
My Mom almost gave her info to a scammer. But the terrible things the HOA did saved her
I came to visit my mom three days ago. She’s 64, retired, living alone, and spends half her time arguing with the HOA all the time and call them scammers for what they do. And yeah, they act like scammers…
Then her phone rang. Unknown number…
She answered, and I overheard her say “hello?” Then her face went pale. The woman on the other end introduced herself as a police officer investigating a crime. She told my mom she was a suspect in a serious case and needed to answer questions about a credit card at a bank where my mom doesn’t even have an account. Otherwise it’s gonna be an arrest with all the accounts frozen. You probably heard all those scary scripts those scammers have
I was about to grab the phone, but then my mom started complaining about the HOA. She went on a tangent about how they’re the real scammers and the police should chase them instead. I almost laughed and because she really does hate them and complains about them constantly
But then she started believing the caller. I whispered that they are scammers and she should hang up
She looked at me confused, then back at the phone. Then she flipped. She started grilling them with questions and even dared them to come arrest her and block her account at that bank. They hung up fast
Funny, right? But later I couldn’t sleep. What if I hadn’t been there? Would she have given them information? Sent money?
A friend told me she uses Unscammed and even taught her parents how to use it for suspicious calls. I’m thinking I need something like that for my mom
What do you all do to protect your older parents from this stuff? I can’t be there every time her phone rings. I just want to make sure she’s safe and without hovering over her shoulder 24/7