35 M from Hyd trying here for alliance

Hi, I’m a 35-year-old (born in 1991), born and raised in Hyderabad, trying to find an alliance here, as matrimonial seems to be unproductive. Education: I have studied my Master's in Software Engineering in US and moved back to Hyderabad in 2021 due to my father's health setback due to COVID, and as the only son had to help them, currently working as a Test Automation Engineer (WFH). I come from a simple, hard-working family, and belong to the BC community and lead a clean lifestyle, don't smoke or drink, and I've never been married.

Preferences: Looking for a partner (27-35), instead of caste-specific, looking for someone who holds moral values and is from a good family, educated and has a mature mindset, communicates and can be interdependent and patient with each other and not end up fighting against each other. If she is from Hyd, that's great; if not, open to other cities, regarding career, open to discuss what works best, and will be thankful if she doesn't smoke or drink.

If the above aligns with your interests, feel free to ping me. Thank you for taking the time to read

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35 M from Hyd trying here for alliance

Hi, I’m a 35-year-old (born in 1991), born and raised in Hyderabad, trying to find an alliance here, as matrimonial seems to be unproductive. Education: I have studied my Master's in Software Engineering in US and moved back to Hyderabad in 2021 due to my father's health setback due to COVID, and as the only son had to help them, currently working as a Test Automation Engineer (WFH). I come from a simple, hard-working family, and belong to the BC community and lead a clean lifestyle, don't smoke or drink, and I've never been married.

Preferences: Looking for a partner (27-35), instead of caste-specific, looking for someone who holds moral values and is from a good family, educated and has a mature mindset, communicates and can be interdependent and patient with each other and not end up fighting against each other. If she is from Hyd, that's great; if not, open to other cities, regarding career, open to discuss what works best, and will be thankful if she doesn't smoke or drink.

If the above aligns with your interests, feel free to ping . Thank you for taking the time to read

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u/Same-Kaleidoscope754 — 4 days ago

35 M from Hyd trying here for alliance

Hi, I’m a 35-year-old (born in 1991), born and raised in Hyderabad, trying to find an alliance here, as matrimonial seems to be unproductive. Education: I have studied my Master's in Software Engineering in US and moved back to Hyderabad in 2021 due to my father's health setback due to COVID, and as the only son had to help them, currently working as a Test Automation Engineer (WFH). I come from a simple, hard-working family, and belong to the BC community and lead a clean lifestyle, don't smoke or drink, and I've never been married.

Preferences: Looking for a partner (27-35), instead of caste-specific, looking for someone who holds moral values and is from a good family, educated and has a mature mindset, communicates and can be interdependent and patient with each other and not end up fighting against each other. If she is from Hyd, that's great; if not, open to other cities, regarding career, open to discuss what works best, and will be thankful if she doesn't smoke or drink.

If the above aligns with your interests, feel free to ping . Thank you for taking the time to read

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u/Same-Kaleidoscope754 — 5 days ago

35 M from Hyd trying here for alliance

Hi, I’m a 35-year-old (born in 1991), born and raised in Hyderabad, trying to find an alliance here, as matrimonial seems to be unproductive. Education: I have studied my Master's in Software Engineering in US and moved back to Hyderabad in 2021 due to my father's health setback due to COVID, and as the only son had to help them, currently working as a Test Automation Engineer (WFH). I come from a simple, hard-working family, and belong to the BC community and lead a clean lifestyle, don't smoke or drink, and I've never been married.

Preferences: Looking for a partner (27-35), instead of caste-specific, looking for someone who holds moral values and is from a good family, educated and has a mature mindset, communicates and can be interdependent and patient with each other and not end up fighting against each other. If she is from Hyd, that's great; if not, open to other cities, regarding career, open to discuss what works best, and will be thankful if she doesn't smoke or drink.

If the above aligns with your interests, feel free to ping . Thank you for taking the time to read

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u/Same-Kaleidoscope754 — 5 days ago
▲ 3 r/JodiMilan+1 crossposts

35 M from Hyd trying here for alliance

Hi, I’m a 35-year-old (born in 1991), born and raised in Hyderabad, trying to find an alliance here, as matrimonial seems to be unproductive. Education: I have studied my Master's in Software Engineering in US and moved back to Hyderabad in 2021 due to my father's health setback due to COVID, and as the only son had to help them, currently working as a Test Automation Engineer (WFH). I come from a simple, hard-working family, and belong to the BC community and lead a clean lifestyle, don't smoke or drink, and I've never been married.

Preferences: Looking for a partner (27-35), instead of caste-specific, looking for someone who holds moral values and is from a good family, educated and has a mature mindset, communicates and can be interdependent and patient with each other and not end up fighting against each other. If she is from Hyd, that's great; if not, open to other cities, regarding career, open to discuss what works best, and will be thankful if she doesn't smoke or drink.

If the above aligns with your interests, feel free to ping . Thank you for taking the time to read

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u/Same-Kaleidoscope754 — 11 days ago
▲ 2 r/lonely

Struggling with the new status-driven culture and rapid changes in Hyderabad.

I’m a 35M who did my master's and worked in the US for 5 years. I moved back to Hyderabad in 2021 because my dad had a serious health scare during COVID and my parents needed help.

Being back for a few years now, it's jarring to see how much the city—and the people—have changed. The vibe is completely different now with the rapid explosion of gated communities, overcrowding, and crime. I live a pretty quiet life: I work my 9-to-5, go for walks, and just appreciate the simple things. I'm definitely not a party animal.

On top of this, my parents are trying to help me find a partner through the arranged marriage route, but it’s been incredibly tough. It feels like everyone is prioritizing property and financial status over having good family values and the right attitude. I can't tell if this hyper-materialism is a weird post-COVID shift or just the reality of rapid metropolization. Either way, it hurts feeling like a stranger in the city I grew up in.

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u/Same-Kaleidoscope754 — 23 days ago

Struggling with the new status-driven culture and rapid changes in Hyderabad.

I’m a 35M who did my master's and worked in the US for 5 years. I moved back to Hyderabad in 2021 because my dad had a serious health scare during COVID and my parents needed help.

Being back for a few years now, it's jarring to see how much the city—and the people—have changed. The vibe is completely different now with the rapid explosion of gated communities, overcrowding, and crime. I live a pretty quiet life: I work my 9-to-5, go for walks, and just appreciate the simple things. I'm definitely not a party animal.

On top of this, my parents are trying to help me find a partner through the arranged marriage route, but it’s been incredibly tough. It feels like everyone is prioritizing property and financial status over having good family values and the right attitude. I can't tell if this hyper-materialism is a weird post-COVID shift or just the reality of rapid metropolization. Either way, it hurts feeling like a stranger in the city I grew up in.

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u/Same-Kaleidoscope754 — 23 days ago
▲ 1 r/alone

Lonely @35.

Loneliness feels like an astronaut alone drifting in infinite Space. It feels good with Stillness and peace, except without overthinking.

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u/Same-Kaleidoscope754 — 1 month ago
▲ 5 r/lonely

Lonely @35.

Loneliness feels like an astronaut alone drifting in infinite Space. It feels good with Stillness and peace, except without overthinking.

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u/Same-Kaleidoscope754 — 1 month ago