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Sometimes I just think she’s so fucking dumb. But then she’ll do things that feel out of spite?
Thoughts?

I feel like I’m drowning. My husband is having medical issues and I’m not sleeping well or eating very well either. I feel all over the place and sometimes I feel like I desperately need a break. At least to do like a half day or something. But I don’t know if letting them know what’s going on is crossing the line, or if it would just worry them that I’m not doing very well.
I’m still good with the girls. We love each other a lot and I don’t stop doing everything that I’m supposed to do with them. I’m just so extremely overwhelmed.

I’ve had a rough week. My husband was hospitalized and it’s been hard to do life in general. I feel like a mess. My house is a mess and my sleeping schedule is a mess, and I haven’t been eating enough. I’m so worried all the time.
I can back to work today after 4 days of not being here. My girls are being so sweet. I’m getting an I love you every 10 minutes, and they have no idea how much they mean to me. I love them to death. I feel so loved and it’s making life less chaotic and less difficult for a few hours.

This makes me so nervous.

I’m using the term friend lightly. We were getting close, but now I’m feeling like I’m ready to cut contact. Here’s some context:

This girl (25) and I met about a year and a half ago. We were hanging out pretty consistently and I shared a couple of personal stuff with her once I felt comfortable enough. We would get together to talk about our pets and help each other out with whatever we needed, or just keep each other company.

A few weeks ago she told me she got $300 from one of her closest friends so that she would get him an oz of top shelf weed, and that she could keep the rest of the cash for helping (about $40). She went to her guy and ended up getting an oz for herself and an oz for him of bottom shelf stuff. She told him it was the best they had and basically ended up pocketing more than half of the money.
She told me all of this so proudly. It made me feel very uncomfortable, so I ended up leaving shortly after. I just said I thought that was super sketchy and I’m sure he’d realize it was shitty stuff if he’s a smoker like that. She brushed me off and has been acting like nothing happened.

Now, I’m aware that if she’d do this to a close friend, she’d have no issues fucking me over. So I’m pretty ready to end the friendship, is that an overreaction? I simply don’t trust her anymore.
I’m wanting to know what your thoughts are on me letting her know that I’m going to be removing myself from the friendship, or if I should just slowly disappear.
I just don’t know if it would make a difference. And maybe the answer is quick and this question is dumb. But I also want to just let it out and share what happened haha. Thank you for letting me vent!

I’m using the term friend lightly. We were getting close, but now I’m feeling like I’m ready to cut contact. Here’s some context:

This girl (25) and I met about a year and a half ago. We were hanging out pretty consistently and I shared a couple of personal stuff with her once I felt comfortable enough. We would get together to talk about our pets and help each other out with whatever we needed, or just keep each other company.

A few weeks ago she told me she got $300 from one of her closest friends so that she would get him an oz of top shelf weed, and that she could keep the rest of the cash for helping (about $40). She went to her guy and ended up getting an oz for herself and an oz for him of bottom shelf stuff. She told him it was the best they had and basically ended up pocketing more than half of the money.
She told me all of this so proudly. It made me feel very uncomfortable, so I ended up leaving shortly after. I just said I thought that was super sketchy and I’m sure he’d realize it was shitty stuff if he’s a smoker like that. She brushed me off and has been acting like nothing happened.

Now, I’m aware that if she’d do this to a close friend, she’d have no issues fucking me over. So I’m pretty ready to end the friendship. I simply don’t trust her anymore.
Now, I’m wanting to know what your thoughts are on me letting her know that I’m going to be removing myself from the friendship, or if I should just slowly disappear.
I just don’t know if it would make a difference. And maybe the answer is quick and this question is dumb. But I also want to just let it out and share what happened haha. Thank you for letting me vent!

He has 2 aneurysms in his basilar artery. I’m really just looking for support while waiting in the waiting room. I’m very anxious but hopefully they’ll be done soon.

