I luv having non-fluid pronouns and masculine transition goals!

Hi, im a genderfluid person who switches between girl/boy/enby. My pronouns, however, are he/she/they no matter what gender I am. I love it. I haven't come out yet, but im so excited for people to use those pronouns on me. The thought of being called every gender no matter what gender I am makes me feel so good! My transition goals are very masculine, I want to have a beard, thick arm hair, broad shoulders, and a flat hairy chest (the only trait i want to have that could be considered feminine is long hair). I love knowing im still able to be a girl while looking just like a guy! 💚💚💚

Just a sprinkle of genderfluid joy I wanted to share! 💚

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u/Skycotlfan-883 — 13 days ago

Why do I hate one of my genders

Hi, so I'm genderfluid and I switch between girl, boy, and enby. I hate being a girl, if I could choose, id just be some flavor of boy/enby. But whenever I try, the girl feeling always comes back, it usually feels way too light and wrong. I can't stay in girl mode for too long without feeling awful, and I hate dresses and usually hate my beasts, but when I feel like a girl, I quite literally feel like a girl, I know I am a girl, occasionally I enjoy it, mostly I hate it. I hear a lot of genderfluid people saying they prefer being their Arab because it means less dysphoria, but I love being a boy and enby way more. I at least am somewhat uncomfortable in dresses and skirts. Ive tryed to be a fem-aligned enby, but my mind always wants me to call myself a girl. I've felt like this for a while​.

What's wrong with me? Is it possible for me to be happy?

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u/Skycotlfan-883 — 14 days ago
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How to pass facial wise?

Hi, I'm a pre-T trans boy, and I really want to pass. I feel like my face is too feminine-ly shaped. Are there any accessories or something I could wear that would make my face appear more masculine?

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u/Skycotlfan-883 — 19 days ago

Bigender names?

I just found out im bigender and want a name, does anyone have any ideas for names that count as "bigender names"? I don't really have a good definition for that but maybe something both feminine and masculine?

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u/Skycotlfan-883 — 22 days ago

Can I be a lesboy/turigirl if I only experience aesthetic attraction?

Hi, I'm aroace, but I experience Aesthetic Attraction to real-life girls and fictional boys, I also identify as Pseudofluid, and I usually adopt expressions from the The Galactian Alignment System (right now I'm Solarian presenting) and I kinda wanna identify as a Turigirl when I'm Lunarian presenting and a Lesboy when I'm Solarian presenting, but idk if it counts if I only experience aesthetic attraction, is it okay if I use these labels? Or is there another label(s) I can use?

u/Skycotlfan-883 — 1 month ago

Fictomiaesthetic flag?

Hi, I'm aroace, and I feel aesthetic attraction to real-life girls, and aesthetic attraction to fictional boys (there's a bit of crossover, but not much) and I know that the first thing is called fiaesthetic, and im pretty sure the second thing would be called fictomiaesthetic, but there isn't a flag for it. Can someone please make a fictomiaesthetic flag? 💚

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u/Skycotlfan-883 — 1 month ago

Quoigender names???

So I recently found out that I'm Quoigender, (any/all) and I'm in the market for a name or names that fit me, im mostly androgynous leaning, and I know its kinda a weird request but does anyone have any ideas for something that might fit me???

If it helps, maybe something with goblincore, spacecore, or lolita vibes? :) 💚

u/Skycotlfan-883 — 1 month ago

Is it weird that I'm fluid between two types of non-binary?

Hey, so I'm genderfaun and boyflux, which I've known for a while, but today I figured out exactly what genders I'm fluid between. I'm fluid between male, non-binary, and agender, using he/him, they/them, and it/its respectively, I also am sometime between two genders and use two different sets of pronouns (like maybe one day I'm part boy and part agender so I use he/it).

But I've been wondering, since agender is technically under the non-binary umbrella, is it weird that I'm fluid between both agender and non-binary? They feel different- when I'm non-binary I distinctively feel my gender, its just androgynous. But when I feel agender, I just feel emptiness where I would normally feel my gender. I also don't really consider my particular brand of agenderness to be under the non-binary umbrella, I know the term itself is non-binary, but when I'm agender, I don't really feel non-binary, I just don't feel gender.

So idk, what do you all think?

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u/Skycotlfan-883 — 1 month ago
▲ 13 r/egg_irl

Egg😳😳😳irl

It's totally normal and cis to draw your current transition goals and then feel really, really good, right?!?

Funnily enough, this is probably one of the best drawings I've made recently. But when I showed it to my dad without saying it was my transition goals (I'm not out yet) he laughed and called it a "funny picture" so ☹️

u/Skycotlfan-883 — 2 months ago
▲ 10 r/plural

Could I possibly be on the plurality spectrum?

Hi, I've been questioning if I may be on the plurality spectrum, and wanted to know what you guys think, here's why I think that:

  1. As soon as I heard about plurality, I was immediately captived by the concept and wanted to be a system, I've heard many systems say this was their experience before they discovered their plurality, so maybe its a sign?

  2. Recently, there's been instances when in the middle of the day, my mum will say she told me some info that morning, and I have no recollection of it to a concerning degree, it doesn't ring a single bell, when I try to summon up any memory of it its just blank. I assumed I had just zoned out but maybe it could have been from a headmate temporarily fronting? Idk, this is my least convincing piece of evidence.

  3. And lastly is an incident from when I was little. I went to a friend's house for a birthday one day, and the next time I visited, the friend's mum took me aside and told me somebody had drawn on the wall at the party and NUMEROUS kids had said they saw me do it. I had no recollection of this, and swore I hadn't done it until I was in tears, but she was still convinced I had. For most of my life I've explained it by saying the kids must have been lying, but it seems strange that more than one kid would corrordinate a lie like that. Maybe it was a headmate fronting temporarily.

This is all kinda clutching for straws, but since I still can't come to a conclusion, I thought it might be best to ask some systems.

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u/Skycotlfan-883 — 2 months ago
▲ 31 r/plural

Is it bad to want to be a system?

Hey, I'm currently a singlet (I think??? Something close at least) but I really like the idea of being a system, multiple people, using we/us, and I think I've heard of systems purposefully becoming systems, but idk if thats something im allowed to do or of its bad, I only found out this was a thing literally today.

If it isn't bad, does anyone know how to do it? I think maybe I could do it through lucid dreaming, but I quite honestly have no clue lol.

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u/Skycotlfan-883 — 2 months ago

New gender coined- Genderfoam! (I really hope this doesn't already exist)

Genderfoam! Its a binary version of/the opposite of Genderflor, its a genderfluid person who only switches between genders that classify as binary, sorry if this already exists, but I haven't seen it yet.

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u/Skycotlfan-883 — 2 months ago

Coining a new term! (Sorry if it already exists or if this is a bad sub for only Coining the term)

Genderfoam! Its a binary version of/the opposite of Genderflor, its a genderfluid person who only switches between genders that classify as binary, sorry if this already exists, but I haven't seen it yet.

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u/Skycotlfan-883 — 2 months ago

Subreddit for coining non-xenogender

I just thought if an idea for a gender I want to coin, but the only subreddit where I've seen people coining genders is this one and the gender I want to coin isn't a xenogender, does anyone have any advice of where I should go? Thanks 💚

(If it helps, the gender I want to coin falls under the genderfluid flag)

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u/Skycotlfan-883 — 2 months ago