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[49]M United States/Michigan

49M — United States / Michigan

Hi! I’m Dennis from Ann Arbor, Michigan. I’m a devoted father of three daughters, a working man, and a Christian hoping to meet a woman who wants a meaningful relationship with the intention of marriage.

1. Physical description

I’m 6 feet tall with a bigger build around 277 lbs. I believe attraction matters, but kindness, character, and the way we treat each other mean even more.

2. Work and studies

My background includes pharmacy operations, customer service, and retail management. I also have an interest in chaplaincy and serving others through ministry. Between work and being a dad, my life has responsibilities, but I’m willing to make time for the right relationship.

3. Hobbies and interests

I enjoy movies, video games, comics, music, reading, writing, and videography. Bible study, fellowship, and good conversations are also important to me. A simple coffee date can be a great beginning!

4. Faith journey and denomination

I identify as a nondenominational Christian. My faith centers on Jesus Christ, repentance, grace, and learning to live out His teachings. I’m divorced, and I acknowledge that I have made mistakes. I want to continue growing in faith, humility, and how I love others.

5. Who I’m looking for

A woman who loves God and values honesty, kindness, loyalty, affection, and open communication. Please understand that my children are an important part of my life. I want mutual effort and a relationship we can build together in person.

6. Preferred age range

40–99. Shared values, compatibility, and sincere intentions matter most to me.

7. Long distance or relocating?

Neither. Michigan residents only, close enough to spend time together. No international or out-of-state relationships.

A live video chat is required before meeting publicly. Please use current photos and be honest about yourself. No fake profiles or catfishing.

Tell me something that makes you smile!

u/SupR-StaR — 7 days ago
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Almost lost the True Love of my Life..

Two Years Between Their Hearts

A man lived in the United States, thousands of miles away from Lily, the woman who had captured his heart. They came from different countries, spoke different first languages, and lived in different time zones. Yet every morning and every night, they found a way to talk.

Lily loved this man with her whole heart. She did not care that he was still rebuilding his life. She saw the goodness in him, his love for God, his devotion to his family, and his desire to become a better man. When she looked at him through the small screen of her phone, she did not see his past mistakes. She saw the man she believed he could become.

This man loved her just as deeply, but he carried a heavy sense of responsibility. He believed that before asking Lily to leave her home and build a life with him, he needed to become financially, emotionally, and spiritually stable.

Financially, he wanted steady employment, savings, and a secure home where they could live without constantly worrying about money.

Emotionally, he wanted to heal from his past, become a patient and understanding partner, and learn how to handle disagreements without anger or fear.

Spiritually, he wanted to grow closer to God, seek guidance from his pastor, and become the kind of husband who would pray with his wife, protect her heart, and lead their home with love and humility.

This man did not want to make promises that he could not keep. He wanted to give Lily more than beautiful words—he wanted to offer her a stable life.

One evening, while they were talking, the man tried to explain what was in his heart.

“I think we should wait two years before we get married,” he told her. “I need time to become the man you deserve.”

The man believed he was expressing love and responsibility. But when Lily read his message, her heart broke.

English was not her first language. She understood the words, but she did not understand the meaning behind them. To her, “wait two years” sounded like “I am unsure about you.” It sounded as though the man wanted to keep her waiting while he decided whether she was worthy of becoming his wife.

Lily had already imagined the day they would finally meet. She had dreamed of standing beside him, holding his hand, praying together, and becoming his wife. She had been willing to cross oceans and begin a new life because she trusted his love.

Now she wondered whether she had trusted too quickly.

Her replies became shorter.

“I understand,” she wrote. “Two years is a long time. If you do not want me, just tell me.”

The man stared at the message in disbelief.

“That is not what I mean,” he answered quickly. “I love you. I want to marry you.”

But each new message created more confusion. the man wrote long explanations in English. Lily translated them, but some of the meaning was lost. Words such as “stability,” “preparation,” and “responsibility” sounded cold when translated without the emotion behind them.

