u/StardustSundae

tw // surgery talk, genital talk

so when i was born, I had a very small / unusual penis. according to my mom, they had to "dig" it out in a surgical procedure. but she told me the doctor said I wasnt intersex or anything (idk how credible that is tho, i know how slimy doctors can be, and I was born in '99). Regardless, I was assigned male at birth.

I never really produced testosterone, never went through a full puberty (i.e balls never rlly dropped), had large breasts, little body hair, etc. I eventually transitioned at 21 (started E). My breasts grew a lot, and I look now like a cis woman.

I still technically have a penis, and I dont have a vagina or anything, but I def dont feel like I'm endosex.

so im a trans woman, im t4t, and im a switch. I enjoy domming sometimes. bc a lot of trans lesbians are subs (which isn't a problem in its own right), I usually end up offering to try domming.

domming is something that heavily depends on the person... and I also need to know them super well a lot of the time.

there have been several instances where I would try to dom, not really end up able to do it for a number of reasons, and the girl I was with would end up getting upset. sometimes yelling, sometimes insisting I "can't dom," and in one instance, showing me what she wanted me to do to her without my consent out of frustration. (and what she wanted was very intense and rough.)

I understand it can be frustrating, but please understand how vulnerable and sensitive doms still are during sex. we dont have impenetrable skin. and we dont do well when you don't communicate what you want us to do at all and we barely know you. ("Just do whatever you want to me" is Not good communication. i don't know you, and i need to know what you want.)

play in handheld mode. deadass. there's 0 input lag, 0 audio lag.

I really wanted to go into this game with an open mind, but I just don't like the English dub of this game. So I switched over to the Japanese dub (since they give you the option.)

Guys, the Japanese dub is INCREDIBLE. It brings back the much more familiar tone of the N64 game while still breathing new life into the characters. It does NOT hold back. Please give it a try!!

hiii I've been really lonely as of late and I'm looking for anyone / any servers where ppl regularly play smash ultimate or project plus along with other fighting games that id totally be down to try.

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feel free to dm me. im also 26 and a trans girl, been publically transitioned for 5 years 💗 ty for reading c: