u/VegetableResearch71

Hey 29M,

I’m looking to connect with people who tend to overthink a lot. The kind of people whose minds keep running long after everyone else has gone to sleep.

Life can get overwhelming when you’re carrying too many thoughts on your own. Sometimes all we need is a genuine conversation, a place to vent, or someone who simply understands.
If you’re an overthinker and would like a few like-minded friends to talk to, feel free to reach out.

This is a platonic and respectful space for everyone. Please be kind.

Hey fellow overthinkers 👋

If your brain never seems to switch off and you find yourself overanalyzing everything, this post is for you.

I’m thinking of creating a small group where people can talk openly, share daily struggles, vent a little, and support each other without judgment. Sometimes it helps just knowing you’re not the only one stuck in your own thoughts.

Everyone is welcome. This is strictly platonic and respectful. No NSFW content. Safety, kindness, and respect—especially for women—are the top priority.
If you’d like to join, drop a comment or send me a DM. 💙

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Ever had that one sleep where you’re deep in dreamland, then your brain suddenly goes:
“Yep, that’s enough rest for today.” 🤡

And now you’re awake at 3 AM staring at the ceiling, negotiating with sleep like it’s a hostage situation.
Well… since sleep ghosted me, I’m here if anyone wants to yap. My ears are open, my sleep schedule is already ruined anyway. 😂

Last time I asked what superpower people would choose, and surprisingly teleportation won by a mile. Apparently nobody wants traffic, long flights, or awkward goodbyes anymore.

So here’s Round 2:
If you could get ONE superpower right now, what would it be and what’s the first thing you’d do with it?

Drop into my DMs. I’ll shout out some of the best answers in my next post.
Bonus points if you’re a female around my age… but honestly, everyone’s welcome. Just don’t be a bot pretending to be a crypto millionaire. 🚩🤣

Ever had that one sleep where you’re deep in dreamland, then your brain suddenly goes:
“Yep, that’s enough rest for today.” 🤡

And now you’re awake at 3 AM staring at the ceiling, negotiating with sleep like it’s a hostage situation.
Well… since sleep ghosted me, I’m here if anyone wants to yap. My ears are open, my sleep schedule is already ruined anyway. 😂

Last time I asked what superpower people would choose, and surprisingly teleportation won by a mile. Apparently nobody wants traffic, long flights, or awkward goodbyes anymore.

So here’s Round 2:
If you could get ONE superpower right now, what would it be and what’s the first thing you’d do with it?

Drop into my DMs. I’ll shout out some of the best answers in my next post.
Bonus points if you’re a female around my age… but honestly, everyone’s welcome. Just don’t be a bot pretending to be a crypto millionaire. 🚩🤣

Ever had that one sleep where you’re deep in dreamland, then your brain suddenly goes:

“Yep, that’s enough rest for today.” 🤡

And now you’re awake at 3 AM staring at the ceiling, negotiating with sleep like it’s a hostage situation.
Well… since sleep ghosted me, I’m here if anyone wants to yap. My ears are open, my sleep schedule is already ruined anyway. 😂

Last time I asked what superpower people would choose, and surprisingly teleportation won by a mile. Apparently nobody wants traffic, long flights, or awkward goodbyes anymore.

So here’s Round 2:
If you could get ONE superpower right now, what would it be and what’s the first thing you’d do with it?

Drop into my DMs. I’ll shout out some of the best answers in my next post.
Bonus points if you’re a female around my age… but honestly, everyone’s welcome. Just don’t be a bot pretending to be a crypto millionaire.

Looking for people to talk to because apparently touching grass and having hobbies isn’t enough anymore.
One thing I can promise: I won’t ghost you. If I disappear, assume I’ve either been abducted by aliens or finally figured out how taxes work.
If you’re around my age and equally qualified in the art of overthinking at 2 AM, feel free to DM.
Bots, scammers, and crypto gurus: respectfully, go bother someone else.
Icebreaker: If you could have one superpower right now, what would it be — and what’s the first completely irresponsible thing you’d do with it?
Let’s keep it fun. No NSFW. Just good conversations, questionable life choices, and maybe a new friend or two.