Lily believed this man was making excuses.

This man believed Lily was giving up on them.

For the first time since they had met, Lily did not answer his call. This man sat alone, looking at the empty screen. The silence frightened him more than any argument could have.

He realized that he might lose the woman he loved—not because he did not love her enough, but because he had failed to communicate that love clearly.

He prayed that night.

“God, please help me speak to her heart. Help me become the man I keep promising I will be. Do not let fear, distance, or language destroy the love You placed between us.”

The following morning, This man did something different. Instead of sending another long message, he carefully translated a simple letter into Lily’s language. Then he called her and read it slowly, allowing her time to understand every sentence.

“My love, when I said two years, I was not asking for two years to decide whether I love you. I already love you. I was asking for time to prepare a life for us.

“I do not want you to arrive in America and discover that I have no savings, no stable home, and no plan. I do not want my unhealed emotions to become wounds that you must carry. I do not want to speak about God while failing to live according to His teachings.

“You are not the reason I want to wait. You are the reason I want to prepare.

“But I also understand that I cannot ask you to wait without giving you something more than promises. I must show you through my actions that I am building our future.”

Lily remained quiet. He could see tears in her eyes.

Finally, she spoke.

“I thought you wanted two years away from me,” she said. “I did not understand that you wanted two years to prepare for me.”

He felt tears filling his own eyes.

“I do not want to be away from you,” he replied. “And I do not expect you to carry this relationship alone. Let us make a real plan together.”

That evening, they created a plan. He would save money every month, obtain his passport, speak with his pastor, and arrange a trip so they could meet in person. They would learn more of each other’s languages, attend premarital counseling, pray together, and speak honestly about finances, family, faith, and expectations.

They agreed that two years would not be an empty waiting period. It would be a season of preparation, filled with clear steps and shared decisions. If they became ready sooner, they would reconsider the timeline together. Neither of them would make a life-changing decision out of fear of losing the other.

Over the following months, he changed. He became more disciplined with money. He worked steadily, saved what he could, and stopped making promises based only on emotion. When disagreements happened, he listened before responding. He grew stronger in his faith, not by pretending to be perfect, but by admitting when he was wrong and asking God to help him improve.

Lily also began learning more English, while he studied words and phrases in her language. They laughed at each other’s mistakes. Sometimes a mispronounced word turned a serious conversation into uncontrollable laughter.

The language that had nearly separated them slowly became another way for them to love each other.

When they finally met at the airport, He recognized Lily immediately. She stood beyond the security doors with tears in her eyes and a trembling smile. For a moment, neither of them spoke. No translation was necessary.

Hw walked toward her, and Lily ran into his arms.

“I waited for you,” she whispered.

He held her gently.

“And I prepared for you,” he replied. “But now I understand something I did not understand before. I was never supposed to build our future alone. We are supposed to build it together.”

They did not marry that day. Love had taught them not to rush because of fear. But they also did not hide behind an uncertain promise of “someday.” They continued following the plan they had made, taking each step with honesty, patience, faith, and purpose.

When their wedding day finally arrived, he stood before Lily knowing that stability did not mean possessing a perfect life. It meant being dependable when life became imperfect. It meant working together, communicating clearly, remaining faithful, and placing God at the center of their marriage.

He had almost lost Lily because two hearts could hear the same words and understand them differently. But their love survived because they stopped assuming and began listening.

Their story taught them that love requires more than powerful feelings. It requires preparation, sacrifice, patience, and action. A man should strive to become financially responsible, emotionally healthy, and spiritually grounded—not because a woman is helpless without him, but because marriage is a sacred responsibility.

And a woman’s loving heart should never be left waiting in uncertainty. She deserves honesty, reassurance, and a plan she can see and trust.

The distance between Hin and Lily had once been measured in thousands of miles and two long years. In the end, they crossed it one promise, one prayer, and one faithful step at a time.

