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I hate when ppl keep asking me about relationship, or people are talking about relationships and I'm not even joking when I say I never felt anything for someone like desire or sexual attraction, I don't feel like dating. And I'm not willing to put up with it just for the sake of it. Idk if I'm demi or just assexual, but that makes me feel bad. I don't want to explain myself I feel embarrassed and cringey

I tried the butter beer at Shinjuku, Guys it tastes so bad like I'm not selective with food drinks I eat everything, but I feel so bad, my expectations destroyed my harry potter dreams.

I've grown increasingly frustrated by a pattern I've noticed. It often feels like some people repeatedly tolerate disrespect, betrayal, and humiliation from partners who show little remorse or accountability. What bothers me isn't that someone makes a mistake or stays through a difficult period, people have complicated reasons for doing that. What I struggle to understand is when someone continually accepts serious mistreatment, ignores repeated warning signs, and keeps returning despite no meaningful change.

Over time, I've become much less tolerant of that dynamic. If someone consistently behaves with disrespect, dishonesty, or cruelty and refuses to acknowledge or take responsibility for it, I choose to remove them from my life rather than spend my energy trying to change them. I'd rather surround myself with people who have self-respect, accountability, and healthy boundaries than become involved in cycles of manipulation and drama.

One situation that completely changed how I viewed someone involved my brother and his girlfriend. She told me that my brother had been hiring prostitutes, reading redpill shit, cheated on her, lied to her repeatedly, exposed her and even our household, to scabies he contracted from prostitutes, publicly humiliated her in front of his friends, and even blamed her after one of his friends sexually harassed her. After everything she had shared with me, my brother discovered that I knew what had happened and blocked both of us. Instead of recognizing how unhealthy the situation had become or respecting the boundary, she became rude toward me and asked me to convince him to unblock her. I kinda of brushed it off, but my brother refused to take to visit my mother in a farm, he said if i went he would not go, the car belong to his gf, she was present when he said that, the gf did not even defend me or ANYTHING, like i gave her emotional support for the abuse she was passing thro, she told me all the evil things my brother did (which fucked up my opinion of him) i turned against him and this bitch just crawl back to him like freaking maggot and obey him like a slave.

That was the moment I stopped seeing her as someone trapped in a bad situation and started seeing someone who was willing to abandon her own dignity just to regain the attention of someone who had repeatedly mistreated her. I realized I no longer wanted people like that in my life. Watching someone repeatedly excuse or chase after a person who has consistently betrayed and degraded them is something I find deeply difficult to respect, and I choose to distance myself from those dynamics rather than become emotionally involved in them.

Not only that but my sister's friend repeted weird vibes turned out to be rude (i was expecting that to come at some point giving his off vibes he was giving me), she never ackowledging this and even shifting the blame (i refuse this and i skipped her birthday because of this), then her boyfriend, then my friend's male friend (i cut her off). I do not know what causes this if i am just ugly or if i ever autistic and was rude in a way i can't myself comprehend (i do not think i was, i treat everyone with respect even tho i dislike them). Like How some men can be fucking rude and women just excuse that behavior like it's nothing. I mean i do not get it, they are not even exceptionallly handsome, rich, hot, super friendly, inteligent, big dick NOTHING. To put up with so much unpoliness and rudeness from someone like this. ANYWAYS, i just want to be friend normal women who realize abuse and RUN AWAY, as soon as they catch the vibes, i am willing to cut everyone off with the slight sign of disrespect idgaf, god i just want to meet normal women and men, and not this level of nonsense.

My belly was so swollen (not like in hurting/sick kinda or way more like kinda healthy way), my farts were so nousy and lastings really huge seconds. Then I couldnt sleep because I was farting every minute of the night, then in the morning I had the biggest diarreia I ever had. Just wanted to share. I wondered, am I sick? After the explosion, I recovered myself now im fine

I know all corporate jobs kinda suck, but LMFAO I worked in one of the top 10 and even tho I was making a lot of money it was one of the worst experiences of my life.

I'm from Brazil, lmfao and I saw really cool videos of Bangladesh supporting Brazil in football, thank you very much that means a lot! ♥️♥️🥹 but I've seen people supporting Argentina LMFAO ok we have rivalry. But the reason for that is that for a lot of time Argentinians see people of dark skin color as inferior and usually are often prone to mistreat, say racial slurs to south Americans who doesn't look white, or come from countries of majority black ppl.

Being the main reason most South Americans dislike or favors supporting African countries, other then Argentina. For example all South America rooting for Cabo Verde in match with Argentina in the next game.

