A guy asked me on a third date this for Sunday. We agreed, but with an unspecified time and place. A day later he messages me saying he’s not sure he’ll be able to do it as he just found out about a family barbecue on Sunday, and that he will let me know soon. Does this sound too low effort? He’s good at getting back to me quick buy it feels a little unflattering
So I haven’t been dancing for a few years for personal reasons, and I recently got back into it.
I did a performance recently at an event. I felt I looked so unconfident, kept looking down. I’m cringing looking at my video and I noticed the event organisers didn’t post it when they posted so many other dancers.
I guess I can only learn from this right? just feel abit low
I’m pretty confused. I went on a first date with a guy, we got on really well, and I thought he’d ask me on a second date. We did text abit but after a few days I got ghosted.
Abit a month later, he sent me a message saying that he finds me so sexy, that the reason he didn’t respond was because I’d be so easy to fall for and he doesn’t want to be hurt again. He said he couldn’t stop thinking about me. I assume he was hurt in the past. He told me he’s sure I’ll find the one soon.
I told him I liked him, was looking forward to going out with him again but just assumed he wasn’t interested when he didn’t respond. I told him if you’re just saying this to spare my feelings , don’t. He told me he’s not and if he didn’t like me he would have said it straight.
Is this even possible? If that’s the case why is he dating at all if he doesn’t want to find someone to connect with. It’s disappointed me, if that’s true and he likes me and I like him, it feels potential wasted. Maybe he doesn’t realise but it’s so hard to find men I click with.
Basically I was approaching a roundabout, I was in the left lane but wanted to go forward, I saw the arrows on the floor which I thought were pointing forward and to the left so thought I’d be able to go straight forward in that lane. turns out as I was moving off I obviously couldn’t and a car honked my from behind so I went left. So I must have misread the sign. It was a near miss and I’m abit shaken.
Just wondering if anyone has any dash cam footage, can I be reported or get in trouble?
I‘ve been going on dates on a weekly basis. I’ve had one this Saturday and also I have one today. I’m pretty much going on a date or two every week, trying to find the guy for me for a long term relationship.
Is it bad or weird to date this much?
I‘ve been going on dates on a weekly basis. I’ve had one this Saturday and also I have one today. I’m pretty much going on a date or two every week, trying to find the guy for me for a long term relationship.
Is it bad or weird to date this much?
I’ve been chatting to a guy on bumble. We met up, and I had a good time. I wasn’t 100% but I liked him enough to want a second date.
He invited me out this evening a few days ago. I agreed. This morning he messaged saying sorry for the inconvenience but I may not be able to make it but that he’ll let me know later.
He told me at about midday he couldn’t make it. I asked him why, he said his friend is moving house and he’s helping him. I’m not sure whether that’s ongoing or something he started to do today.
He told me he’d definitely be free tomorrow. Should I bother, or is this low effort and flakey?
very recently got chatting to a guy on bumble He asked me to do a ’catfish test’. I asked him what he meant. He said we should request pictures of eachother doing a specific thing. He’s literally asked me to send a picture with a finger in my ear😂😂
Feels abit weird, what do you think?
I arranged to meet up with a guy, for the second time about a week ago. He told me he’d pick me up and take me out to the beach and I agreed. Morning of he said that the weathers bad, would you like to do something else. I replied and said yes. A few hours later he messages me back and says he’s just come back from the gym and too exhausted to do anything else, but he can pick me up next week and we can do something.
Does this feel too low effort?
I was on a dating app and matched with a guy about 2 months ago. He drove to my city, about an hours drive, and we had dinner. He drove me home. I had a pleasant time with him, he was clearly very work oriented and very serious about that, he was also respectful. It was clear that he was from a high class background, whereas I come from a low/middle class background. He was also good looking, I’m sure the waitress at the restaurant fancied him a little lol. He seems like the type of guy a lot of ladies would like.
After our date, we exchanged a few texts and arranged another date but then something happened on his side, we didn’t meet and after that he kind of ghosted me. I just carried on with life really, I liked him but it just didn't go anywhere. A few weeks passed, and I remembered him, I know it’s kind of bad of me but I decided to give him a text asking how he’s been. He responded , and at one point he asked if I’d be in his city. I told him I’d be happy and like to come up and see him, and he told me he’d love to see me when I get time. The following weekend and weekend after he was busy, and we are now arranging to meet next Saturday.
During our date he told me he has basically been disappointed by his dating life as he finds that a lot of the women he speaks to speak to several guys at one time, and he hasn’t had anything long term in a while. I am long term minded , and dont follow loads of guys on social media, so I hope that he would like that about me. But also, I notice he hangs around with friends a lot and plays video games a lot with them, im not sure how ready he is for something serious.
It kind of feels like neither of us was desperate to see the other , but I would say I’m more interested in him than he is in me at the moment. The more I think about it, I am excited to see him this weekend and spend time with him. I do find him a strong and masculine character which I really like about him.
I guess my question is, do you think it’s worth perusing? if so, how can I show him that I’d be a good option?
firstly, I have a university degree. Ive done years of studying, putting in the extra hours.
It was hard to find a job related to my degree so I thought I’d try an apprenticeship. I’ve been doing it about 3 months now. I am back to studying and completing work after work or at the weekends, and im running out of steam. They don’t schedule in any time for me to complete this on the job. I’m at the stage in my life where I dont wanna do that, I just wanna clock into work and out. The job when qualified will only be minimum wage too.
I‘ve been looking for other jobs and considering quitting if I find something else , what do you think?