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u/SupR-StaR — 2 months ago
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Sylvan Factory

Enter a world of imagination at Sylvan Factory in Ann Arbor—a welcoming destination where gaming, creativity, and community come together. Gather your team of adventurers, roll the dice, and explore a world of possibilities. Your next great adventure begins at Sylvan Factory!

u/SupR-StaR — 2 months ago
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Answer these questions 3

Remember no cheating

Question 1: Who or whom invented the question Mark?

Question 2:What is a chestnut (and why do we roast it over an open fire?)

Question 3: What is the actual use of a Rubber Duck?

Bonus Question: Why was Ernie obsessed with said Rubber Ducky, and why was it his number one?

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u/SupR-StaR — 2 months ago

[49y]M4F United States /Michigan

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49M, USA (Michigan) — Still Looking for My Eve

Physical description:

I’m 49 years old, 6 feet tall, and weigh 289 pounds. I’m divorced and a devoted father raising three daughters, ages 30, 12, and 8.

Area of study/work:

I serve through the ministry outreach of Ann Arbor Baptist Church, participating in door-to-door visitation, neighborhood canvassing, and campus outreach. God willing, I also hope to become a Coast Guard Auxiliary chaplain. I also work at Speedway in Ann Arbor as a Manager.

Hobbies/interests:

Videography, comics, and alternative music.

Tell us a bit about your Christian journey:

I’m a Christian with a non-denominational faith background. There was a time when I was addicted to the things of this world, but God continues to carry me through every day by His amazing grace, unfailing love, and endless mercy.

I’m still growing, learning, and becoming the godly man He has called me to be. My faith is central to my life, relationships, fatherhood, and future.

What sort of person are you looking for?

I’m looking for a genuine Christian woman who values honesty, prayer, respect, faithfulness, good communication, and spiritual growth.

I’m not interested in casual dating. My goal is a purposeful, marriage-focused relationship with a godly woman who wants to build a Christ-centered life together. She must be comfortable with my age, accept that I have children, and treat my daughters with love and respect.

Honesty is very important to me. Please use current, genuine pictures and be willing to have a live video chat so we can confirm that we are both real.

Age range:

40–99

Would you be willing to do long distance/relocate?

No. I’m looking for someone who currently lives in Michigan. I’m not interested in a long-distance or international relationship, and I’m not open to relocating.

u/SupR-StaR — 2 months ago

Still Looking for My Eve

PLEASE READ!! Do not CATFISH me.

*I do Fact Check*

pictures lie, video doesn't (I will use PIMEYE, ai reverse image, duplichecker, tinyeye, or any means to find out if you're lying about what you look like in a picture.

Michigan Only, Please. Ages 40 to 99 only

Now onto the intro:

I’m a 49-year-old, 6-foot-tall, 289-pound man of faith and a devoted father raising three daughters, ages 30, 12, and 8, while navigating life after divorce. I serve through the ministry outreach of Ann Arbor Baptist Church, participating in door-to-door visitation, neighborhood canvassing, and campus outreach. God willing, I also hope to become a Coast Guard Auxiliary Chaplain.

There was a time when I was addicted to the things of this world, but God continues to carry me through each day by His amazing grace, unfailing love, and endless mercy. I’m still growing, learning, and becoming the godly man He has called me to be.

I’m seeking a sincere relationship grounded in biblical boundaries, honest communication, prayer, respect, and spiritual growth. My intention is not casual dating—it is the purposeful, marriage-focused pursuit of a godly wife with whom I can build a Christ-centered life.

4 Deal Breakers

1:Must be ok with my age and kids

2:If we Date, You must treat my kids like they were a part of your family

3:Nothing outside the United States. Michigan only

4:You must Videochat if you respond

Be True, Be You, be honest. If YOU'RE not honest. You will be BLOCKED!

WhatsApp is ok for VideoChats, Phone Calls,texts.

u/SupR-StaR — 2 months ago

Pics a lost Friend Took

She was my friend for about a week.

