My mom is actively looking for rishta’s for me. I’ve given Muzz a try as well however I am not satisfied with the rishta’s coming around. Hence, here we are. So let’s give this a try.

Name: Batman
Age: 27
Height: 5’2”
City: Karachi, Pakistan

I’m someone who values kindness, sincerity, and a peaceful home. While I can be a little shy at first, I become very warm and comfortable once I get to know people. I enjoy meaningful conversations, spending quality time with family, and finding joy in the little things.

I have completed my masters from Thailand. (MBA)

I have a creative side and enjoy content creation. In my free time, I love reading mystery and crime novels, watching thought-provoking movies and TV shows, and learning about different cultures. I also have a fascination with astronomy and anything related to space. I enjoy trying different cuisines (especially Korean food) and appreciate a good cup of coffee.

I’ve been an only child for most of my life, so family means a great deal to me. I enjoy helping around the house and can cook the basics well enough (my mom is the real chef at home!), and I’m always happy to learn and improve. I’ve also spent the majority of my abroad.

My faith is an important part of my life, I don’t pray 5 times a day and I don’t do hijaab. However, I try my best to pray regularly and I try to be the best version of myself Islamic-ally and I’m looking for someone who values Islam, has good character, and believes in treating others with kindness and respect. More than perfection, I admire honesty, emotional maturity, and someone who communicates openly.

I’m hoping to build a marriage based on companionship, mutual respect, trust, laughter, and the intention of growing together through every stage of life.

Looking For

Age: 30–36
Height: 5’8”–6’0”

Emotionally mature, calm, patient, and understanding.
Consistent communicator who believes in addressing problems rather than avoiding them.

Financially stable and responsible.

Practices Islam sincerely and prioritizes his faith. Prays regularly. Kind, respectful, and knows how to treat his parents, my parents, and his spouse with love and dignity.

A smaller family setup is preferred. I’m looking for a nuclear family arrangement rather than a joint family system.

Someone who values his health and maintains an active lifestyle. I appreciate a person who enjoys staying fit, whether through sports, regular exercise, or simply taking good care of himself.

Someone who has a good sense of humour and doesn’t chalk up humour for badtameezi.

Someone who shows up, keeps his word, and understands that consistency is one of the strongest forms of care.

If you’re someone who’s settled abroad then that’s a big bonus. Otherwise it’s not really an issue.

Non-Negotiables

Does not drink alcohol.
Emotionally manipulative or narcissistic traits.
No habitual use of foul or abusive language.
No uncontrolled anger or abusive temperament.
Doesn’t think Batman is cool.

I believe physical attraction and compatibility are important for both individuals, so I’d appreciate mutual honesty in that regard.

After marriage, I’d like to focus on my home and family rather than pursuing a career outside the home. I’m not currently working.

If we feel our values align, the conversation flows naturally, and we build a genuine connection, I’d prefer to involve our families sooner rather than later.

May Allah bless everyone who is sincerely searching with righteous spouses and a marriage filled with love, mercy, and barakah. Ameen.

If you think our vibes would match kindly dm me your details with your picture if possible.

Since the last two weeks. The only thing I hear my dad say about me is that I’m useless, I’m worthless and that I cannot do anything in life all because I haven’t started earning.

He wants me to earn a certain about of money. Enough to support my mom and enough to take over all his responsibilities so that he could start living his life while I take over his responsibilities for him.

He has created such unrealistic expectations from me and I am not able to work according to those expectations.

All I can think about is how useless I am, that’s all I’ve been hearing. I thought it wasn’t effecting me but I realised that it was. This is taking a toll on me and I literally keep thinking about I haven’t achieved anything in life and now that my father wants me to earn I’m unable to do that.

A part of me knows and completely understands that the expectations my toxic, narcissistic father has put on me I can’t fulfil those. Especially at this time when I’ve never worked a day in my life, where I don’t have any skills.