That’s it. That’s the tweet

I’ve already made posts about how rude she usually is to me.
I worked 12 hour days all week last week. Friday night, as I’m walking out she went “thank you for your help, I couldn’t do it without you… or I guess I could, they’d just be watching tv all day”
Thanks cause the tv would cook them meals and take them to their extracurriculars and find fun activities that help their development.
Tired tired tired tired.
They asked if I could stay until 9:30 pm this week but I just don’t have it in me

I’ve worked 12 hour days every day this week, and I’m already so done. Another 10 hours to go and tomorrow still. I just need to not feel so alone in this 😭

CAN WE CATCH A FUCKING BREAK😭😭

Mis amigas y yo armamos un grupo pequeño de book club para latinas, y nos encantaría conocer a más amigas. Nos veríamos una o dos veces al mes, la primera reunión es este sábado, no tienen que haber leído el primer libro, vamos a convivir y pasarla bien un rato. Avísenme si quieren unirse y me pueden mandar dm!!

Mis amigas y yo armamos un grupo pequeño de book club para latinas, y nos encantaría conocer a más amigas. Nos veríamos una o dos veces al mes, la primera reunión es este sábado, no tienen que haber leído el primer libro, vamos a convivir y pasarla bien un rato. Avísenme si quieren unirse y me pueden mandar dm!!

I’m a first time watcher! Season 6!
What the FUCK is wrong with this woman? Like is she actually mentally unstable??? She sounds like my schizophrenic grandma, this is crazy work. I’m watching the reunion and there’s NO WAY she’s so comfortable talking crazy like this. I understand being protective. But your “child” is almost 40 years old come onnnnnn😭😭😭
Also why is Kandi so cool with standing up for herself when anyone but Joyce talks shit? Girl Carmen was right, she’s only like this because YOU let her. Soooo over this!

I nanny a 5, 7 and 9 year olds. MB is driving me nuts. She’s so rude to me. She never even acknowledges me when I get there in the morning, and when she talks about me is just to complain. I constantly hear from the girls that she says I don’t do laundry or the dishes, which I do; laundry twice a week and dishes every day. She’s very jealous of my relationship with the girls. Like she’s told the 5 year old that she can only love her, and she tells the girls that it’s not like they have anyone else to stay with when they’re excited to spend the day with me.
The oldest invited me and the two others to a presentation she had at her school at the end of the school year, and DB drove all of us to it. She called him while we were in the car, so we heard the whole conversation since it connected to the car; she said she was on her way, DB said he had the girls and me in the car and she flipped out, she started saying that there was no reason for me to be there and that she didn’t understand why it didn’t bother him. He apologized a lot and I was just very confused. I asked if I did anything wrong for her to see my presence as a bad thing, and he said that no, she just “had a hard childhood”, whatever that means in this context.
The other day she took the older one to work with her (she’s clearly her favorite), we were all in the kitchen and the two younger ones started happy jumping and saying “I’m staying with *my name*!!” She misheard them and started laughing super hard and said “oh you’re so done with her???🤣🤣”, and I told her “no, they said they’re staying with me. Even if they had said that, why is that funny?”. She just shrugged and told the girls they didn’t really have another option.

I don’t get it. And I’m really not confrontational. At this point I’m just working extremely hard to get my certification done, I’m going to be a Spanish medical interpreter and I’m going to make sure I finish before the girls go back to school. I’m not staying here more than 2 and a half months. DB is extremely nice to me, and the girls and I have the best relationship. We truly love each other. Mom works all day and I was giving her the benefit of the doubt since she probably misses her family, but wouldn’t you be happy if your kids loved their nanny and your house and such was always taken care of? They’re well fed, taken care of, I’m always making sure their needs and their development is taken care of. I take them to all of their classes on time and I give them so much love. No screen time and healthy meals and activities. Like what the hell.

Would you tell her why you’re leaving when it’s time to leave? I’m very frustrated and feel like she treats me like the help. Never acknowledging my work or showing minimal gratitude or respect.
I don’t need her to tell me she loves my work. But at least show me respect? Idk