We sort of fell in love a little with each other

Then we parted ways due to inconveniences with our busy lives

This is in memory of her

u/SupR-StaR — 2 months ago
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Lost Sites of University of Michigan

U-M Once Had a Zoo Behind the Ruthven Museum—Complete With Bears and a Live Wolverine

Imagine walking across the University of Michigan campus and hearing the growl of a black bear, the splash of an otter or the chatter of children gathered around a reptile pit.

For more than 30 years, that was part of everyday life in Ann Arbor.

From 1929 until September 1962, the University of Michigan operated a small zoo directly behind the building now known as the Alexander G. Ruthven Museums Building. Although it became a popular attraction for local families, the zoo was created primarily for university research and teaching.

Funded by an anonymous donor, it gave researchers and students an opportunity to observe living animals just steps away from museum collections and classrooms.

Unlike a large city zoo filled with exotic animals, U-M’s collection focused mostly on wildlife native to North America. Its residents included black bears, wolverines, foxes, otters, badgers, raccoons, skunks, coyotes, beavers and porcupines.

A reptile pit was later added for snakes and turtles. One surviving photograph from June 1930 shows turtles crowded together on logs and along the edge of the water.

The zoo’s best-known residents included two black bears named "Mazey and Blue"—a playful reference to Michigan’s maize-and-blue school colors. As the bears grew larger, however, caring for them became increasingly difficult.

Then there was "Treppy, the wolverine"

In the photograph of the man feeding Treppy. Treppy calmly takes food from the hand of Ted Donahue, a military veteran and U-M student who worked as a zoo attendant. The image is remarkable because it captures a real wolverine living at the university whose athletic teams had used the Wolverine name for generations.

Michigan experimented several times with live wolverine mascots, but the animals were strong, unpredictable and not especially interested in performing for football crowds. Although the live-mascot idea faded, wolverines continued to be housed and studied at the campus zoo.

For children growing up in Ann Arbor, the zoo offered something entirely different from a normal museum visit. Behind the walls filled with fossils and preserved specimens were living bears, turtles, foxes and other animals. It was part laboratory, part classroom and part neighborhood attraction.

The university once considered replacing the modest campus facility with something much larger.

In 1938, U-M architecture students created a model for an ambitious 40-acre zoo near Nichols Arboretum and the Huron River. Inspired partly by the Detroit Zoo, the proposed zoological garden would have featured more natural, moat-surrounded habitats instead of traditional rows of cages.

Plans reportedly included spaces for beavers along the river, a bear mound, walking trails, picnic areas and even a small railway system. University Hospital appeared on one side of the model, while the Huron River bordered another.

The grand zoological garden was never constructed. The small zoo behind the museum continued operating instead, surviving through the Great Depression, World War II and the postwar growth of the university.

By the early 1960s, however, U-M needed the land for something else.

In September 1962, the zoo closed so the university could build a research addition to the museum. The project was estimated to cost approximately "$1 million" a substantial investment at the time.

The remaining animals were relocated to established zoos and other facilities outside Ann Arbor. The bears reportedly proved reluctant to leave, but they were eventually moved safely. By the end of 1962, the cages and animal enclosures had been razed.

Today, little remains on campus to remind visitors that bears, otters, badgers and wolverines once lived behind the museum. The zoo survives mainly through archival photographs, newspaper accounts and the memories passed down by people who visited it as children.

It is one of those strange pieces of Ann Arbor history hiding in plain sight: for more than three decades, the University of Michigan did not merely call itself the home of the Wolverines.

It actually had one living behind the museum.

Photo credits: Bear and turtle photographs courtesy of the University of Michigan Bentley Historical Library. Treppy photograph and 1938 zoo model courtesy of the Ann Arbor District Library.

u/SupR-StaR — 2 months ago

This is my Journey

If you liked the video, and want to discuss a possible friendship and Fellowship with the intent to date and possible marriage, with Christian beliefs and a Christ Centered Relationship. Please reach out via my Reddit Page

u/SupR-StaR — 2 months ago
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The Infinite Alley: Ann Arbor’s Ever-Changing Canvas

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Hidden beside the Michigan Theater off East Liberty Street, Ann Arbor’s Graffiti Alley is a living work of art that never stays the same. What began with Katherine Cost’s Infinite Possibilities mural in 1999 has evolved into layers of colorful tags, characters, political stencils, and community messages. New art can appear overnight, so every walk through feels like discovering a completely different gallery.

