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Hello, so long story short husband and I have been trying for a baby for almost 3 years now, we made the necessary tests and all resulted to male factor. He’s doing nothing about it, didn’t quit smoking, didn’t quit alcohol, I hate him for this. Also my period was 2 days late and I thought maybe I’m pregnant but it was negative and period started right away. Besides that, my husband got drank for no damn reason and crashed the car badly (not even ours, it belongs to his work) yup that’s exactly what we needed 🙄 I just feel like I hate my husband rn, I feel like I’m wasting my youth with him. I do want to separate from him but I don’t have elsewhere to go and I’m a staying at home wife. I’m sorry if my post isn’t coherent but it’s what my brain feels like right now.

So when my MIL visited our house the first time and had her first sleepover in there, she dreamt of hearing someone knocking at our door, when she opened the door several little boys entered (she says roughly 4 or 5 boys). My husband and I are trying for a baby for almost 3 years now but no luck. She had this dream like 4 months ago and still no baby for us. I know it’s not supposed to happen right away and maybe it was just a random dream not a sign or something but I felt really hopeful for once 💔

Ever since I started TTC, my periods have been all over the place. One cycle is 29 days, the next is 37. They used to be so regular, but now I never know when my period is going to show up. As someone who spends a lot of time at the pool, it’s honestly making my life difficult. So no pools and no babies thank you my “dear” body for ruining my life.

Ok so as someone who’s been TTC for almost 3 years with not a single positive, I am tired! I feel hopeless and like it’s never going to happen to us, so I decided not to track ovulation, nor period time, I will always carry with me extra pads and that’s it.

Hello. As a 30F, I never properly learned how to swim. Because I always felt embarrassed whenever I went to swimming pools or the beach, I finally decided to start learning. I began a month ago, taking one 90-minute lesson per week. From the very beginning, the instructor made me wear a swim belt, and I kept using it every single session for an entire month. Every time I asked her to help me try swimming without it, she would make excuses, saying that I still hadn’t learned how to float yet.

Later, I discovered that she was doing the exact same thing with her other students just to make them spend more time and money on lessons. And the cherry on top? She actually tried to steal my phone. No, you are not misunderstanding. Yes, the instructor literally tried to steal my phone.

Anyway, I left that swimming pool and joined another one. Now I train twice a week for one hour, and the current instructor is much better. She didn’t even want me to use the swim belt anymore, although I still use a pool noodle sometimes. I honestly feel like I wasted my time with the first instructor. Right now, I can float without the noodle, but only for a short time before I start panicking and looking for something to hold onto.

Well, I tried not to give this too much importance, but I just can’t get it out of my head.

I’m a 30yo woman and my husband is 37. We’ve been married for two years and a few months. Ours was an arranged marriage, yet we truly feel like soulmates, like we were created for each other, alhamdulillah.

Since Eid al-Adha is approaching, it’s time to buy sheep for the sacrifice. Usually, this is something my husband and his three brothers do together, and they celebrate Eid at their mother’s house. But this year, one of his brothers decided not to come because last year there was an issue between his wife and the wife of another brother (not me), and their mother took the other wife’s side instead of being fair. Because of that, he decided not to attend this year.

This made my husband and his other brother upset and sad and they will no longer make the sacrifice. Honestly, I don’t really understand why they are so affected by their brother’s decision. If he doesn’t want to come celebrate, that’s his choice. But the sacrifice itself is still something important and religiously encouraged for anyone who is financially able to do it, and I personally love the atmosphere and spirit of Eid.

I mean, why should I feel deprived of enjoying Eid just because their brother chose not to come celebrate?

Is it normal to still feel tired and having body soreness even after my period ends ? This cycle was a little different, I had a 7 days delay and then a heavy bleeding for 2 days, like changing soaking pads every hour or less. And now on 5th day, feeling so tired and having left abdominal ache and a shooting pain to my left leg especially at night. Also still have painful period pimples which usually disappear once the flow starts but not this time, they’re still there hurting whenever I touch them.

I know I should go see a doctor.. and I will, but I want to know if any of you has experienced this. Ok so my period was 7 days late, I had symptoms what to look like early pregnancy symptoms.. I didn’t want to test because my heart wasn’t ready for another heartbreak (been TTC for more than two years). I started having brown spotting which I usually get before every period, then the next day, I had kinda heavy cramps and heavy bleeding that I had to change pads every 1,5 hours, very unusual for me. I’m suspecting that I had an MC or maybe it’s just one of the weird cycles I’m getting since I started TTC . Again I will go see a doctor..I’m just curious and worried.

Here I come back feeling defeated and hopeless to this sub. AF didn’t show for 7 days, stupid me thinking I’m finally pregnant, been having vivid dreams of babies, sore boobs and on & off mild cramps that barely were noticed. Today (my supposed pool day also ladies and gents), that unwelcome guest decides to show as pinkish discharge and no cramping at all, like Idk how the hell did my uterus shed its lining if I didn’t cramp that much smh. Anyways, another fucking weird ass cycle added to my journey of TTC.

Ok so first thing I know that I should take a test but I’m too afraid of another 💔.. anyways, my cycle is usually 30 days and sometimes even less .. but my last cycle was 36 days.. and this month I’m at my 36th day with no sign of AF. I’m having on and off cramps, sore nipples .. usually I get brown discharge but this time nothing.. just yellowish when wiping.. yesterday I was a little nauseous but not today. Did any of you go through this and found out they were pregnant? Again I know I should take a PT but like I said I’m too scared to get another BFN .. I will test prolly if AF doesn’t show in the next 5 days.
Edit: I am TTC and I have unprotected sex like all the time.