u/Radiant_Region_3707

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I need some advice. I am 17m (used chatgpt for grammar and all)

Cousin: mausi ka ladka

I have two sisters. My eldest sister is very responsible, respectful, and always makes my parents proud.

My middle sister is in a relationship with our cousin. The guy is very irresponsible and, from what I've seen, seems to be using her. I caught them together twice.

The first time, I told my mother. She started crying so badly that I genuinely got scared. She could barely calm down, and the whole situation became very serious like I thought ki she was about to die. My father also has asthma, so stress affects his health a lot.

At that time my parents said if she marry our cousin we will sucide. (I know if this happens they surely sucide. My parents owns a shop and they both are well known in our village, some ppl came to ask life advice to my father)

At time time (when she caught) my father said: "First time in life I'm felling like I'm lost life" that thing broke my herat genuinely .

Now I don't know what to do.

I don't want my sister to get hurt, but I also don't want to put my parents through that kind of pain again. If I tell them, there could be another huge family problem. If I stay quiet, I feel like I'm hiding something important.

I can't even able to focus on studies.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? Should I talk to my sister directly, tell my parents again, or stay out of it?

Pata hai aaj kya hua

Edit: guys I'm in 12th preparing for jee. I'm mentally fucked up since 4-5 months. I ruined my 6-8 months thinking Abt it. For rn I'm focusing on my studies. Now I'm skipping that part.

Guys this first time caught and all stuff incident happed a year ago then we restrict her all access with that mf. Then after a year she be like: me ab sudhar gayi hu. Kuch ni karungi, sabke pass phn hai, muze kaisa lagta hoga..

And wo sach me sudhar gayi thi. Usne kuch skills classes join kiye, orders lene lagi, paise kamaye and papa se puch ke mobile liya. Everything went good. But last week behan ke classes ke side wale cafe me us mf ki pic dekhi. Mere per panic attack ane lage, per ladkhadane lage

And thanks to all for giving genuine advice

1. COEP hostel + Mess

2. Rental flat + mess

3. Rental flat + cooking

(I don't want to join hostel actually)

Relation And Function short notes please 🙏😭🙇

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How much I have to pay for 4 years including mess and all.

1. if I took. College hostal

2. if I took pg

(18M)

Actually, I have had a female best friend for the past 2 years. In 10th grade, she had a boyfriend and broke up with him at the end of 10th. After starting 11th, she became very close to me. We used to go to cafes and hang out often.

In 9th, she tied me a rakhi because her boyfriend had told her to, but from 10th onwards, she never asked for a rakhi again. Instead, on Raksha Bandhan, she tied a friendship bracelet on me. Once, she sent me a reel on Instagram and said she wanted a silver ring, so I gifted her one 💍.

All our friends think we are in a relationship, but we’re not. I’m an introvert. I feel she has feelings for me, but she has never confessed it directly. However, I don’t want a serious relationship — I just want something casual with her.

We used to talk every day on WhatsApp. She would text me first almost every day, at least 2-3 times.

Now I’m really confused about what I should do. I want to keep it casual with her but don’t want any commitment.

17M ( Jee and MHT cet aspirant, preparing online)

Atta 12th start zali. 10th nanter sagle mitra dur zale. Kahi clg la gele, kahini offline coaching join keli, tithe tyanche grp banle ani mi ata ekta padlo. Divsatun fakt 10-15 vakya tondatun nighat astil.

Mitranche status baghun vatat ki ky kartoy aapan, te sagle pudh chalet, communication skills, personality develop kartayt ani aapan ajun ithe 3×3 library desk madhe abhyas karat basloy. Kahi mitra relationship madhe ahet. Tyana baghun literally jealous feel hotay.

Atta evdha ekta padloy mazyashi bolayla kon nahiye.

Mentally disturb vhayla lagloy.

Communication skill zero ahe.

Ky karu jara sanga comment madhe !!