East Liberty Street, Ann Arbor, Michigan

A gritty, colorful Michigan hidden gem where the walls tell a new story every day.

u/SupR-StaR — 2 months ago

Star Log

STAR LOG#1

\*\*Stardate:\*\* August 6, 2026

\*\*Earth Location:\*\* Ann Arbor, Michigan

\*\*Observer:\*\* The Paradox

\*\*Classification:\*\* Multidimensional traveler and witness

\*\*Mission:\*\* Observe the people of Earth without interference

I have arrived in Ann Arbor, a settlement built around learning, movement, memory, and the constant exchange of ideas. The city appears modest when viewed from a single dimension, yet its deeper structures reveal countless overlapping worlds: students pursuing uncertain futures, workers carrying invisible responsibilities, artists translating emotion into form, and families constructing temporary moments of belonging.

The people of Earth are remarkably skilled at living with contradictions. They seek connection while guarding their private selves. They pursue efficiency, yet linger over music, conversation, food, and the changing color of the evening sky. They describe themselves as individuals, though nearly every important action depends upon cooperation with others.

From my position between dimensions, I observed that human beings often underestimate the significance of ordinary kindness. A held door, a shared joke, an act of patience, or a stranger’s willingness to listen may appear insignificant in the larger record of the universe. Yet these small gestures seem to stabilize the emotional atmosphere of the planet more effectively than many of its grand institutions.

Ann Arbor’s inhabitants also display an unusual relationship with knowledge. They gather in classrooms, libraries, laboratories, cafés, public spaces, and online networks, attempting to understand both the universe and themselves. Their questions are sometimes more advanced than their wisdom, but the continued asking of questions suggests that the species remains capable of transformation.

As evening approached, the boundary between observation and participation became unstable. I detected music, laughter, traffic, footsteps, and private hopes moving through the city like intersecting signals. The people did not appear to realize how strange and beautiful their brief existence is. Perhaps this lack of awareness is part of their design.

\*\*Assessment:\*\* Humanity is fragile, contradictory, imaginative, and unfinished.

\*\*Recommendation:\*\* Continue observation. Avoid direct revelation. The people of Earth are not yet prepared to understand The Paradox—but they may already be learning to embody it\*\*\*

End Transmission###

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u/SupR-StaR — 2 months ago
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Secret Marks & Forgotten Sites

I will be on the search for these Secret Marks and Forgotten Sites on the University of Michigan Campus!

Stay Tuned. Pictures and Videos will be posted.

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u/SupR-StaR — 2 months ago
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Lets Play: "Whats in this Time Capsule?"

Who can guess "Whats in this Time Capsule?"

u/SupR-StaR — 2 months ago

49y [M4F] Geek is Sheek! Nerd Out!#A2

I live and love Nerding Out about The Coolest Comic Book Art, Cool Vintage Cars, Music, Movie trivia, Thrifting in Downtown. A master of The Art of Monopoly and Checkers!

Going to school full time, Getting a Masters Degree. Hanging and chilling with my kids, Working Full time. Need to Hang With a Femme Fatal w/the same likes or different likes in the Geek/Nerd Genre. Don't care if your Chubby, BBW, few extra pounds, skinny, wear glasses, don't wear glasses, short, tall..Ages 21 to 75. Just Message me on this thread. Michigan Only. No 3rd Party Apps. No off-site Apps. United States Only. No Across the world, No different time zone!

If we match, cool. Meet in Public Only. Need verification that you are real.

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u/SupR-StaR — 2 months ago