My mom has a firm belief that I’ll achieve so many good things in life. I look at her and I hate myself because I cannot give her a good life. I’ve failed at that. I’ve failed as a daughter. She thinks I can pull our family out of ruins. That I have the skills and the talent but I just lack confidence and courage but I know that’s a lie. I’ve failed as a daughter.

Almost everyone around me says I’ll achieve big things but my dad believes I’m useless and can’t do anything at all. I don’t know what to believe. My mind makes me believe that my dad is right. Maybe he is. Maybe he isn’t. I don’t know.

My father has always been against marriage. He has made my mom’s life a living hell and now since the last 2 years he’s been making mine as well.

Since last 8 months he’s been trying to teach me trading so I could earn on my own. His idea behind that is that I take care of all the house and life expenses and he roams around freely without the responsibility and the burden. For context he’s expecting me to earn almost 1500 USD from trading as a beginner trader.

He has multiple times told me I’m a burden on him and he’s so tired of my responsibility and that marrying my mother was a mistake and on the other hand he adores my brat of an adoptive 8 year old little sister. I’m 29 years old.

First he didn’t let me work at all and now out of no where he wants me to earn enough to have a stable income for a house of 4 people. Anyway, my mom has been looking for a few proposals for myself a few we liked and a few we didn’t. The environment of our house has gotten so toxic that the only way out of this seems to be marrying but now my dad is making this halal step miserable for me.

Over the past few years of my live I’ve had some amazing proposals. One from a guy that I loved. But papa told him no by saying I was too young and have to study further. That one broke my heart completely. My dad is a narcissist but also very charismatic. He knows how to make people do things according to his wishes and we always fell into that.

Every decent proposal we’ve found he’d find a way to say no.

Fast forward to 9 years later, now. 4 days ago he sat me and mama down and asked me seriously about whether I wanted to work to marry. I told him the way you wanted me to earn I can’t or will be unable to do that in such a short amount of time. I then told him that I’d like to get married.

Ever since I said that he has now made the situation in our house so tense and so exhausting. Recently I got two proposals. One guy was good looking but when my family visited his house they didn’t even have the basic necessities.

The other guy, he’s decent looking but his background is a lot better than my father’s current background and this guy has liked me previously as well. He wants to move to Canada after getting married and he wants to settle there as well. He keeps my likes and wants on priority. This guy came to met papa and he did one unfortunate mistake of calling my dad Uncle instead of brother. My dad is 56 and this guy is 32.

Ever since then he’s been taunting this guy and he’s been calling him big brother in a sarcastic, taunting way.

He’s been calling me and mama downstairs to “talk”. The first thing he asks is what did that big brother say. The one thing he keeps saying that has been annoying is the do it quickly, be quick. Quickly get married and get rid of her (me). He’s saying find someone in 3 days to a week and then get the things finalised. The worst thing he said in the midst of all this is that if you’re in such a hurry to get married then go stand outside, grab every guy and ask him if he’s married. If he’s single then call him inside and talk about the marriage proposal. It’s so insulting and humiliating. Last night he bought the same stuff up. I listened quietly as I always do but then he said do it quickly do it quickly. That turned a switch for me. I told him that yes we’ll find someone but it cannot happen in a week or even in a month like you want it to.

The other guy, his main family lives in a different city but he will and always have lived in my city. Papa is saying just get all my family together and go to his house in the different city. Mama told him that we’re the girls side of the family, traditionally we cannot do such things. It’s the boys side who visits first. Dad brushed it off by saying it’s a modern world everything works. Mama and I shared this entire conversation with papa’s younger brother and younger sister and they also said that it’s not okay to do such a thing.

Last night however I couldn’t stop myself and I exploded. After being patient since a large part of my life, after always respecting my dad even more than he deserves, after staying silent for all my life I finally exploded. I told him that I can’t get married to someone in a month, I cannot earn as much as you want me to. I’m tired already because of the toxicity of this household. In anger mama said that he adopted our sister without asking us and lo and behold this pissed him off. He said how can you say that in front of my little girl.

