u/Spacenurse07

New album, dreamy synth music from Devin Townsend coming this Friday October 16th.

I'm really liking this type of music

Better than drinking. Sometimes. I began drinking this year. Awful timeline. It's too much. I do listen to SYL, it feels great too.

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I was feeling down when I wrote this. I never drank after 21. I'm 39 now and begin. I'm in the US. That's why too. The news, seeing more people being homeless, people suffering, etc. But it's just some of the problems. Working on soon moving out and being away from mean people to my own place and be happy again. It'll be alright

We've been dating for 3 months. We like each other.

But he's a very busy guy. Always busy on weekends with running, family and friends. He cancelled on me twice. And now a third time. I invited him to see my favorite comedian and he said yes and then he cancels it. Said he has a bachelor's party that weekend.

He promised me to hang out and cancels to celebrate his relatives birthday and after his trip he goes to see his friends.

He promised me to hang out after his trip, never made plans and he made plans with his friends for the weekend. Other week before I waited and then he told a day before Saturday that he's busy with his relatives birthday celebration on the weekend.

Now he wants to see me during the week after work. I told him I'm tired. We never hang out on weekends during the day. In evenings like last time he was yawning because came from a bbq. He's so busy on weekends, Saturday and Sunday.

He wants a life partner like his dating profile says but doesn't have the time for his partner and doesn't realize what a relationship means with a person you like. He did say I'm beautiful and have a great body.

I make plans too. I initiated the first date, then him, then I invited him for a movie at the movie theater then he took me to dinner. I wanted to take him to a nice dinner but I know he's always busy on weekends and I was right. He doesn't care about me like I do. I was falling in love with him, loving his persona, but it doesn't matter if he doesn't want to see me on weekends like people who like each other.

I'm not important for him making time for me on weekends during the day without rushing.

I was falling for him. I'm disappointed and sad. I thought I found my best friend and life partner.

Should I ignore him and move on?

I'm so hurt and sad, I want to delete my messenger app I was communicating with him

I'm going alone to a comedy stand up show later this week. I like comedy. It's inside an Irish pub/bar restaurant.

I don't drink alcohol. Lol. I like coffee and tea. I'm F38 5'1.

Should I say hi to a guy I like there? I'm a shy Latina lol. I don't know anybody there. I'm back dating and looking at the possibilities. And I like comedy. And I love men.

Do you guys say hi to someone you're attracted there?

Should I approach and say hi to him? I've never approached a guy before in a public space

What do you think? What should I say or do?

Thanks

I'm going to a comedy stand up show later this week. I like comedy. It's inside an Irish pub/bar restaurant.

I don't drink alcohol. Lol. I like coffee and tea.

Do you guys, women, etc say hi to someone you're attracted there? I'm a shy Latina lol.

I'm going alone. I know nobady there. I'm back dating and thinking of the possibilities of a social event. I like comedy and I love men.

Should I approach and say hi to him? I've never approached a guy before in a public space

What do you think? What should I say or do? How can I let him know I like him?

Thanks

I've been feeling like that since I was a little girl. Broken home. Abuse.

Have you ever felt like you don't belong anywhere? Lonely

No one like you?

Does it go away?

Always felt like an alien like I don't belong here, anywhere since I was a child. Always lonely. People wanted to be friends and I pushed them away. I was embarrassed of my life. I'm f 39. Growing up I felt ugly. Empty in my head. Not knowing how to talk. I always been a shy girl. always trying not to get in trouble for my mom.

When I was young and on my 20s it was horrible. Socially awkward. I felt cute, pretty mid 25s. I always felt very ugly before. People kept telling me I look younger.

After my 30s I matured, I'm told I look younger like on my early 20s . I'm close to 40 now. As I grew older, I think I'm an Empath. I feel people's feelings and I want to help them too.

I made some connections after I was 35. Made few friends. But aren't like me or share my favorite interests. Not very alone like before.

Nobady should feel like they don't belong anywhere.

NT girl here, dating a guy with Aspergers. We've been dating for 2 months.

He's sweet, funny, smart and kind. I'm an Empath, I can feel too much when he's happy or sad.

He texts me daily or every 2 days. I'm fine every 2 or 3 days. We meetup once a week. Sometimes 2 weeks. He initiates most of the time. He's treating me like a girlfriend.

He says how was the start of my week? How am I? He heart emoji my messages. Sometimes he reads my messages and responds the next day.

I usually respond in an hour. Lol.

Does he like me and love me? What do you think?

We like each other a lot I feel. He remembers small details about me, so sweet. I love getting to know him.

I thought ND don't like texting much, then why he does it?

Is he masking? Also he's busy on weekends, friends , family and sports. So I see him on evening or morning. Is he an extroverted Aspie?

Thanks

I started to lose weight, feeling pretty again. I'm almost 40 but look like 20s I'm told by most people in real life and online.

I begin dating on Hinge, I would like to meet people. I don't have many friends. I'm alone. There was one guy I really like. I'm a woman. We're both on our 30s.

We begin going out. But he seems always busy. I think he's an extrovert even tho he says he's a shy guy. I'm a shy girl. Both nerdy. We both want a life partner. He said I'm his first relationship. I'm more experienced but had narcissist partners. I'm an Empath. I feel too much people's moods and sadness.

He seems always being busy, busy plans on weekends during the day, he cancelled on me 2 weekends. Wants to meetup always in the evening around 6pm or 7pm.

That time is hard, I'm tired, sleepy. He wants to be intimate. Last time he was yawning while watching TV with me. It was getting late. I told him before I would like to have lunch and hang out. But he's always busy, friends, family, he does sports. He seems like always on the move. And no time for me. Sometimes he says I have this during the day but we can meetup after or we can hang out in the morning until noon.

I'm his first relationship he said. I think he doesn't know how to treat a girl. When you date, that date is for the two of us. No plans after, no rushing.

I think he's an extrovert. I don't feel important.

It's starting to affect me. While dating I was starting to go to the gym and trying to lose more weight.

But now I'm stress eating, not following my nutricional goals. I think about this guy a lot. We like each other. I think by some actions like getting me my favorite milk tea drink, hugging, kissing with caress and sweetness.

Problem is schedule and time. And maybe more that I don't know. He seems very direct when he talks. I hope so.

I think i will tell him let's stay friends for now or no contact at all. I'm not gonna tell a guy, spend time with me or teach him how to treat a girl. LOL. I'm feeling sad thinking about him, not much happy like before because I had patience but nothing is changing after a month.

Maybe that's his love language. Mine is spending all day together without worrying about leaving soon, a relaxing romantic day. Go with the flow.

I need to focus on me again. Lose weight, stay focus and feel better, just think about me more again than others. I even bought little gifts for him like tea, sweets haha :'3

Any help, tips are welcome. I really don't know what to do

I don't know. What should I do. PLEASE help

Focus on me again?

Thanks

Anyone dated 5ft women?

White guy, latina here

If I move to Wheaton, do you think I will still hear them?

I hear it clearly when walking near Holy Cross Hospital.

It's cool but I just want to know.

And any recommendations to stay in Shenandoah or other places?