Hiya!
So I recently got given £40 by a family member to start reselling so that I could give my room a makeover. I have no idea what I'm doing lol, I know the very basics of what to look for/ what's popular but I'm looking for any tips y'all might have for reselling or finding good shit in charity shops!
(none of these photos are mine)
Hiyaaa! So I'm looking for a bit of help, I really like this room style and it is the goal for the next few months to build up to this style, my only problem is, I'm yet to figure out a clothing style. If I go for the same style as this, it feels too feminine for me, but if I don't, then my style doesn't carry over nicely. It feels like there's no middle ground.
What makes it worse is I'm fat, and my whole life I've felt like I cannot embrace femininity as someone born female or that I don't deserve to be stylish, so this is me trying to do that without feeling dysphoric when it's one of my masculine days and without being completely feminine but still being whimsical.
If y'all could help a they them out with their style, I'd appreciate it
I'm tired of this bro. I've been trying to lose weight for a while now or just make healthier choices. My problem is I don't buy the food shop and, because what I want to buy isnt what the other family members want to buy, I don't get a say in the food shop. This isn't really a problem, except my dad keeps on saying things like "you're going to eat yourself into the grave". This was said to me today after I had a steak, onion and cheese wrap, 2 custard creams and two pieces of toast with two eggs on top (calories this amounts to shown on the screenshot). I'm in a massive calorie deficit and I'm doing really well for myself. I'm not looking to lose loads of weight, just a little.
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I guess my question is am I overreacting by saying this comment is totally unfair considering my efforts which are known throughout the house and my constant work to try to better myself? (Also should mention that, even if I wasn't trying to lose weight or be healthier, I think the message of this comment could have been worded nicer. It's not encouraging and just a bit rude tbh.)
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Hiya!
Me and my friend are at a point where trying to find interesting things to talk about is slightly more difficult since we have such different hobbies and I am no longer in college so there's nothing else to talk about college-wise and we'd love suggestions for hobbies to take part in, to obsess over, and to talk about with one another!
Shows are fine, downloading apps is fine, walking would prefer to be minimal, and we are both creative (but definitely don't mind straying from this).
We are hard customers, show us what you've got! <3
Hiya!
Me and my friend are at a point where trying to find interesting things to talk about is slightly more difficult since we have such different hobbies and I am no longer in college so there's nothing else to talk about college-wise and we'd love suggestions for hobbies to take part in, to obsess over, and to talk about with one another!
Shows are fine, downloading apps is fine, walking would prefer to be minimal, and we are both creative (but definitely don't mind straying from this).
We are hard customers, show us what you've got! <3
Hiya!
So I'm struggling at the minute, I have a gut that honestly I'm not satisfied with. I'm not insecure by any means but my ideal weight is about 10 pounds under what I am now (or enough that my tummy looks slightly smaller). My main problem is portion sizing and snacking.
Now, portion sizing I can fix with small plates and a little restraint, my problem comes in with snacking. I'm so used to snacking frequently at college, I'm talking 2-3 unhealthy snacks a day, because of how easily they're accessible combined with lunches being not very filling at all but extremely high in calorie.
Not only that, but I feel slightly faint or unmotivated to go out with friends and walk about if I don't buy a quick snack. I'm not necessarily looking to lose loads of weight, but I think making slightly healthier choices could help me lose enough weight that it's a visible loss.
Without getting an app, are there any suggestions on what I should do or how to track what I'm eating? Any methods to living slightly healthier than aren't going to be INCREDIBLY noticeably different?
(Also, any tips for shrinking your stomach in general would be great. I just don't get full at all and I want that to change and my body to tell me when it's at full capacity)
Please be kind, I already feel quite nervous posting this.
So I've been told I'm larping because I identify with satanism as more of a philosophy than anything, and I couldn't directly reference the tenets off by heart.
Is this true, and if so how do I correct being a "larper"?
