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I’m 16 years old and everytime I search for an inspo it just looks too professional.

I’ve got my first ever interview in 2 days, I genuinely need to ace this interview I really need this job. How do I dress? And what questions do I need to prepare for? Help please!!

I’ve also got a 3 month experience from a small cafe if that’s any help.

Edit: yes this is my first ever interview because my first job at the cafe never interviewed me they just gave me the job right away.

Im 17, I just left high school, I have been applying to jobs but it’s not been successful. I have a 3 month long experience in a cafe. If anyone is hiring please message me or comment. Or just give me tips on how to get hired please!!

About two weeks ago I (F16) was hanging out with my cousin (F17) and she asked me to hide weed for her in my room. She went on holiday and didn’t know who else to ask. I didn’t think much of it and said no problem and I hid it in my room. Mum found it and lost her mind. I told her it’s not mines and she believes me and thinks it’s my friends and now forbid me from hanging out with my friends. For the past two weeks I’ve been trying to convince her that it doesn’t belong to my friends but she obviously doesn’t believe me cuz when she asks “whos is it then?” And i kinda just go quite because I can’t snitch on my cousin (her half sisters daughter)

Please help me find a way to convince my mum my friends don’t smoke without snitching on my cousin. I genuinely start crying when I see my friends hanging out without me and doing everything we planned on doing during the summer without me.

Also, I know some people are just gonna say to accept it and that my mum is just looking out for me and i get that but I don’t smoke or drink or anything like that. I’ve been drunk once like a year ago and never touched alcohol after that because i can’t handle it at all and I got very sick. I have smoked once with my cousin a few months ago but I never smoked again i was just never interested.

I just want tips on how to make my mum not hate my friends anymore because they did nothing wrong.

Me and my friends are trying to figure something out. Feel free to share any experience you’ve had with a Dominican person!

Im 16, I’ve only had one month of experience in a dessert shop. I apply literally everywhere and I just never get a response. Please help me out i really need money for the summer.

Idk if this is important but I live in Scotland

Did it change you as a person? Did it change anything? And how did you even get your heart broken?

This story starts from about 3 days ago when someone i used to be close with gave me (F16) weed, i didn’t throw it away i just kept it hidden in my room. Yesterday at around 1am I got bored and my curiosity got the best of me.

After looking at a few tutorials on YouTube i decided to smoke in my room which was really dumb because shortly after my mum started knocking on my door asking what that smell was. I tried my best cleaning up before opening the door for her but I couldn’t get rid of the smell.

As soon as she walked in she could tell I was smoking, she sat on my chair and she just zoned out she didn’t say a word. She then woke up my dad which made things way worse cuz my parents haven’t even spoken in like two months because of an argument they had. I got lectured until 4am. I understand how they feel and that theyre just looking out for me but it really was just a one time thing.

This really sucks cuz I wanted to enjoy my summer but i don’t think that will happen anymore. I just want advice on how to make them calm and understand me. Or if you’ve been in my situation what happened?

My dad said to me that night that if i wanted him to forgive me I’d have to go back to who I was before. What he means by that is stop doing my makeup, stop getting my nails done, and to just leave my hair be and not do hairstyles. And to also cut off all my friends and stop going out completely.

As much as I love and respect him i really dont wanna do that. I want to have a life being a loner doesn’t sound very appealing.

He’s always implied that I’m some type of slut and last night he told me whenever he enters my room he gets angry because it looks like a room of a slut. I dont understand because I don’t even dress in any type of way that suggests I’m a slut and I don’t really do slutty activities so idk.

Also I just wanna add that my friends don’t smoke, one of them has but it’s because their cousin smokes a lot and she got to try it from her but she’s only ever done it like twice. The guy that gave me weed isn’t connected to my friends he is someone that I used to chat to like a year ago. He reached out to me like 2 weeks ago apologizing for how he treated me in the past. We hung out 3 days ago and he gave me weed.

This story starts from about 3 days ago when someone i used to be close with gave me (F16) weed, i didn’t throw it away i just kept it hidden in my room. Yesterday at around 1am I got bored and my curiosity got the best of me.

