Dispute Transaction Advice

Hi everyone,

Made a dispute last month, and the decision just came in. The main gist is, I made a payment for rent on my credit card, and the land lord claimed they never got it and supplied a “payment failed” screenshot. I then made a claim saying that the merchant never got the payment, and therefore I never received the “good”.

Today it came back that I still have to pay it. I called again and they said they are re-opening it. The initial documentation had the aforementioned screenshot, as well as all discussion relating to the failed payment.

Now that it’s being re-opened, can anyone help me with any ideas on what to supply this time so it doesn’t get denied again. It is a large sum, and there is no way I can pay this. Thank you in advance!

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u/Raver811 — 2 days ago

Got Dumped, She Deleted all of our photos today

Food: Penne Vodka

Got dumped two weeks ago. Together a year and a half, and we broke up because I am going to law school and the “distance would be too much.”

I am not trying to be one of those guys that turns around and says “oh she’s crazy” or just complain, but it sucks.

The last two months of our relationship was just me trying to help her feel more secure in our relationship, and in the long distance. I would recommend 20 different ways on how to improve, as well as what I was doing to improve things; however, nothing ever changed. We would get into fights, talk about the impending dread that was being felt, and then repeat.

I put in so much effort into those last two months, and today I looked at Instagram and she already deleted every photo of us. I know it’s healthy and it was going to happen, you will hear no qualms from me about the action itself.

It just sucks.

That is really what I am feeling. This sucks, like a lot. Like I tried a lot, improving myself, trying to be my best self and boyfriend, but no matter what I did or said it did nothing for her.

I know she wasn’t the one, and that The One will try and improve, but this blows.

I could go on and on about this, but you get the point. Today is just another step in it stinging.

u/Raver811 — 18 days ago

Self-help apps?

hi everyone, I am starting law school in a couple weeks here. wondering if anyone has some recommendations on free apps that help meditate/build routines.

there’s been a couple I have tried, but they’re always locked behind monthly subscriptions I can not afford right now.

thanks in advance!

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u/Raver811 — 30 days ago
▲ 4 r/AskMen

Feeling like crap, how do I get out of this?

Hey gang, 24 year old here. I am really having a problem with my mood recently and building habits at all. I am really scared it is going to affect me in law school, which I am starting in one month.

I can’t really build good habits, like reading everyday, setting a good bed time, working out, and more. I also can’t kick some other bad habits like watching 🌽.

I have tried doing so much for this but can’t seem to do it, my dopamine is just terrible now. If people could please share their advice, stories, and even unorthodox tips, please please do.

The next 3 years are super important to me for law school, so I need to really start the chain now to change things for the better. Thanks in advance.

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u/Raver811 — 1 month ago
▲ 0 r/Drexel

Need Help finding Apartments

Hi everyone, looking to find an apartment for this upcoming August.

I am going to be a 1L and have never rented an apartment before. I was wondering if anyone had any general tips for the West Philly apartment market. I am looking for a studio close to University city, and my budget is around 1k.

I have been looking but it feels like a lot of places that are open are owned by not the greatest landlords.

Overall I’m asking for

  • General tips on what to look out for
  • Feasibility of my budget
  • Where to look, and safety of neighborhoods
  • Any success stories with certain landlords

Thanks in advance!

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u/Raver811 — 2 months ago

Trying to buy a 2020

My 2017 Trax got into a wreck back in March, had only 55k miles on it, got only 11k for it from insurance.

Been looking for a new car since and noticed a local dealership selling a 2020 for about 13k, it’s reasonably surging my budget, but saw it needed new brakes, tires, oil change, and when I toured it had a massive scratch on the front.

I told them I’m interested but that I had those concerns. They then told me that the price was solid and that the all in was about 16k in cash.

I know they obviously they don’t have to negotiate it down, but wow almost 4k above bluebook and needed all those repairs they said they didn't want to address because it was a “2020 that isn’t used that much” (mileage says different). Greedy honestly.

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u/Raver811 — 2 months ago

Federal Job Offers from an outside T14 law school?

Hello everyone. Sorry to bother you with such a dumb question, but I’m in a bit of a spiral right now. I’ll cut straight to the point, is it possible to get a job with federal agencies with a school that’s ranked in the 70 to 90 range? Additionally how about clerkships?

Some broader points I know that will come up:

  • Yes, just be at the top of your class
  • Clerkships are hard, but participation in Fed Soc or other organizations (forgetting the name of the other sorry) make it easier.
  • Yes, why is this even a question.

Once again sorry for the question, I am first gen, and need some validation.

As some more, but unnecessary details, I live in the NY tri-state, and would love to move back after grad (but not tied down). I am currently interested in Anti-trust law and potentially working for the DOJ, or any federal agency. I don’t want to say the law school I am going to, but it is also on the East Coast. Thanks in advance, any and all advice is welcome. Be blunt!

Edit: I am a 0L right now.

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u/Raver811 — 2 months ago
▲ 1 r/NBA2k

Cap Breakers and Build Specialization

sorry for the lack of screen grab and a photo of my tv.

Where should I be putting my 4 cap breakers? Also what should my specialization be?

I kind of play online (a lot of my career), but I wont be in about 2 weeks because I’m going to grad school and can’t afford to re-up my PS Plus.

Thanks in advance!

u/Raver811 — 2 months ago
▲ 2 r/NBA2k

$20 for Legendary mode on PS5?

PS5 sale has legendary mode for $20. haven’t played since 2k23, and was wondering if it is worth it to pay $20 for it atp. I mostly play mycareer, and franchise 20% of the time.

Standard edition is $10, but I know that it is usually free on PS Plus this time of year too. lmk what y’all think

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u/Raver811 — 3 months ago

Need help identifying this Muscle

Hello everyone. I have non bacterial CPPS, and have been receiving help from a pelvic floor PT.

I am currently on vacation and noticed a really tense muscle strand and was wondering if anyone can help identify it, and provide releases for it.

The thing muscle starts on the right side of the lower part of my hip bone, mid way between the end of my pelvis and , and sort of follows the end of my ab line. That is the best description I can give. I have a picture with a line that draws the muscle, but obviously no pictures here. PM me if you need it.

I think it may be my psoas minor? It is small, thin and slender, but very tense. It does not require much “digging” or pressure to find it. Near surface.

Anyways, if you can help provide releases and or identifications I’d appreciate it. There is pine but mostly as the base of the pelvis, closer to my hip joint. Thanks!

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u/Raver811 — 3 months ago