That is of course mass generalization and there is really good Argentinians that are really nice, but the occasions where this has happened, are way too many times to simply pretend this doesn't exist. Knowing Bangladesh has a lot of people of dark skin color I wonder are they unaware?

I look so indigenous, like Pocahontas. In my life like 8 ppl asked if I was indigenous, 1 asked if I was Chinese.

Você já conheceu alguém viciado em bets? Não consigo entender. Aliás como banir bets ajudaria em algo? A pessoa pode se viciar em qualquer coisa, prostitutas, drogas, jogos, religião comida. Geralmente na minha experiência pessoas com tendência tendem a sair de um extremo e ir a outro.

I skipped my sister's birthday and family members have been blaming me for not going

The immediate reason was a conflict with her boyfriend, who had been rude and disrespectful toward me. When I objected, nobody in my family seemed interested in discussing his behavior. Instead, the focus immediately shifted to me: I was overreacting, being difficult, causing drama, etc.

What makes this harder is that this isn't an isolated incident. My family has a long history of dismissing or invalidating my feelings. Growing up, whenever I was upset about how someone treated me, the conversation usually became about what I did wrong, how I should be more understanding, or why I should just let it go.

Over time, this seriously affected my self-esteem. I started questioning my own judgment because I was constantly told my reactions were the problem. I always tended to think i was being too much that maybe i was overreacting, but in reality i get to know my thoughts were indeed correct about the majority of the people, they were indeed doing horrible, unethical immoral things genuinely.

I did not want to attend, because i feel like none cares for me in this family, they want me to pretend everything was fine while feeling like my concerns had once again been ignored.

What frustrates me is the double standard. My sister skipped my birthday in the past, and nobody treated it like a family crisis. Nobody accused her of ruining anything. But when I skip hers, suddenly I'm selfish and causing harm.

Part of the issue is that my family seems willing to forgive things that I personally cannot forgive. Throughout my life I've watched people excuse behavior that I considered deeply harmful because "they're family." Specially people that have been harmed and accepted this behavior which i consider unaceptable have telling me to stop being selfish and make others sad due to division i have with this other person

I've seen family members stay close to relatives who cheated on spouses, abused alcohol, mistreated their partners, or caused serious harm to others. I've watched people overlook things because someone was a father, husband, son, or brother. The message often feels like maintaining family peace matters more than acknowledging what happened.

As a result, I often feel like the family scapegoat. When conflict happens, the discussion becomes about my reaction rather than the behavior that caused it.

So when my sister's boyfriend treated me disrespectfully and everyone immediately focused on my response and blaming for it, instead of his actions, it felt like the same pattern repeating itself. Anyways i did not want to attend because i am partially tired of feeling like that, to normalize this type of behavior getting normalized, that like i am dismissed and that i have to put myself down so others do not feel uncomfortable.

My family says I should have put my feelings aside and attended for my sister's sake. Tho i do not feel so much close to my family

From my perspective, they were asking me to once again pretend nothing happened and because some people blamed me for it and called me selfish i feel even less desire to attend next time.

Was I wrong for refusing to go?

the irony is i pay the premium account of spotify, BUT they have ADS on episodes on podcasts which is ANNOYING. So i dont believe im doing anything wrong LMFAO.

Cadela adotada, mistura de pitbull, rosna, morde e se debate ao tomar vacinas. Já é difícil pegar ela. Pra que o processo seja menos traumático penso em comprar sedativo pra dar vacinas em casa (porque veterinário é caro demais). Eu já apliquei vacinas em casa e sei aplicar da maneira correta, entretanto houve outros casos como ela mordeu porco espinho e foi extremamente traumático pra ela tirar os espinhos da boca. Enquanto as outras cadelas adotadas não tem problema em tomar vacina e tirar espinhos por exemplo

A casa estava extremamente limpa quando chegamos de viagem (viajei com meu pai para o exterior porque ele é idoso e queria viajar e não sabe se virar sozinho). Eu geralmente limpo a casa e faço comida. Mas chegamos há uma semana a casa estava super limpa, eu fui ficar com a minha mãe e a casa fedendo a carniça pq ele jogou o lixo orgânico e não colocou sacola, cheio de papel, comida fora da geladeira. Meu pai é filho de imigrantes e a mãe dele fazia tudo na casa e ele sempre chega a casa está limpa PQ EU LIMPO aí ele suja tudo de volta esse porco. Uma das coisas que decidi, se eu ter que limpar a casa eu não vou mais fazer comida, pq não sou empregada, eu poderia estar estudando pra passar em processos seletivos, mas fico a mercê de ficar limpando a casa pra homem porco vagabundo. O que mais posso fazer? (Quero sair de casa pra ainda estou fazendo estágio).