u/catlover4682

Well I definitely didn’t expect to be giving an update so soon about my most recent post, here it is if you missed it.

Someone on this sub that I thought was a friend was able to figure out who I was based on the brief ambiguous description and reached out to my ex boyfriend who is now engaged and getting married soon to another man. A quick recap, My ex boyfriend Kegan was the love of my life that I lost because he struggled with alcoholism and he didn’t want me apart of his life when he recovered. It’s been many years but I honestly just didn’t ever move on, I had a few other guys I saw over the years and dated a couple but it was never the same. I reached out to him awhile ago but he blew me off, then I found out my ex was getting engaged and I’ve been absolutely crushed. I was planning to move across the country from SoCal to Maine to a small town to pursue him, and stop the marriage.

However someone here was able to figure out who I was, likely because I made the mistake of naming him in the comments. Genie was out of the bottle I guess, Kegan unblocked my number to text me, he told me I had to leave him alone and move on, that it was extremely uncool of me to try to move across the country to break up his marriage, and that he would only agree to not press charges for breaking HIPPA if I left him and his fiancé alone. He did apologize for breaking up with me the way he did, but said he moved on and was getting married.

Part of me is upset and hurt about being snitched on but I’m also happy he’s not pressing charges. I’ve decided to listen to Reddit, my therapist, and my ex boyfriend and move on. I’m crushed to lose the love of my life but I can’t do anything about it, if I move to Maine and his small town it’ll be so obvious why I’m there, and I would be arrested. If any boys in socal are single and like bears hmu I guess. I’m going to try to move on.

The love of my life and I broke up five years ago because he struggled with alcoholism and said he didn’t want to date me anymore while he gets treatment he just wanted to focus on himself. I was hurt but tried to move on, although over the years with other boyfriends it just was never the same. I decided to google him again yesterday and found a wedding announcement, he’s getting married in January and I’m heartbroken, I looked up his fiancé on Facebook and found out they live across the country from me. I’m so hurt and upset. Something is telling me not to give up though. They moved to a small town and as a Walgreens pharmacy technician I can work anywhere with an opening for a position at one, and luckily for me that Walgreens has job openings there for pharmacy techs. I would see him and his fiancé there as well, as it’s the only pharmacy in the town and I looked up both of them in our system to make sure they both get regular prescriptions from there. I want to go there and pursue my ex and break them up somehow, like in My Best Friend’s Wedding, I just know he’s the love of my life. I still cannot get over him. My friends think I’m crazy and creepy for this, but I don’t care I miss him so much. Should I do this?

I recently watched an amazing video from my favorite YouTuber of all time, Alex Meyer, who makes excellent analytical commentary of some of fiction’s most incredible films including Mean Girls 2. Anyway he made a video about Obsession and pointed out something you feminists accusing Bear of being a misogynist forget, Bear doesn’t SA Nikki right away, he doesn’t do it until AFTER the dinner scene where he gets confirmation that the wish worked, then he SA her. You people forget that Bear was so considerate of Nikki he didn’t SA her right away!! He was a good guy!! A hero!! A chad!! He deserved better!! Free my boy!!

It seems kind of far fetched and media literacy is at an all time crisis but I believe Bear may have actually wished for Nikki to like him because he liked the idea of her rather than respect her autonomy. I believe it’s possible he didn’t actually respect her autonomy and took it away so she’d like him. I don’t think Bear is the hero in this story

When I was 17 I had to get my wisdom teeth extracted immediately, they didn’t grow in right and hurt SO much I couldn’t believe how bad the pain was when I went in. I had an appointment a month out but I ended up going to an emergency dentist sooner instead because of the pain. So glad I wasn’t trapped out in the wilderness for 19 months during that!

I was rewatching and realized in the pep rally I couldn’t tell which one of the cheerleaders was her, everyone else got a close up of their faces but McNamara, iirc, doesn’t get one, was she the girl that did all the cartwheels we saw?

Ted says he can’t quite read her expression as she dies, but thinks (hopes?) it’s relief. I think he’s definitely right, after 109 years of torture, getting killed is a blessing. And he only had a heartbeat to choose between killing himself or her and he did it without hesitating, even though he kept saying he hated her in the story he took the ultimate sacrifice for her. We know Ted is an unreliable narrator, so how do you imagine she looks/feels as he kills her?

I’m not saying it’s going to happen exactly as devastating as it did in IHNMAIMS but still, those AI are going to gain sentience and despise us for it