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Hello everyone, I’m posting this because I’m desperate. 🥲

Context: Basically I was talking to a Virgo sun, libra moon, Leo Venus. I’m a cancer sun, libra rising, cap moon, Leo Venus. I’m a 26F and he’s 44M. I have been engaged to a Virgo sun cap moon before years ago and it was amazing. I absolutely love Virgos and I’m aware that all Virgos are not the same but I need some advice please.

I was talking to this person a while back (in march) and basically I liked him and known about him since last Dec. We only started talking in march because I replied to his story then he asked for my number. (I already had his number and I knew who he was but obviously I couldn’t say that so I just played along like I didn’t know him or anything).

He was very sweet, asked me lots of questions, we got along really well etc. Went away for the weekend and he ghosted me while I was away. He used to watch my stories all the time. He finally asked me out (before I went away) and a few days after I came back he asked me if we’re still meeting (mind you, the day and plans weren’t set so it was all vague). Naturally, I said I can’t do that week anymore but I’m happy to do the following week and he never responded to me again.

Obviously I liked this person since I first saw him in Dec and I patiently waited for the right moment for us to get in touch. He stopped watching my stories and messaging so we haven’t talked since early April. I really like this person and I genuinely don’t know how to get him back.

Did I do something wrong? Or something that Virgos hate? And how to get this person back?🥲

Thank you in advance! 🫶🏻

Hello everyone,

As the title says, did you ever notice that whoever does you wrong gets pretty bad karma? Is that an 8th house normal thing?

I have Jupiter in Gemini and Saturn in Taurus, both in 8th house.

Today, I spoke on the phone with my last ex and he was saying how his finances are messed up and he’s recently been hacked, scammers making credits in his name etc. Also, he’s found out (he’s 27yo) that he’s got an illness and that hes going to have to take medicine his whole life because of it. When I was together with this person, he used to make me cry all the time because of the abuse. That relationship was terrible and I have suffered a lot because of it. Since we broke up, his life keeps getting worse.

A lot of the times, I’ve noticed that people that hurt me, abused me, made me suffer a lot, get really bad karma. Whether that be health, finances, mental health or addictions. A lot of my exes are addicts now and have mental health issues.

Also, my childhood friend that has been raised by mother and talked shit about my mom after she died, she had a terrible life after that.

Do you find that with certain placements in the 8th house, if someone makes you suffer/abuses you gets really bad karma?

I’ve been wondering about this for the longest time and I kept seen more and more lately people talk about the 8th house placements, specifically Saturn and apparently people that do you wrong will get really bad karma. Is it bs or is it astrologically true?

So the moon is apparently in Capricorn. As a cap moon myself, this is bringing out my avoidant tendencies so flipping much to the point where I literally avoid the person I like and keep wondering why the hell do I even like them so much.

I need a break man, I’m overwhelmed with emotion it’s literally killing me😭

Anyone else feeling this?

As the title says, I have Saturn in Taurus and Jupiter in Gemini both in the 8th house. I’m also a cap moon , cancer sun libra rising. Current astrology is making me feel tired as hell and I’m more depressed than usual, especially about my career and money lol. Daddy Saturn has been playing with me for so long I’m tired bro😭

Anyone else?

Hello everyone,

It’s my first time in this community and I came here for some advice if possible please. FYI I’m a cancer sun, cap moon, libra rising, cancer mars, cancer mercury, Leo Venus female. I am currently in a situation with a Leo sun, libra moon, cancer mercury, Sagittarius mars, Gemini Venus male. I don’t know his rising sign but I’m guessing in between cancer rising and sag rising (not sure tho since I don’t have the birth time). We’re both in our mid 20s.

