u/bcmamabear79

I’m not even sure why I’m posting this, but I figured if there was ever a place where someone might understand, it would be here.
I’m 46 and have an amazing 11-year-old son with special needs. I’ve raised him on my own since the day he was born. His father has struggled with addiction for many years and has never been a consistent part of his life. It’s been my son and me, almost 24/7, for over a decade.
I homeschool him and receive disability benefits because I haven’t had reliable childcare. Some days we can get out and do things. Other days, when he’s in burnout, leaving the house isn’t possible. Sometimes those difficult periods last weeks or even months. Unless you’ve lived this life, it’s incredibly hard to explain.
Because of that, I’ve slowly lost friendships and connections over the years. Most days I don’t have another adult to talk to. I spend my time taking care of my son, keeping our home going, and trying to make the best of our situation. It can be incredibly lonely.
I’ve realized I don’t want to spend the rest of my life alone.
I’m not interested in casual dating or playing games. I’m looking for something real—a best friend, a partner, someone who wants to build a life together. Someone who understands that my son will always be part of the package, and who sees that as something to embrace rather than avoid.
My son often tells me he wishes he had a dad. It breaks my heart. He deserves someone kind, patient, and dependable in his life. I deserve someone who chooses us, too.
I know time together wouldn’t always be easy. It might mean phone calls after my son goes to bed, video chats, texting throughout the day, or the occasional visit when I can arrange childcare. It wouldn’t be conventional, but I believe meaningful relationships can grow in unconventional ways.
I miss having someone to laugh with. Someone to tell about my day. Someone who genuinely cares whether we made it through a hard week. I miss affection, teamwork, and feeling like I’m not carrying the weight of the world alone.
I’m wondering if there are any men out there—especially dads, single dads, or men who understand caregiving or special needs—who are looking for the same thing. Even if you’re just another parent who understands this life, I’d love to connect.
Sometimes it feels hopeless, but I’m hoping it isn’t.

I’m in Canada and looking to try press on nails for the first time.

Is there a specific brand or place to order from that you would recommend?

Also, is there such thing as a short stiletto style???

Thanks in advance!

Looking for a size 7.5 ring in 925 sterling silver (white gold plated/rhodium plated preferred).

Interested in:
• Asscher
• Octagon
• Kite
• East-West cuts
• Other unique geometric cuts

Stone preferences:
• Moissanite (especially crushed ice or old mine cuts)
• Spinel
• Blue
• Blue-green
• Deep navy blue
• White/clear
• Pink

Budget-friendly options. 😊
Must be willing to ship to BC, Canada 🇨🇦

Please comment or DM photos, specs, price, and shipping details. 😊