u/TheBigClobbler21

Alternatives to therapy?

I had a traumatic experience when it came to mental health professionals. I constantly felt a caged animal because of how psychiatrists and therapist treated me. I want to improve my mental health without needing these shitty professionals. how do I do that?

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u/TheBigClobbler21 — 1 day ago

Do you ever feel too “ugly” for RR?

I love RR, when I think of the type of relationship I want in the future it’s an RR one. I love seeing characters in media in RR relationships or ones that can be interpreted as such. There’s just one big problem: I always feel too “ugly” or “manly” to actually engage with anything RR related. The idea of being pretty for a girl makes me happy until I remember what I look like. I don’t think I can pull off a more feminine look nor will anyone consider me cute or pretty. It makes me really sad deep down and I wish I looked more like the boy I want to be. does anyone else feel this way?

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u/TheBigClobbler21 — 3 days ago

20 [M4A] #USA #Online I’m bored come talk to me ;)

Hey I bored and want to talk someone in the age range of 18-25. I live specifically East Coast if you really want to know where but it doesn’t really matter I just want someone to talk to me about their interests or really anything. Please feel free to DM about your interests or ask about mine look here are my interests:

- Anime/manga (Fullmetal, JJK, Bleach, etc etc)

- Games (Pokemon, Persona, Guilty Gear, Marvel Rivals, etc just ask me)

- Marvel and DC comics (or movies but I’m a big comic guy)

- Seals (I have seal pictures hehe)

Ok you know what I’m into feel free to talk to me doesn’t even have to be about anything important idc. You can also just ignore this post I really don’t care either

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u/TheBigClobbler21 — 8 days ago
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20 [M4A] #USA/Online Really Really REALLY Bored please yap to me

Hey I know most people go here for dating but I’m bored out of my mind. I live specifically East Coast if you really want to know where but it doesn’t really matter I just want someone to talk to me about their interests or really anything. Please feel free to DM about your interests or ask about mine look here are my interests:

- Anime/manga (Fullmetal, JJK, Bleach, etc etc)

- Games (Pokemon, Persona, Guilty Gear, Marvel Rivals, etc just ask me)

- Marvel and DC comics (or movies but I’m a big comic guy)

- Seals (I have seal pictures hehe)

Ok you know what I’m into feel free to talk to me doesn’t even have to be about anything important idc. You can also just ignore this post I really don’t care either

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u/TheBigClobbler21 — 9 days ago

How I look at friends and family after the 50th autism joke (I know I’m gonna be mocked if I ever got diagnosed)

u/TheBigClobbler21 — 11 days ago

JRPG with Well-written party members centered around going on a journey

Should preface with I do have a 3DS and PS5 so I can play games on those systems too

I’ve been feeling sad and want some form of escapism. I love the idea of a game where a cast of characters go on some journey where they experience their own character arc akin to classic Final Fantasy or One Piece. Are there any games that capture that feeling of just running off on some adventure with people?

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u/TheBigClobbler21 — 11 days ago

How good is the entirety of Gintama?

I’ve had Gintama on my list of media to check out but I’ve been on the fence. Most people make it sound like it’s a simple comedy story that eventually gets really serious well written arcs every now and then. Is this true or is it consistent throughout?

u/TheBigClobbler21 — 15 days ago

I’ve been engaging with a lot more action heavy stuff recently and want a cute romance as a buffer between chapters of shonen. I saw some art of green yuri and it seem cooled, so what are some manga you guys recommend?

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u/TheBigClobbler21 — 18 days ago

I recently started star rail and for the free characters I picked Sparkle cause she looked cool and Ruan Mei because I heard she was a versatile support. I find out later on that Sparkle is also a support so it ended up being redundant. Did I mess up and should’ve gotten a DPS over Sparkle or can I still manage?

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u/TheBigClobbler21 — 18 days ago

I like the idea of a Romantic relationship and I crave being loved, my issue is the stuff to get there and required for it. I really hate dating, I hate the idea of having to approach someone and try to guess if they’re interested. I hate that I have to carry a conversation and pray they maintain interest in me. I hate planning things, and I hate socializing. I‘m also not sure if I really want anything intimate either. I also really really REALLY hate whenever I decide “maybe it’s a me problem” look up how to get better and be met with the same right-wing chuds yapping about looksmaxxing hypergamt which makes my body image issues even worse. I just want someone who I’m comfortable around, trust, live together, and can cuddle with really. Is a relationship like that real or am I better off just being alone?

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u/TheBigClobbler21 — 19 days ago

The whole Thragg v Gojo debate got me thinking about my favorite superpowered alien. Can my favorite #Supershit find a way to get through infinity?

u/TheBigClobbler21 — 20 days ago

I (20M) have been struggling with my body since I was teen. Mainly because of my height (5’6) and weight. I’ve been told I need to just be more confident and had people say my face and hair are nice but I hate looking in the mirror. I just can’t see why someone would like me and it hurts. It’s like I’m more lenient with other people’s appearance but for me I have this double standard where I want to meet male body standards but also deep down wish to be pretty. It’s like I want to be some shapeshifter that can be tall and masculine but also feminine and slim. How do I genuinely view my body in a positive way? How do I create realistic standards for myself?

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u/TheBigClobbler21 — 21 days ago