my dad didn’t care and they divorced.
I had enough and instead of engaging with her on this topic, I got up and left, my brother drove me home. When I was leaving, I heard my stepdad asking her whats wrong with her and why she would say that to me, this is not his first time defending me when it came to her.
Now, I’m wondering if I should even visit her and her side of the family during my vacation. I would love to see my family, it’s been decades and they’re a fun group. But, I worry that my mother is going to be my mother and she’s going to say something and now so many more people will be witness to it, and I would just end up leaving upset like I have when I visit her here.
So WIBTAH if I kept this trip to just seeing my father and his family?
ETA: My dad currently lives in the country I’m visiting, he moved back about a year ago.