u/South_Golf4884

حتى فرنسا غادي تودع إن شاء الله 🙂

Why do people DM you just for the sake of DMing you if they don't actually wanna talk?

My post is simple: I just want to have genuine conversations with adults, not people who act like CHILDREN. We can talk about literally anything, our interests, our cultures, our daily lives, or whatever you're genuinely passionate about.

It's really that simple. If you're looking for a real conversation and want to talk on Discord, Feel Free to reach out.

Paying attention to the little details makes dating so much easier.

Instead of sitting there stressing about what question you're gonna ask next just actually listen to what she's saying.

Treat it like you're talking to one of your friends and let the conversation build itself from the little details she gives you.

Most of the time your next question or comment is already right there if you're actually paying attention.

ماشي هي تهضر ونت راك ساهي تفكر فالسؤال الموالي،

The conversation will be awkward and you will feel both disconnected lol.

For anyone who missed my first post

TL;DR: Went on a blind date with a woman way taller than me. We somehow clicked and she wants a second date. The only problem is she met the drunk version of me not the awkward overthinking version 😭

Well I read all the comments and... you guys convinced me. I'm going on the second date.

We agreed to spend Sunday at the beach. I'm not gonna lie I'm still nervous as hell. Am gonna have a couple of drinks to calm my brain down and hopefully we'll have a good time together.

I have no idea how it's gonna go but I'm looking forward to seeing her again instead of disappearing like I was planning to. Wish the short king some luck .

Hey!

I'm looking for open-minded adults who enjoy real conversations over voice. We can talk in English or French, whatever feels natural.

I'm into discussing psychology, books, movies, philosophy, science, different cultures, life experiences, weird "what if" questions, or just seeing where the conversation goes.

If you're curious, respectful, and enjoy conversations that are more than just small talk, I think we'd get along.

If you're interested, Feel Free to reach out.

I am 35M.

I am from Morocco.so, Even if you're from North Africa, that's totally okay! My main goal is simply to have interesting conversations while practicing French and English. I'm open to talking about almost anything, and I hope we can both improve together in a relaxed, pressure-free way.

واحد الحاجة مافهمتهاش خصوصا عند البنات(الجيل الجديد)، مثلا تكونو مجمعين وتبقى تخلط الدارجة مع لونݣلي ولا الفرونسي، زعما علاش؟!!!! واش باش تبانو كلاس زعما ولا كفاش؟؟!!! شي خطرات كاتبانلي فشي وحدة غي نصقل ربها ونزيد.

I'm 5'5" (166 cm), pretty easygoing, and I've had my fair share of dating. Objectively, life isn't bad.

The one thing I just can't seem to get over is my head size. I'm constantly aware of it, and sometimes it makes me feel self-conscious even when everything else is going well.

I know most people probably don't notice it as much as I do, but it's one of those insecurities that sticks with you.

Has anyone else dealt with this? Did you eventually stop caring, or is it something that still bothers you?

I'm genuinely curious to hear your thoughts. Be honest.

I went on a blind date, and to my surprise she was probably at least 180 cm (5'11") while I'm only 166 cm (5'5").

There was a few seconds of awkward silence when we first met, but luckily I was a little drunk(in fact I always drink when I am on a date), so I just rolled with it. We ended up having lunch, talking for hours, and honestly we had a really good vibe.

She even said she'd like to go on a second date because she found me funny and "confident".

The problem is... I have no idea how to tell her that the guy she met was basically a alcohol-powered version of me. Sober me would've been overthinking the height difference before I even said "hi." 😭

I am thinking to block her and move on.

Hey everyone,

I'm a guy in my 30s looking for people who genuinely enjoy conversations, not just small talk.

I'm interested in discussing pretty much anything: psychology, everyday life, different cultures, random shower thoughts, unpopular opinions, or even debating topics we completely disagree on (respectfully, of course).

My goal isn't just to improve my English and French. I'd like to meet people who are curious, challenge each other's ideas, and hopefully grow a little together along the way.

You don't have to be a teacher or a language expert. If you're someone who enjoys thoughtful conversations, asks questions, and doesn't mind the occasional awkward language mistake, we'll probably get along.