Looking for people to talk to because apparently touching grass and having hobbies isn’t enough anymore.

One thing I can promise: I won’t ghost you. If I disappear, assume I’ve either been abducted by aliens or finally figured out how taxes work.
If you’re around my age and equally qualified in the art of overthinking at 2 AM, feel free to DM.

Bots, scammers, and crypto gurus: respectfully, go bother someone else.

Icebreaker: If you could have one superpower right now, what would it be — and what’s the first completely irresponsible thing you’d do with it?
Let’s keep it fun. No NSFW. Just good conversations, questionable life choices, and maybe a new friend or two.

Also males don

Hi, i have seen multiple post from female posting in this sub looking for friendship and tired of being getting one line answer and nsfw replies from men !!
I gotta proposal to u before this post get removed !!

I am 29 M, 5’10 tall, leaner looking for long terms friend. I like to play drums ,i am into sketching , soccer and workout and i do cooking in weekends mostly when i am free. I have recently been through breakup so looking for a frnd not anything more .. i do also watch movies and series into thriller and sitcoms

So if this resonates with u my Dms are open . Dont have any age group specific if u feel comfortable and genuinely looking i am here !!

Ik all the men will be like why only f yk u r also here for the same for stfu

Hi, i have seen multiple post from female posting in this sub looking for friendship and tired of being getting one line answer and nsfw replies from men !!
I gotta proposal to u before this post get removed !!

I am 29 M, 5’10 tall, leaner looking for long terms friend. I like to play drums ,i am into sketching , soccer and workout and i do cooking in weekends mostly when i am free. I have recently been through breakup so looking for a frnd not anything more .. i do also watch movies and series into thriller and sitcoms

So if this resonates with u my Dms are open . Dont have any age group specific if u feel comfortable and genuinely looking i am here !!

Ik all the men will be like why only f yk u r also here for the same for stfu

Hi, i have seen multiple post from female posting in this sub looking for friendship and tired of being getting one line answer and nsfw replies from men !!
I gotta proposal to u before this post get removed !!

I am 29 M, 5’10 tall, leaner looking for long terms friend. I like to play drums ,i am into sketching , soccer and workout and i do cooking in weekends mostly when i am free. I have recently been through breakup so looking for a frnd not anything more .. i do also watch movies and series into thriller and sitcoms

So if this resonates with u my Dms are open . Dont have any age group specific if u feel comfortable and genuinely looking i am here !!

Ik all the men will be like why only f yk u r also here for the same for stfu

Hi, i have seen multiple post from female posting in this sub looking for friendship and tired of being getting one line answer and nsfw replies from men !!
I gotta proposal to u before this post get removed !!

I am 29 M, 5’10 tall, leaner looking for long terms friend. I like to play drums ,i am into sketching , soccer and workout and i do cooking in weekends mostly when i am free. I have recently been through breakup so looking for a frnd not anything more .. i do also watch movies and series into thriller and sitcoms

So if this resonates with u my Dms are open . Dont have any age group specific if u feel comfortable and genuinely looking i am here !!

Ik all the men will be like why only f yk u r also here for the same for stfu

“We’re not friends, we’re not enemies, just strangers with some memories.”

Funny how someone can start as “maybe this could be a friend”… and for a moment, even feel like it could turn into something more. You imagine conversations, inside jokes, a connection that actually lasts.

And then somehow, it just… doesn’t.
No big fight, no clear ending. Just distance where effort used to be. And you’re left realizing they’re not part of your life anymore—not even as a friend you text sometimes, just someone you used to know.

Sometimes the hardest goodbyes are the quiet ones, especially when you thought it might become something real.