I'm seriously considering leaving The Satanic Temple and leaving my Satanist journey behind because this has happened so frequently with me.
Hiya
I'm having a bit of a crisis rn...
I've been told I'm "Larping" my interests etc because they're boring, basic OR because I can't tell someone every little detail and it's starting to get to me.
So I was wondering if someone could suggest some rather obscure hobbies that don't interfere with my spiritual connection to nature?
Thanks <3
Mentions of ED
I apologize if this post sounds slightly emotional, it's probably because I am very upset about what's just happened.
So I was in one of those podcast ROBLOX games and there was a guy talking to a girl about makeup being a way to catfish (it's not really important) and he was in the middle of the conversation where he had said to the girl that if somebody has an ED then they should die to help society. Eye of course got murdered this and said to him that he is privileged because he's a white man and Roblox has in the past the known to hire misogynist/sexists, racists and just terrible people.
Guess what happened.
Yep I got banned. It kind of proves the point that I was making which I think is ironic, but I'm still mad about it. How is somebody allowed to say the words that came out of his mouth and walk away free well I'm left with a temporary ban for discriminatory behaviour?
If this ban doesn't go through my appeal successfully, I truly will be quitting Roblox. I don't see a point in playing a game that doesn't have the same ideals as me and punishes me for having different ideals. I've spent so much money on this game so I have been slightly deterred from stopping playing however it's got to a point where I'm not comfortable staying on a platform like this. If ROBLOX does not appeal my ban successfully and I find out this guy hasn't been banned I will be quitting unfortunately.
(I used the microphone for this so it might not be completely punctually correct I apologize)
I apologize if this post sounds slightly emotional, it's probably because I am very upset about what's just happened.
So I was in one of those podcast ROBLOX games and there was a guy talking to a girl about makeup being a way to catfish (it's not really important) and he was in the middle of the conversation where he had said to the girl that if somebody has an ED then they should die to help society. Eye of course got murdered this and said to him that he is privileged because he's a white man and Roblox has in the past the known to hire misogynist/sexists, racists and just terrible people.
Guess what happened.
Yep I got banned. It kind of proves the point that I was making which I think is ironic, but I'm still mad about it. How is somebody allowed to say the words that came out of his mouth and walk away free well I'm left with a temporary ban for discriminatory behaviour?
If this ban doesn't go through my appeal successfully, I truly will be quitting Roblox. I don't see a point in playing a game that doesn't have the same ideals as me and punishes me for having different ideals. I've spent so much money on this game so I have been slightly deterred from stopping playing however it's got to a point where I'm not comfortable staying on a platform like this. If ROBLOX does not appeal my ban successfully and I find out this guy hasn't been banned I will be quitting unfortunately.
(I used the microphone for this so it might not be completely punctually correct I apologize)
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So I'm writing a book, it's a horror-adventure novel about this guy at this agency who has to document his findings in this new universe. The world building is going to be very heavy, and every small detail matters.
It is/was going to be in epistolary form, which is becoming a problem for me as I'm unsure of how to get across a sense of urgency or a chase scene for example in past tense. I'm thinking of writing a voice recording or two, or maybe having chunks in between that are present day... My problem is I'm worried it'll feel clumped together and not scary at all.
Basically I'm looking for tips. Should I scrap the epistolary form? What can I do to feel more confident? Any suggestions for any of the problems above would be great. ♥️
So I'm writing a book, it's a horror-adventure novel about this guy at this agency who has to document his findings in this new universe. The world building is going to be very heavy, and every small detail matters.
It is/was going to be in epistolary form, which is becoming a problem for me as I'm unsure of how to get across a sense of urgency or a chase scene for example in past tense. I'm thinking of writing a voice recording or two, or maybe having chunks in between that are present day... My problem is I'm worried it'll feel clumped together and not scary at all.
Basically I'm looking for tips. Should I scrap the epistolary form? What can I do to feel more confident? Any suggestions for any of the problems above would be great. ♥️