He adopted my 8 year old little sister without asking or even telling me and mama. One day we woke up and she was there. Even then we accepted her. She’s turning into one of the most brat, distrusting, annoying, liar, manipulative of a human being to ever exist and I know she’s a kid hence I’m not saying this lightly.

After all this talk there’s always threats that I’ll kick you all out, put you on the road etc etc.

I have 3 plots to my name, mama has one and I have one apartment to my name. Papa wants to kick mama out after I get married since he has no use of her anymore according to him lol. Mama said the apartment that’s all ready is in our daughters name so I’ll just live there. Dad said no I’m gonna be living there, you can go back to your parents’s house.

Let this be known that my dad is a rich guy. He doesn’t need to live in a small, tiny apartment in a bad area. He’s just using this as a weapon against us so that mama will be on the road and I won’t have any home to turn back to.

I’m sorry for this being so long but this is my current situation and I really don’t know how to deal with this anymore.

I like him and I’ve fallen into this trap again.

We started talking 2 months ago. He used to be so active. The replies were quick and he would call me, there were video calls out of nowhere. He’d call me even when he was driving. The conversation was consistent and it flowed nicely. There were always good morning texts.

The replies were fast and he would hold a conversation. He’d send me pictures and selfies, he’d keep me updated with his work and his family. He’d let me know where he was going and would talk to me otw there. He even purchased a Batman light when I told him I liked it.

We met up once and the meeting was good.

He has completely changed now, the texts are getting less and less. He uses Snapchat and instagram but barely has 10 seconds to reply to me and when he does the replies are so dry. He doesn’t keep me updated nor asks how I’m doing anymore. He sprinkles a little crumb of selfies here and there.

I’ve asked him to call me thrice and he hasn’t done that yet. I’ve asked him to plan a meet up again, he hasn’t done that yet. He video called me yesterday morning claiming that I was mad at him and to make up he called me.

It was a good conversation but then he started asking for a “morning fit check” I was a little uncomfortable but still obliged but he wasn’t satisfied with it so I jokingly said that he was emotionally blackmailing me and I guess that pissed him off. He’s been acting even more off since then. It’s the next morning and I’m still waiting for his morning text desperately and I feel so utterly stupid.

A few weeks back I told him that his late replies and dry responses were a bit worrying but he chalked that off as him being busy.

He used to be busy before as well but he always made time. He knows I like him and yet..

I feel stupid. I know when I’m not being respected and it leads me to overthink about what’s so wrong with me that he’s pulling away all of a sudden. I really like him but his behaviour shows otherwise. It’s taking all of my power to not text him and ask him what’s wrong or why he’s acting like this. I’m someone who likes and appreciates clear communication and if he’s does tell me he doesn’t like me then I don’t mind but at least be clear about it.

How do I deal with this?

My father has always been against marriage. He has made my mom’s life a living hell and now since the last 2 years he’s been making mine as well.

Since last 8 months he’s been trying to teach me trading so I could earn on my own. His idea behind that is that I take care of all the house and life expenses and he roams around freely without the responsibility and the burden. For context he’s expecting me to earn almost 1500 USD from trading as a beginner trader.

He has multiple times told me I’m a burden on him and he’s so tired of my responsibility and that marrying my mother was a mistake and on the other hand he adores my brat of an adoptive 8 year old little sister. I’m 29 years old.

First he didn’t let me work at all and now out of no where he wants me to earn enough to have a stable income for a house of 4 people. Anyway, my mom has been looking for a few proposals for myself a few we liked and a few we didn’t. The environment of our house has gotten so toxic that the only way out of this seems to be marrying but now my dad is making this halal step miserable for me.

Over the past few years of my live I’ve had some amazing proposals. One from a guy that I loved. But papa told him no by saying I was too young and have to study further. That one broke my heart completely. My dad is a narcissist but also very charismatic. He knows how to make people do things according to his wishes and we always fell into that.