If this sounds like your kind of exchange, feel free to reach out.

Hey everyone,

I'm a guy in my 30s looking for people who genuinely enjoy conversations, not just small talk.

I'm interested in discussing pretty much anything: psychology, everyday life, different cultures, random shower thoughts, unpopular opinions, or even debating topics we completely disagree on (respectfully, of course).

My goal isn't just to improve my English and French. I'd like to meet people who are curious, challenge each other's ideas, and hopefully grow a little together along the way.

You don't have to be a teacher or a language expert. If you're someone who enjoys thoughtful conversations, asks questions, and doesn't mind the occasional awkward language mistake, we'll probably get along.

If this sounds like your kind of exchange, feel free to reach out.

Pretty much what the title says. I've always wondered what life would look like if we were completely free from our fears, fantasies and actually acted on them instead of keeping them locked away.

It's been quite a while since I've had the opportunity to speak English or French on a regular basis, and I can genuinely feel my fluency deteriorating.

If anyone is interested in having engaging conversations about virtually anything, feel free to reach out. I'm always happy to discuss a wide range of topics and exchange perspectives.

Ideally, I'm looking for someone with at least a B2 level in both languages, close to C1.

I've come to terms with my height a long time ago, so this isn't a pity post or an insecurity rant.

I'm genuinely curious about women's perspectives, especially in Morocco.

How do you view a relationship where the man is shorter than the woman? Would you date a shorter man if you liked his personality, confidence, mindset and values? Or is height a dealbreaker for you?

For women who are taller than average, have you ever dated a shorter man? How was the experience?

I'd appreciate honest answers rather than politically correct ones. I'm just interested in understanding different preferences and viewpoints.

Thanks.

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله، هادي حوالي 10 سنين كان المستوى ديالي فاللغة الإنجليزية متقدم بزاف، ولكن من بعد انقطعت تقريباً نهائياً على استعمالها والتحدث بها. وحتى الفرنسية وليت كنستعملها غير مرة مرة. النتيجة أن اللغتين بجوج ما بقيتش كنهضرهم بنفس الطلاقة والثقة اللي كانت عندي من قبل.

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المهم الى كان شي واحد غراضو نديرو بروكرام هاد الصيف نهضرو نص ساعة فالنهار يتواصل معايا، بصح مايكونش مزلج، يكون على الأقل عنده مستوى فوق المتوسط.

Please Consider time Zone GMT+1:

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I'm seriously considering a career change within the next six months. I am studying almost every day, but it's good to have some company and accountability.

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I'm looking for one serious study buddy. The idea is simple: we hop on a voice call, stay muted, and each one focus on his/her own work while keeping each other accountable.

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Age: 35M

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Time zone: GMT+1

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If you're committed and looking for a similar arrangement, feel free to reach out.

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I'm seriously considering a career change within the next six months. I am studying almost every day, but it's good to have some company and accountability.

I'm looking for one serious study buddy. The idea is simple: we hop on a voice call on Discord, stay muted, and each focus on our own work while keeping each other accountable.

Age: 35

Time zone: GMT+1

If you're committed and looking for a similar arrangement, feel free to reach out.

السلام عليكم، يالله عادي نسكن إن شاء الله فالقنيطرة، وبغيت نعرف شي لصال مزيان نتاع البوكس ولا الكيك بوكسينغ

المهم باختصار شديد راني فواحد الخدمة لي مابقيتش نحس فيها بطعم الرضى، كنت ناوي نبقى فيها على الاكثر عام ولكن يا حسراه أكثر من 13 عام وانا فهاد الخدمة حتى وليت مكلخ، النفسية مدمرة ومابقاش يجيني النعاس بكثرة التفكير، المهم كتبت الاستقالة وأتمنى أن تكون لدي الشجاعة باش ندفعها الاثنين إن شاء الله.

للعلم فقط:

خدام بنيفوا تقني

عندي ماستر لي عمرني خدمت به ربما بسبب الثقة فالنفس عندي زيروا.

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله،

إذا رأيتم منشوري فلا تنسوني من دعائكم، فأنا أمر بفترة صعبة ولدي أمر مصيري جدًا أسأل الله أن ييسره لي ويكتب لي فيه الخير.