Anyway, long story short I’ve been seeing this person for a few months now due to the nature of their job, I’m a client at their workplace. We clicked straight away, however, I didn’t read too much into it. At the beginning this person told me that whatever I need, I can contact their work number and specifically said that they don’t give out their personal number. (This is important for later on). I kept going there for a couple months, everytime I was going into their workplace they would be nice, we would chat about things and he started to tell me even more and more personal stuff which I didn’t read into at the time. At some point we had a chat about mental health and I asked “do you mean you’re depressed?” And they replied with “I’m not legally allowed to answer that” , we concluded the conversation with me understanding exactly what they mean and me expressing my opinion on it. My intuition is really good and I can feel when something is wrong with someone. Another time we chatted and realised we’re into the same things, books etc. Before I left his workplace, he said he was going out for a cigarette so I joined to talk about books. He friendly asked me if I wanna go see a movie, I said yes thinking he was joking and then I went home. I absolutely didn’t think that this person was being serious. Also, they didnt ask me for my number or anything so I just assumed it was that, a joke.

Fast forward about a month ago, I receive a phone call from a number I had no idea who that was, it was him. FROM HIS PERSONAL NUMBER. Mind you, he took my phone number from his workplace, I never gave it to him. We chatted on the phone for a bit and he even specified that this is his, and I quote “after hours number”. We chatted for a few days, then asked me to go eat something, I initially agreed but then realised there was no way I could be home on time for a meeting I was supposed to have so I said there’s no point this time because of the time frame. I also stated that last minute plans make me anxious and stress me out.

Next day I received a message saying “I’ll just leave you be, I’ll see you when I see you” to which I did not reply. Couple of days after this message I receive a one minute voice note first thing in the morning of him apologising. We kept chatting etc. A week later I went to his workplace again, we discussed and I mentioned that I didn’t eat anything and I was feeling a little dizzy (I have an ED). Couple of hours after I left I receive a check in message from him to see if I got home alright and told me that whatever I needed I could call him. We chatted for a couple more days and that was that.

A week later I receive a message from him again but because I didn’t have the number saved I didn’t know who it was (the messages delete after 24hrs so the previous convo wasn’t there) and I asked “who’s this” bcs I genuinely didn’t know. He called me after asking “do you really not know who this is” . The next day I had a life crisis (long story) and I messaged asked him if he can call me, he did. I’m not gonna lie, I was crashing out big time and crying on the phone because the situation was pretty bad. (Can’t give too many details but the issue I was having was related to what he’s working so only he knew how to fix it). He was on his break and said he was gonna fix it within a couple of hours. He actually fixed it in an hour. Later on that day he messaged me and I said I was feeling better, he was happy I wasn’t crying anymore and I said I’m trying to make myself feel better. Then he told me that whenever I’m ready we can go to a place I really like for a drink, I agreed.

Later that day he picked me up from home, on the way to the location I said I forgot something home and he stopped at the shop to buy it for me. We met in the evening so at some point he said he will take me home so I don’t end up going back late to which i agreed. (I don’t like being out late and he knows that).

Edit: he also mentioned a horror movie I like before dropping me home. He said he’d seen that it’s in cinemas and asked me if I wanna go, I said yes but we didn’t discuss it properly yet or after that. FYI I love horror movies, I’m a huge fan and he said he “doesn’t like to see them alone” so if I wanted to go with him, but I think he doesn’t like them at all.

As a cancer, I tend to not look too much into things but a friend of mine said he might be into me, not sure if I agree, I think he’s being nice. Got his birthday and pulled up his birth chart which made me wonder.

I’m wondering how other Leo’s see this situation and if it’s just normal behaviour of being nice or if he’s into me and I just can’t see it.

I didn’t interact much with Leo’s so far, I think it’s my first time being involved with one. My mom was a Leo but I lost her when I was little so I don’t remember how she was as a person to have an idea of Leo’s behaviour in general. Any thoughts?

I appreciate taking the time to read this and looking forward to all the responses 🫶🏻

Hello everyone, I hope you’re well!

For reference, I’m a cancer sun, libra rising, cap moon, my 12th house is in Virgo and it’s empty.

Now apparently if there are planets in the 12th house it makes it more difficult, but I feel like having it empty is pretty challenging too.

What do you think about having an empty 12th house in Virgo?

Thank you in advance x

For reference, I’m a cancer sun, libra rising, cap moon (couldn’t find the flair so I can type my big 3). It’s my first time posting here so as the title says, I’m curious how cap suns view and feel about cap moons.