Every decent proposal we’ve found he’d find a way to say no.

Fast forward to 9 years later, now. 4 days ago he sat me and mama down and asked me seriously about whether I wanted to work to marry. I told him the way you wanted me to earn I can’t or will be unable to do that in such a short amount of time. I then told him that I’d like to get married.

Ever since I said that he has now made the situation in our house so tense and so exhausting. Recently I got two proposals. One guy was good looking but when my family visited his house they didn’t even have the basic necessities.

The other guy, he’s decent looking but his background is a lot better than my father’s current background and this guy has liked me previously as well. He wants to move to Canada after getting married and he wants to settle there as well. He keeps my likes and wants on priority. This guy came to met papa and he did one unfortunate mistake of calling my dad Uncle instead of brother. My dad is 56 and this guy is 32.

Ever since then he’s been taunting this guy and he’s been calling him big brother in a sarcastic, taunting way.

He’s been calling me and mama downstairs to “talk”. The first thing he asks is what did that big brother say. The one thing he keeps saying that has been annoying is the do it quickly, be quick. Quickly get married and get rid of her (me). He’s saying find someone in 3 days to a week and then get the things finalised. The worst thing he said in the midst of all this is that if you’re in such a hurry to get married then go stand outside, grab every guy and ask him if he’s married. If he’s single then call him inside and talk about the marriage proposal. It’s so insulting and humiliating. Last night he bought the same stuff up. I listened quietly as I always do but then he said do it quickly do it quickly. That turned a switch for me. I told him that yes we’ll find someone but it cannot happen in a week or even in a month like you want it to.

The other guy, his main family lives in a different city but he will and always have lived in my city. Papa is saying just get all my family together and go to his house in the different city. Mama told him that we’re the girls side of the family, traditionally we cannot do such things. It’s the boys side who visits first. Dad brushed it off by saying it’s a modern world everything works. Mama and I shared this entire conversation with papa’s younger brother and younger sister and they also said that it’s not okay to do such a thing.

Last night however I couldn’t stop myself and I exploded. After being patient since a large part of my life, after always respecting my dad even more than he deserves, after staying silent for all my life I finally exploded. I told him that I can’t get married to someone in a month, I cannot earn as much as you want me to. I’m tired already because of the toxicity of this household. In anger mama said that he adopted our sister without asking us and lo and behold this pissed him off. He said how can you say that in front of my little girl.

He adopted my 8 year old little sister without asking or even telling me and mama. One day we woke up and she was there. Even then we accepted her. She’s turning into one of the most brat, distrusting, annoying, liar, manipulative of a human being to ever exist and I know she’s a kid hence I’m not saying this lightly.

After all this talk there’s always threats that I’ll kick you all out, put you on the road etc etc.

I have 3 plots to my name, mama has one and I have one apartment to my name. Papa wants to kick mama out after I get married since he has no use of her anymore according to him lol. Mama said the apartment that’s all ready is in our daughters name so I’ll just live there. Dad said no I’m gonna be living there, you can go back to your parents’s house.

Let this be known that my dad is a rich guy. He doesn’t need to live in a small, tiny apartment in a bad area. He’s just using this as a weapon against us so that mama will be on the road and I won’t have any home to turn back to.

I’m sorry for this being so long but this is my current situation and I really don’t know how to deal with this anymore.

My father has always been against marriage. He has made my mom’s life a living hell and now since the last 2 years he’s been making mine as well.

Since last 8 months he’s been trying to teach me trading so I could earn on my own. His idea behind that is that I take care of all the house and life expenses and he roams around freely without the responsibility and the burden. For context he’s expecting me to earn almost 1500 USD from trading as a beginner trader.

He has multiple times told me I’m a burden on him and he’s so tired of my responsibility and that marrying my mother was a mistake and on the other hand he adores my brat of an adoptive 8 year old little sister. I’m 29 years old.