Anyone who has gone through something similar M or F irrespective of age wanna share !! My DMs are open :)

“We’re not friends, we’re not enemies, just strangers with some memories.”

Funny how someone can start as “maybe this could be a friend”… and for a moment, even feel like it could turn into something more. You imagine conversations, inside jokes, a connection that actually lasts.

And then somehow, it just… doesn’t.
No big fight, no clear ending. Just distance where effort used to be. And you’re left realizing they’re not part of your life anymore—not even as a friend you text sometimes, just someone you used to know.

Sometimes the hardest goodbyes are the quiet ones, especially when you thought it might become something real.

Anyone who has gone through something similar M or F irrespective of age wanna share !! My DMs are open :)

I have been living in pune . I know i am not saying nothing new you guys are already struggling with this. This is my summary

Going to office : frustrating

Office : frustrating

Coming to office: frustrating

Now i am less patient i loose my cool very easily this is not good ik. Idk what else to do.. other than js rant abt it

Help☠️

Lately I’ve been realizing that loneliness isn’t always about being alone.

I have people around me, family, acquaintances, and people I can talk to if needed. But sometimes I still feel this strange emptiness. The moments when I feel happiest are when I’m having random, genuine conversations where I can just be myself and talk freely about anything.

Movies, social media, and keeping busy only distract me for a while. The feeling comes back eventually. It’s not that something terrible is happening in my life. I’m working on myself, focusing on fitness, health, and future goals, but some days I still wish I had a deeper connection with someone.

I’m curious if others experience this too.
What helped you deal with that feeling? Did it get better over time, or did you have to actively change something in your life?

Hey !! I like to draw and sketch if anyone into it lets talk and share some .. i am looking for some ideas both F and M are welcome to share !!!

Heyo All, just looking for new conversations i am big time sitcom lover so if u have recently watched a new sitcoms shout out !. Currently i am watching DMV ..

I am 29, an average-looking Senior Software Development Engineer with a good salary. Recently, my parents started looking for a match for me through matrimonial platforms. They received a match request on Shaadi.com. Her family was from our native place, and both families connected well.
One day, her mother spoke with me and shared her daughter’s number. We started talking daily for hours. There was no hesitation, and we shared a lot about ourselves (though she never spoke about any past relationships). I told her that I had never seriously dated anyone before.
Later, her sister, brother-in-law, and cousins visited our home. They seemed to like everything, and our conversations continued. Eventually, she visited the city where I live, and we planned to meet in person.
Before the meeting, everything seemed to be going well. She again asked me about my dating history, and I gave her the same answer. She then told me that she had dated someone during her school days.
On the day we met, things were a little awkward initially, but we still talked for around two hours. During the conversation, she again brought up the dating topic. This time, she told me that she had been in a relationship and had broken up in December. I jokingly said that if there was someone else in her life, she should tell me now because I didn’t want to become “another Ketan.”
Her reaction felt strange to me. I wanted to understand more, but she stopped the conversation and became uncomfortable. Another thing that felt odd was that her cousin suddenly took a picture of us together. I wasn’t expecting it and wasn’t really comfortable with it. Her cousin had also wanted to sit in the same café, but fortunately that didn’t happen.
After the meeting, I wasn’t feeling completely right about the situation and wanted to have an honest conversation with her, possibly even call things off. However, she texted me first, saying that she didn’t want to continue, and then blocked me. After talking for almost two months, I felt I at least deserved a phone call instead of a text message. I never got the chance to share my thoughts because she had already made her decision.
The whole situation felt strange. Even some things her family had mentioned, including details about her job and salary, didn’t entirely add up to me. Maybe there were things I wasn’t aware of, but the way everything ended left a bad impression.
I genuinely felt hurt because after two months of daily conversations, I expected a little more respect and maturity in how things were handled. My family was also surprised and disappointed because they had become quite positive about the match.
For now, I’m taking a break from the whole process, and so is my family.