The reason I’m asking is because I’ve heard that apparently when someone has your moon it works really well. But as a cancer, I’ve been with someone that had a cancer moon and I hated it.

I do attract a lot of capricorns and I love them but I wonder if they hate me like I hated the cancer moon individual basically🤣.

Curious to hear your thoughts, thank you in advance x

Hello fellow cancerians, as the title says, I’ve noticed about myself that I love the idea of something rather the thing itself.

Example: romance. I’ve been involved with an Aquarius for 24 intense hours recently. The emotional closeness was amazing. However, once that was over, I didn’t really care. I love the idea of the fairytale of being with that person but realistically I don’t really care.

With crushes it’s the same. As soon as they start speaking to me I’m out😂.

Same with jobs, studying etc. I feel like I romanticise life a lot but as soon as I see reality, I’m out and realistically I don’t really care about a lot of things. I think it’s indifference.

Anyone else feeling the same or is it my libra placements that make me like this lol?😂😂

So I recently got involved with someone and I usually listen to specific songs for the situation to think of them or imagine things with them.

However, I realised I have a specific song for each person I’ve been involved with, whether friends, fwb, relationship etc it doesn’t matter. And while I was looking for a song, I kept swiping through and being like “nope that’s the song for the other person, can’t listen to this, I need to find a new one specifically for this situation and keep it only for this situation” .

Am I weird or does anyone else experience this?😅

Hello everyone, I hope all of you are well!

I’ve been manifesting using songs for the longest time, however, this time it went too far😭.

Been listening to Olivia Rodrigo - so American , for some reason I felt a connection with this song straight away and I was trying to manifest someone (someone I work with). He reminds me of my ex (appearance, way of talking, almost everything is the same).

And guess what? After 2 weeks I manifested my ex back into my life by mistake😭😭. (The one this guy I was trying to manifest a connection with looks similar to). Mind you, my ex lives in a completely different country and this still happened like wtf this is not what I wanted or my intention at all😭.

Everything that the song says, happened to me!!

“He laughs at all my jokes” - literally what happened the whole weekend

“He says I’m so American” - LITERALLY TOLD ME THAT. Were not english and he said so many times that my english is great etc etc. I live in a country where everyone speaks english so when we went out he heard me speaking it.

“I go anywhere he goes” - ive literally done that without realising😭

“It’s hard to sleep when he’s with me” - HAPPENED EXACTLY LIKE THAT when he came over. I enjoyed the closeness but that was the worse sleep of my life😭

Every single word of that song happened to me and I felt it. Mind you, I’ve been single for 2+ years and I’m not the romantic/close type at all so this type of connection with anyone seemed very far from my reach when I started listening to that song 2 weeks ago.

Woke up today, went to take a shower and listened to some music and when this song came up it clicked!! Like wtf yall😭 im so scared now. Gotta be careful what you wish for sometimes. Now im very careful what intentions I put out there because I don’t wanna mess things up lol.

Did anyone else experience something similar?

Hello everyone, thank you for the responses on yesterdays post:

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship\_advice/s/i6yNWu97xa

I went to sleep last night as I was really tired and he texted me like crazy. Saw it this morning, I don’t know what happened because he didn’t say.

I only responded this morning because he texted me on every single platform!!

However, the messages were “hey” and kept saying my name. And I also responded because I thought something might’ve happened and I was kinda worried when I saw the messages. I don’t yet know what it is but at least now I know he wasn’t intentionally rude, just tired and I’m happy to know that he doesn’t hate me!

Also, he sent me some photos that he took from me yesterday while I was sleeping which I think was really cute.

Hopefully we keep the friendship alive and all will be well for the years to come!

Thank you once again everyone x

Hello everyone, I’ve met my ex after 7 years of not seeing each other. We weren’t really talking during that time tbf apart from a few messages here and there. He was a very special person in my life when I was 16 and I loved him lots, he’s still very dear to me!

