If you see someone wearing a mask, please do not photograph us / shout at us / stare us down.
I wear a mask every day whenever I go out. I've been doing so since March 2020. And in certain - otherwise lovely - neighbourhoods, people stare. me. down. I've also had people shout "why are you masking?" from restaurant patios. It doesn't stop me from going out, doing yoga, attending meetup events, hiking, and meeting friends. But it does make it tough to visit some of my fave areas in the city and patronize their cute cafes, boutiques, and beach-adjacent businesses. I've even had a grown adult stop on the sidewalk (!!) and take a photo of me in one of these neighbourhoods? AHHhhhX)
In 2026, many people of all ages and identities are wearing masks for different reasons:
- they're receiving cancer treatment (or have a family member who is) and want to avoid anything that may harm their compromised immune system.
- they have read about the long-term effects of COVID and have personally evaluated that the risks of being maskless are too much for them (and them alone - not imposing their standards on anyone else [this is me])
- they are indeed sick and want to protect others
- they want to avoid smog / smoke
- people cough / sneeze without covering their mouths on the subway
- to avoid the stench that tends to be present at fan conventions / certain raves / on transit
I know that it's super hot right now, which means (1) seeing someone with a protective face mask makes people curious about how comfortable that can possibly be (my mask doesn't feel hot or sweaty even in the heat -- then again, I tend to run cool) and (2) more curious people are taking time off work, walking for leisure, sitting on patios, and generally being outside of their offices more, so they are seeing more people like me wearing masks.
I don't mind curiosity about why I mask, but please try not to be rude or conspicuous with expressing discomfort. I'm just trying to go about my life in a way that keeps me - and my family - safe.