After looking at a few tutorials on YouTube i decided to smoke in my room which was really dumb because shortly after my mum started knocking on my door asking what that smell was. I tried my best cleaning up before opening the door for her but I couldn’t get rid of the smell.

As soon as she walked in she could tell I was smoking, she sat on my chair and she just zoned out she didn’t say a word. She then woke up my dad which made things way worse cuz my parents haven’t even spoken in like two months because of an argument they had. I got lectured until 4am. I understand how they feel and that theyre just looking out for me but it really was just a one time thing.

This really sucks cuz I wanted to enjoy my summer but i don’t think that will happen anymore. I just want advice on how to make them calm and understand me. Or if you’ve been in my situation what happened?

My dad said to me that night that if i wanted him to forgive me I’d have to go back to who I was before. What he means by that is stop doing my makeup, stop getting my nails done, and to just leave my hair be and not do hairstyles. And to also cut off all my friends and stop going out completely.

As much as I love and respect him i really dont wanna do that. I want to have a life being a loner doesn’t sound very appealing.

He’s always implied that I’m some type of slut and last night he told me whenever he enters my room he gets angry because it looks like a room of a slut. I dont understand because I don’t even dress in any type of way that suggests I’m a slut and I don’t really do slutty activities so idk.

Also I just wanna add that my friends don’t smoke, one of them has but it’s because their cousin smokes a lot and she got to try it from her but she’s only ever done it like twice. The guy that gave me weed isn’t connected to my friends he is someone that I used to chat to like a year ago. He reached out to me like 2 weeks ago apologizing for how he treated me in the past. We hung out 3 days ago and he gave me weed.

This story starts from about 3 days ago when a friend of a friend gave me (F16) weed, i didn’t throw it away i just kept it hidden in my room. Yesterday at around 1am I got bored and my curiosity got the best of me.

After looking at a few tutorials on YouTube i decided to smoke in my room which was really dumb because shortly after my mum started knocking on my door asking what that smell was. I tried my best cleaning up before opening the door for her but I couldn’t get rid of the smell.

As soon as she walked in she could tell I was smoking, she sat on my chair and she just zoned out she didn’t say a word. She then woke up my dad which made things way worse cuz my parents haven’t even spoken in like two months because of an argument they had. I got lectured until 4am. I understand how they feel and that theyre just looking out for me but it really was just a one time thing.

This really sucks cuz I wanted to enjoy my summer but i don’t think that will happen anymore. I just want advice on how to make them calm and understand me. Or if you’ve been in my situation what happened?

This story starts from about 3 days ago when someone i know gave me (F16) weed, i didn’t throw it away i just kept it hidden in my room. Yesterday at around 1am I got bored and my curiosity got the best of me.

After looking at a few tutorials on YouTube i decided to smoke in my room which was really dumb because shortly after my mum started knocking on my door asking what that smell was. I tried my best cleaning up before opening the door for her but I couldn’t get rid of the smell.

As soon as she walked in she could tell I was smoking, she sat on my chair and she just zoned out she didn’t say a word. She then woke up my dad which made things way worse cuz my parents haven’t even spoken in like two months because of an argument they had. I got lectured until 4am. I understand how they feel and that theyre just looking out for me but it really was just a one time thing.

This really sucks cuz I wanted to enjoy my summer but i don’t think that will happen anymore. I just want advice on how to make them calm and understand me. Or if you’ve been in my situation what happened?

This story starts from about 3 days ago when a friend of a friend gave me (F16) weed, i didn’t throw it away i just kept it hidden in my room. Yesterday at around 1am I got bored and my curiosity got the best of me.

After looking at a few tutorials on YouTube i decided to smoke in my room which was really dumb because shortly after my mum started knocking on my door asking what that smell was. I tried my best cleaning up before opening the door for her but I couldn’t get rid of the smell.

As soon as she walked in she could tell I was smoking, she sat on my chair and she just zoned out she didn’t say a word. She then woke up my dad which made things way worse cuz my parents haven’t even spoken in like two months because of an argument they had. I got lectured until 4am. I understand how they feel and that theyre just looking out for me but it really was just a one time thing.

This really sucks cuz I wanted to enjoy my summer but i don’t think that will happen anymore. I just want advice on how to make them calm and understand me. Or if you’ve been in my situation what happened?