u/Training_Form2243

34m, am I too ugly to date? (pics included)

34m, am I too ugly to date? (pics included)

https://imgur.com/a/yUlwgRb (first two pics are just to show how I look objectively, third and fourth show how bad I look in “good” pictures)

I honestly think I look like one of those soyjak memes, I’m on autism spectrum and think I kind of look like a dorky autistic guy trying to look masculine. All my male and female friends are dating or married to people they met online and the understanding seems to be that I’m the weird ugly friend who dating isn’t possible for. When my friends were single the women around them would ignore me. The rest of my life is finally pretty good so I’d like to start dating but I’m worried it’s too little too late and I’ll just kill my self esteem when I see how women react to me. What can I do?

u/Training_Form2243 — 3 days ago
▲ 5 r/beards

Beard is growing grey unevenly, any solutions? Having a thick dark beard was literally the only good thing about my looks

u/Training_Form2243 — 3 days ago
▲ 224 r/Gundam

Everything in the Hathaway movies is so functional

I don’t know about animation so I have no clue how the fuck they did it but everyone just seems like they exist in time and space. The montage with Gigi in her Condo leaves you familiar with the layout of the building as if it’s a real place you’re familiar with. (reminded me of Parasite or The Shining) There’s another scene where Gigi and the federation commander are walking through a government building and you see them entering, walking up the stairs and down the hallway to the office, and later leaving the same way and it really feels like they’re in a real building. I hope people are picking up on this

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u/Training_Form2243 — 4 days ago

Is a good haircut even possible with my head shape and hairline? Been trying for 15 years, many barbers, always walk out looking awful

Even when I had a full head of hair I’d still look terrible with my giant forehead and my hair growing in many directions and I think it’s just my poor looks. I asked the woman at the barbershop for advice yesterday when I got it cut and she seemed really thoughtful and professional so I don’t think it’s her fault if I look bad. There’s a men’s barbershop near me I found on insta but I don’t know if there’s much they can do for a guy with my looks.

u/Training_Form2243 — 9 days ago

Is a good haircut possible with my head shape? Just paid $60 and still look weird

I’ve posted pics for feedback on my appearance and the advice is always “get a haircut” even when I just got a haircut. I tried to communicate to the stylist that they should do whatever they think looks best but I still look like a weirdo. I’m trying to start dating but I’m worried that’s not realistic with my looks

u/Training_Form2243 — 9 days ago

Is a good haircut possible with my head shape (before/after pics included)

With new haircut: https://imgur.com/a/bOEp4iO

Old hairstyle: https://imgur.com/a/ANm8Pvc

I want to look cool like my friends and other guys so badly but I pay $60 for a haircut and just end up looking like a weirdo. I’ve asked for advice on improving my appearance and the great big advice is always “get a haircut” no matter what I look like, including when I post immediately after getting a haircut, so I think the problem might be my face shape is fucked up. I want to do online dating but I look like such a creep in pics. What else can I do?

u/Training_Form2243 — 9 days ago

Looking for lost snuff-themed creepypasta anthology possibly named “For the Vile” which I read on /x/ circa 2010

The stories centered around a company that produces snuff films, akin to 8mm, Manhunt, Videodrome, etc. I believe “For The Vile” was the name of the company or just a phrase that was repeated and I can’t find it. The stories varied in tone, one was a graphic description of one of the videos, one was a sickly funny profile of a “star” of the videos (a male victim) written in a style reminiscent of Dennis Cooper. I know for a fact this is real but I can’t find it, I vividly remember reading this in college in 2010 on /x/ or a 4chan archive site, does anyone remember this? I was interested in songwriting at the time and was trying to write a song inspired by it but it was shit so I forgot about it

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u/Training_Form2243 — 10 days ago

34m, I want to start dating but I have severe ED and low sex drive due to medical issues

I had an awful reaction to psychiatric meds I was on about three years ago and overnight developed severe ED and a reduced sex drive. (Look up PSSD) Fast forward three years and the rest of my life is honestly pretty good aside from anxiety and depression so I want to start dating but I have no idea how I’d find someone who’s fine with a guy who can’t really do PIV. Through a combination of daily Cialis and natural recovery over three years I can finally get it all the way up again (especially if lying down) but it goes away quickly without constant stimulation so I don’t think I can have sex. I’m mostly looking for companionship and non-sexual intimacy but I do get turned on by women and would love to satisfy a woman in other ways but I’m 34 with really limited experience (I have autism and social anxiety) so I don’t know how and I’m worried I’ll just embarrass myself. I really don’t want to be alone forever but I know women my age wouldn’t want to put up with someone like me

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u/Training_Form2243 — 11 days ago
▲ 8 r/PSSD

Is dating possible? I have ED that only partly responds to PDE5s, low but existent sex drive, good sensitivity

The rest of my life is honestly pretty good aside from anxiety and depression so I want to start dating but I have no idea how I’d find someone who’s fine with a guy who can’t really do PIV. Through a combination of daily Cialis and natural recovery over three years I can finally get it all the way up again (especially if lying down) but it goes away quickly without constant stimulation so I don’t think I can have sex. I’m mostly looking for companionship and non-sexual intimacy but I still get turned on and would love to satisfy a woman in other ways but I’m 34 with really limited experience (I have autism and social anxiety) so I don’t know how and I’m worried I’ll just embarrass myself. I really don’t want to be alone forever

FWIW I’m hopeful we’ll see new treatments for ED in the future

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u/Training_Form2243 — 11 days ago

Me when I watch American Psycho or Taxi Driver and don’t have any understanding of the movies’ themes or messages aside from “you’re not supposed to like the protagonist”

u/Training_Form2243 — 12 days ago

Lost creepypasta I read on /x/ 2010 - “For The Vile”, snuff-themed anthology

The stories centered around a company that produces snuff films, akin to 8mm, Manhunt, Videodrome, etc. I believe “For The Vile” was the name of the company or just a phrase that was repeated and I can’t find it. The stories varied in tone, one was a graphic description of one of the videos, one was a darkly funny profile of a “star” of the videos (a male victim). I know for a fact this is real but I can’t find it, I vividly remember reading this in college in 2010 on /x/ or a 4chan archive site, does anyone remember this?

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u/Training_Form2243 — 14 days ago

He’s open about how Rue is based on his own experience as an addict and the second season reveals that Lexi is a character that’s very personal to him, a struggling and misunderstood writer who strangely mirrors his adult experience. In the new season I was struck by how so many of the characters are portrayed as totally pathetic and I suspect he’s just not interested in writing about adults, especially adult women. I’ve always imagined Lexi is his “residual self image” to borrow a Matrix term and maybe Jules’s storyline appeals to him because of the experience of being uncomfortable with one’s own body and the roles assigned to them.

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u/Training_Form2243 — 16 days ago

He’s open about how Rue is based on his own experience as an addict and the second season reveals that Lexi is a character that’s very personal to him. In the new season I was struck by how so many of the characters are portrayed as totally pathetic and I suspect he’s just not interested in writing about adults, especially adult women. I’ve always imagined Lexi is his “residual self image” to borrow a Matrix term and maybe Jules’s storyline appeals to him because of the experience of being uncomfortable with one’s own body and the roles assigned to them.

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u/Training_Form2243 — 16 days ago