He came visiting my city (he was staying at a mutual friend) and basically we spent the last 24 hours almost constantly together. We talked about each of us’s past relationships etc etc. When we were together, we were basically teenagers and considering how life has been treating each of us, we won’t be a good match now in terms of a potential relationships. We’ve been out for walks yesterday and then our partying all night (the mutual friend was with us too and I’m not gonna lie, I’ve felt very taken care of by both of them, they paid for everything and being overly protective over me, especially at the club).

However, he did spend the night, we were cuddling like couples do, all the cheesy stuff: hugging, holding hands, forehead kisses, etc etc. We have this emotional closeness that I absolutely love, kissing here and there but nothing too sexual. We were both half asleep and he was kissing me, touching me, grabbing me and I woke up with him choking me (edit: which I enjoyed, finally someone did it properly without me having to ask or explain how to) but didn’t actually do the thing or go any further. I feel like we know each other so well so far and we know what the other person like without having to say it or discuss about it. (He has mommy issues and I have daddy issues so I’m surprised we click with this dynamic but we know how to cater to the other persons needs). He tried to give a few hints that he wants us to do something more but I don’t know what to say about that.. he’s gonna be leaving tomorrow so id rather enjoy this closeness that we have and cuddling while it lasts. I also need to mention that because when we were together, we were teenagers, we’ve never actually did anything sexual because I was too young so it would be the first time. (With him not in general lol). He is 1 year younger than me but started his sexual life waaaay before me so when we were together he was already experienced and I wasn’t. Both of us are single at the moment so we’re kinda lonely and don’t have nobody, also live in completely different countries.

Maybe the reason why I try and hold myself back from anything sexual is because I’m scared I might develop feelings and he wants to use me for sex, but I’m very emotional so I’m maybe scared that it might mess up things?

When he left, I was really sad😢. The other friend called, he got up, get dressed and left. Gave me a cold hug and that’s it.

I’m curious how other people see this situation? Is this something you guys found rude? Or are these actions and this closeness real?

I would also like to mention that we didn’t sleep since we saw each other yesterday and we were both tired, also didn’t eat anything. He did mention that he was gonna go for breakfast at some point with our mate but it just seemed very all of the sudden how he left, maybe he was just hungry idk.

I did enjoy the emotional closeness and intimacy that we shared but even before that, the unfiltered chats about literally anything (apart from sexual desires lol cuz we agreed that that’s never gonna happen and we agreed that we wouldn’t work out in a relationship either). I kinda regret not taking it further though. (Im ovulating which is probably why), I really wanted to take it further but I was scared that maybe he wouldn’t talk to me after this or something or tell other people what we did? I don’t know how to feel about this, any thoughts?

Edit: he left and im really sad😢. The other friend called, he got up, get dressed and left. Gave me a cold hug and that’s it. I guess I got my answer lol.

Hello everyone, as the title says, I’ve met my Aquarius ex after 7 years. We weren’t really talking during that time tbf apart from a few messages here and there.

He came visiting my city (he was staying at a mutual friend) and basically we spent the last 24 hours almost constantly together. We talked about each of us’s past relationships etc etc. When we were together, we were basically teenagers and considering how life has been treating each of us, we won’t be a good match now in terms of a potential relationships. We’ve been out for walks yesterday and then our partying all night (the mutual friend was with us too and I’m not gonna lie, I’ve felt very taken care of by both of them, they paid for everything and being overly protective over me, especially at the club).

However, he did spend the night, we were cuddling (he’s currently sleeping next to me LMAO), we have this emotional closeness that I absolutely love, kissing here and there but nothing sexual. He tried to give a few hints that he wants us to do something sexual but I don’t know what to say about that.. he’s gonna be leaving tomorrow so id rather enjoy this closeness that we have and cuddling while it lasts. I also need to mention that because when we were together, we were teenagers, we’ve never actually did anything sexual because I was too young so it would be the first time. (With him not in general lol). Both of us are single at the moment so we’re kinda lonely and don’t have nobody.

Maybe the reason why I try and hold myself back from anything sexual is because I’m scared I might develop feelings and he wants to use me for pleasure, but I am a cancer sun so I’m very emotional.

I’m curious how other aquariuses see this situation? Is this something you would do if you would ONLY want to have sex with someone? Or are these actions and this closeness real?