First he didn’t let me work at all and now out of no where he wants me to earn enough to have a stable income for a house of 4 people. Anyway, my mom has been looking for a few proposals for myself a few we liked and a few we didn’t. The environment of our house has gotten so toxic that the only way out of this seems to be marrying but now my dad is making this halal step miserable for me.

Over the past few years of my live I’ve had some amazing proposals. One from a guy that I loved. But papa told him no by saying I was too young and have to study further. That one broke my heart completely. My dad is a narcissist but also very charismatic. He knows how to make people do things according to his wishes and we always fell into that.

Every decent proposal we’ve found he’d find a way to say no.

Fast forward to 9 years later, now. 4 days ago he sat me and mama down and asked me seriously about whether I wanted to work to marry. I told him the way you wanted me to earn I can’t or will be unable to do that in such a short amount of time. I then told him that I’d like to get married.

Ever since I said that he has now made the situation in our house so tense and so exhausting. Recently I got two proposals. One guy was good looking but when my family visited his house they didn’t even have the basic necessities.

The other guy, he’s decent looking but his background is a lot better than my father’s current background and this guy has liked me previously as well. He wants to move to Canada after getting married and he wants to settle there as well. He keeps my likes and wants on priority. This guy came to met papa and he did one unfortunate mistake of calling my dad Uncle instead of brother. My dad is 56 and this guy is 32.

Ever since then he’s been taunting this guy and he’s been calling him big brother in a sarcastic, taunting way.

He’s been calling me and mama downstairs to “talk”. The first thing he asks is what did that big brother say. The one thing he keeps saying that has been annoying is the do it quickly, be quick. Quickly get married and get rid of her (me). He’s saying find someone in 3 days to a week and then get the things finalised. The worst thing he said in the midst of all this is that if you’re in such a hurry to get married then go stand outside, grab every guy and ask him if he’s married. If he’s single then call him inside and talk about the marriage proposal. It’s so insulting and humiliating. Last night he bought the same stuff up. I listened quietly as I always do but then he said do it quickly do it quickly. That turned a switch for me. I told him that yes we’ll find someone but it cannot happen in a week or even in a month like you want it to.

The other guy, his main family lives in a different city but he will and always have lived in my city. Papa is saying just get all my family together and go to his house in the different city. Mama told him that we’re the girls side of the family, traditionally we cannot do such things. It’s the boys side who visits first. Dad brushed it off by saying it’s a modern world everything works. Mama and I shared this entire conversation with papa’s younger brother and younger sister and they also said that it’s not okay to do such a thing.

Last night however I couldn’t stop myself and I exploded. After being patient since a large part of my life, after always respecting my dad even more than he deserves, after staying silent for all my life I finally exploded. I told him that I can’t get married to someone in a month, I cannot earn as much as you want me to. I’m tired already because of the toxicity of this household. In anger mama said that he adopted our sister without asking us and lo and behold this pissed him off. He said how can you say that in front of my little girl.

He adopted my 8 year old little sister without asking or even telling me and mama. One day we woke up and she was there. Even then we accepted her. She’s turning into one of the most brat, distrusting, annoying, liar, manipulative of a human being to ever exist and I know she’s a kid hence I’m not saying this lightly.

After all this talk there’s always threats that I’ll kick you all out, put you on the road etc etc.

I have 3 plots to my name, mama has one and I have one apartment to my name. Papa wants to kick mama out after I get married since he has no use of her anymore according to him lol. Mama said the apartment that’s all ready is in our daughters name so I’ll just live there. Dad said no I’m gonna be living there, you can go back to your parents’s house.

Let this be known that my dad is a rich guy. He doesn’t need to live in a small, tiny apartment in a bad area. He’s just using this as a weapon against us so that mama will be on the road and I won’t have any home to turn back to.

I’m sorry for this being so long but this is my current situation and I really don’t know how to deal with this anymore.