u/Zestyclose-Forever55

i am crying while typing this i don’t want to burden my irls with this nonsense but wtf ?

my friend F19 has hinge and on her hinge she got him in that swipe thing, to which she sent me a ss..then later i saw the app on his phone. il admit the pics on his profile were from before we were dating but why he still had it? he deleted the app n sent me pic and then said leave all this now i had forgotten to delete it but i am feeling like someone punched me in my face repeatedly.. im overreacting ik but how do i deal with this i feel miserable over such a small issue. my heart literally felt like it came out when i saw his profile like i felt so physically disgusted n nauseous bro is there something wrong w me?

is there any way i can see when a user last used the app
or was active ? i don’t use the app i dont know
please help me

I’m 17f turning 18 next year and i have pcos. i have hair growth on my neck, it’s vv little like 4-5 long strands randomly on my neck but it’s there. i also have happy trail line on my stomach.. is electrolysis actually going to forever get rid of this? please need review from someone’s who’s actually gotten it done. im very insecure of this. i know it’s less but i don’t want it at all. please take a second out of ur day& let me know that there’s some hope to get rid of this damn hair😭

My boyfriend went on a trek trip today with his college friends, girl A and boy B.

girl A is this bitch who comments on all his posts and stories .. and is way too close to him for my comfort. i trust him 100% he knows his boundaries and shit. she doesn’t.
he went out with these two today. so it was the three of them. 2 guys 1 girl. cool cool.
he sent me the pics of their hangout. overall was nice.
he forgot to mute the snap he sent me which was a view of the place and then in the background girl A is saying ‘broo tu videos sabh leta hai but tag nai karta kyuuuuuu’ in the most pick me voice . to which his friend boy B says ‘kisi ko pata nai chalna chahiye na isliye’ (referring to me, even tho my man told me beforehand only who all are going lol.) and she was like abey what bullshit haaaaaa and the video cut.
then they went to eat afterwards and over there also my baby was sending me pics how cute but that bitch,
she sat next to him.
so it was him and her and in front of them was boy B their third friend. she could’ve sat w him also na. itna paas mei the dono.
guys yaar im really irritated it’s not him he is very clear and loves me but she is pissing me off bhai

guys how do i talk to him about this in a way that doesn’t make me sound like a psycho insecure girlfriend? am i overreacting? my poor baby has no idea why im being dry with him but i don’t want him to think im insecure of him or anything cus i’ve fought with him many times before over his past ( im a virgin, he has quite the body count) so yeah and now this.
am i psycho?

this is not coming from a place of conservative thinking or anything.
i have 0 problems with women and men sleeping with whoever how many times as they want.
id never judge a friend or family over their bodycount, just making it clear.
my man has a body count of 8. mines 0.
i wanted him to be my first before i found out about this.
i already suffer from extreme jealousy issues with his ex since they were together for a long time and i am the girl after THE EX ykwim( we started dating 2 years after they broke up so he’s over her but she’s still kept pics with him on her insta, and keeps trying to reach out, btch.) . he comforts me consoles me he’s a lovely man .
but now i feel nauseous everytime he hugs me or anything because i think about how he must’ve done the same w the 8 other women before me. i hate the way i sound rn but please understand where i am coming from. im helpless . i wanna ask him about this in depth and if he’s still in contact w any of them but idk how to approach without sounding like an emotional rat. he was really happy to learn that i believe physical intimacy is more than just that like i think it’s a soul connection with someone but i followed my thinking and didn’t sleep with anyone aise hi and 8 women i mean fcuk like i feel so sad thinking about how the way he’s with me he must’ve been with them and what if im not the best he has had and what if he’ll compare me with them and prolly prefer them over the virgin who doesn’t even know what to do.it’s boiling my blood and upar se his chutiya ex she hasn’t deleted their pics and they’re kissing dancing in almost all of them i feel so nauseous i want to cry. please help me. how to approach him about this? i don’t want him to feel bad i love him but he’s had sex with 8 girls. 8 girls have had him before me. thinking about it is making me pukish yaar wtf like i wanted him to be my first and everything but knowing how different levels were at.. it feels unfair. because i feel like we could genuinely end up in something as serious as a marriage but how can i get over the fact that he’s slept with 8 women yaar.

i know i sound a little backward with my statements i am not someone who judges anyone based on this but if im with a partner and i’ve kept myself with the thinking ki mera first hi last hoga whereas he’s already slept with 8 different women like you know what im saying? im sorry if i sound awful im not this person i swear

also i tried posting this on other subs but they have some specific days for relationship posts and i don’t have it in me to wait till then and i don’t want irls getting involved in such a private matter of mine. that’s why im here.

he said no neck but i genuinely don’t know where else to give pls help😭😭
he’s given me on my chest ( he finds it funny cute and sexy) so now it’s my turn but no neck help.

also do not dm me thanks !!

im trying to feel something different but i cannot find my clit it’s like it’s not there only i’ve tried touching every part to see where im most sensitive but nope.
and i haven’t let a guy finger me either i wanna test it out myself first
help me please 🙏

do not dm me

i wanna make sure my boyfriend gets the best experience everytime
not sex tho
but what do guys like? like if we’re making out what should i do more to make him hornier and feel more pleasure? and in general any tips? he makes me feel so good i wanna do smt for him in return
thank you xx

i js shaved my hooha( started with cutting peripheral hair with scissor ) and omg i feel so clean and everything but in too scared to touch the lips w the razor, like the hair there.
is it okay to leave a lil bit of hair there? i scissored whatever i could out but i don’t feel like shaving my labia cus it’s sensitive af and im scared.
i cut myself a lil on the sides but it doesn’t pain much.
plss let me know post care as well.😭

^^dms are open orrrr you could comment. thanks :)

i already have one minimal heart tattoo i got last month and i lowkey want more now
something bigger, so i was thinking to test the waters first dont wanna regret
im going goa next week so i’ll get it done from there but exactly hota kya hai? how long will it last?

completely out of the box but something i feel like sharing.
i’ve been having countless dreams about being a mother to a beautiful baby girl called mahira. my princess. and it’s her in all those dreams. everytime i wake up i miss my baby girl so much. it sucks because i’m nowhere near having a child lmao im 16 myself but the feeling i felt for her is unbearable. how do i get over this thought that’s constantly torturing me like how can i miss a child that does not even exist (yet) ?
in all those dreams she’s growing with me. in the dreams, im in my late 20s with a child and a husband that is awfully sweet to me. im a veterinarian (. that’s what im studying to be rn). i don’t even remember the husbands face but ive memorised each detail of mahira’s.
this is sooooooooo confusing 😭😭 i feel like a schizo patient yaar