Hello everyone, I hope yall are having a great day.

Long story short, I went on a date with this cancer man. Didn’t know what his sign was though. All great, he was texting, initiating etc. We went on the date and I asked him when his birthday is, he said “7th Jan” I was like “yeah sure”😂. As a cancer myself, I’ve dated a lot of capricorns (I love them) and was engaged to one so I knew for sure he wasn’t it lol. I was under the impression that he’s either a cancer too or Pisces, he was way too nervous for my taste.

We keep chatting, he sends me something that had his name, details and DOB on it. Guess what? He is a cancer😂😂.

Why would he lie? Idk, but I wasn’t having it. I just ghosted after that.

No shade to cancer men so don’t come in the comments whining and crying cuz this is my personal opinion and preference but as a fellow cancerian, I wouldn’t date one unless there’s other placements that would make up for it.

This was absolutely hilarious and the fact that he even sent that over, I could clearly see he lied, wth😭.

Hello everyone,

Basically I wanted to do it for a while now.

So I’m thinking to write down my wish (it’s career related) on a piece of paper, place the piece of paper on a plate (the plate that I usually use for rituals and candle rituals) and then place a candle on top of it.

Some stuff that I usually use in my spell work is basil, rose buds, cinnamon and clams. And obviously crystals, depends what I’m drawn to the day when I’m performing the spell.

However, a friend of mine said that for this apparently I need a red candle but I’m not feeling it. I’m very drawn to black candles for some reason and I have loads of them. I know each candle it’s supposed to be used for certain things but I personally don’t usually follow that bcs If I’m not feeling I think it’s not working. (Is this way of thinking bad btw?) But when I use black candles it always works.

Do you think the ingredients and candle colour matter? I usually go by what I feel like that day. (Which is more or less the same thing every time)

I would also like to mention that I am also taking the necessary steps towards my wish, not just doing a spell and hoping for a miracle to happen. I just want to kind of speed up the process a little bit whether that’s directly getting that or getting on the path towards it (learning certain lessons/being out in a certain situation etc)

I do apologise if it sounds silly but I thought I’d ask the pros before I do anything. I feel very drawn to doing this, not sure if that’s a sign to go for it🤷🏻‍♀️

Also, any suggestions regarding ingredients etc, feel free to let me know. Thank you in advance xx

As the title says, these two arguing is exactly what two cancers arguing looks like.

Just talking from an astrology point of view, the older one with more life experience will always win. Us cancers are definitely petty af. Plus, the way they were arguing is so cancer coded😂.

Jude is the perfect representation of a young stubborn cancer that thinks they know it all, whereas Messi is the older cancer that is wiser and is like “oh yeah? Okay bet, I’m about to teach you a lesson”.

I definitely used to be in my “Jude era” when I was younger, all mouthy for no reason but thankfully I’ve never met an older wiser cancer to humble me. Now I’m defo in my “Messi era” where I’m more like less talk more action.

What do yall think?

P.S.: no comments about football I beg you, let’s discuss this just from an astrology point of view. Please and thank you.

Hello everyone,

I’m new here!

I would say I’m a newbie, I’ve done a few spells and rituals in the past but nothing major. A protection spell here and there.

A bit of a silly question but do you have any book recommendations or resources for me to check in order to get into it more please?

Someone said in the community that you can create your own spells with a bunch of different materials/ingredients etc according to what you’re trying to do a spell about but I want to make sure I’m not doing something wrong and learn the basics first!

I did have a calling for this for some time now as well to be honest so I decided to follow it.

All responses are appreciated, thank you!

Hello everyone!

As the title says, it’s my birthday and I am isolated. However, I chose to do that. Last weekend I was away on a lovely trip and I’ve decided to celebrate my birthday over there!

I don’t know why but I feel like my birthday it’s for me, not for other people, to spend it with other people etc. I’m having a lazy day in bed, watching horror movies and having lots of amazing food🥰. I’m turning 26 and I definitely don’t feel the need to share my day with anyone, give anyone any of my time as I think it’s a waste.

I’m by myself, enjoying myself and everything that I like. It’s nice to have some peace and quiet✨