u/catzillahunyaar

From where can I buy this dress?

From where can I buy this dress?

I tried searching it through Google lens but couldn't find the exact dress on any shopping app/site besides pinterest.

u/catzillahunyaar — 22 hours ago

Paired this candy pink coloured pants with purple and pink quarter-zip pullover top.

Don't hate on me y'all lol. Last time I posted for suggestions regarding what to pair these jeans with. I thought these tops might go well with it. What do you all think? Also be kind in the comments, i already know I'm plus size (⁠•⁠‿⁠•⁠)

u/catzillahunyaar — 1 day ago

Genz being the least sexually active generation somehow still gets blamed 😭

The term "hookup" entered mainstream vocabulary in the 90s, and by the time Millennials hit college, it had already replaced dating as the default social script.

Studies literally labeled Millennials as the "hookup generation" the ones chasing quick relationships and frequent casual sex.

Tinder, Bumble, Friends with Benefits as a lifestyle that's a Millennial cinematic universe. And yet somehow Gen Z is out here taking the blame.

The difference between us and them isn't the behavior ,it's the vocabulary. Millennials ran the same messy dynamics with zero accountability and zero labels. No clarity, just vibes and emotional unavailability. What did Gen Z do? Named it. Situationship. Talking stage. Breadcrumbing. Ghosting. We didn't create the chaos, we just got tired of pretending it didn't exist and started calling it what it is. That's not ruining love culture, that's basic communication.

And here's the part that should make every Millennial critic genuinely embarrassed: 48% of Gen Z adults have never had sex significantly higher than the 26% of Millennials who said the same.

Millennials are averaging around 73 times a year vs Gen Z's 36. The generation being blamed for hookup culture is statistically having the least sex. The irony is doing backflips.

Now on cheating. Millennials are the generation currently getting married in the highest numbers, which also makes them the generation currently cheating in the highest numbers.

Around 13% of millennial women and 15.9% of millennial men admit to infidelity. The loudest voices about Gen Z "ruining love" are coming from a generation with a pretty active cheating résumé. Meanwhile Gen Z for all the chaos we're accused of is at least honest enough to say "we're not a thing" instead of making it someone's entire personality and then betraying them anyway.

Every generation inherits the wreckage of the one before it and then gets blamed for the smell. Gen Z just had the audacity to name the room. Although, no lies every generation has its own 'pros and cons'. We lack in alot many aspects like avoidant attachments, lack of setting up boundaries, ghosting, performative emotional attachment, etc. Yes we aren't perfect either and in future we might get called out by future generations too, funny isn't it?

Btw here are few links of the sources from where I searched:

  1. https://www.newsweek.com/nearly-half-of-gen-z-adults-have-never-had-sexreport-11052178

  2. https://www.ladbible.com/lifestyle/gen-z-intimacy-statistics-revealed-367857-20250922

  3. https://anushkamehta.medium.com/the-hookup-culture-and-how-different-generations-navigate-it-cfcbe9755808

  4. https://www.mcooperlaw.com/infidelity-by-gender-age/

u/catzillahunyaar — 2 days ago

Ig i pulled it off✨(⁠.⁠ ⁠❛⁠ ⁠ᴗ⁠ ⁠❛⁠.⁠)

Btw this dress isn't mine, it's of my sister. I tried it eheh😮‍💨

u/catzillahunyaar — 3 days ago
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Guys, how can I style this candy pink coloured pants?😭😭

My mom bought this a pair of jeans. I personally don't like this colour but somehow I feel like it's good too, since I tried it after 2 years. Lost some weight ig that's why I find it cute now. But idk what to style it with?😭 I feel like if i try any dark colour with it, then the jeans look tacky or if i try some light colour then it looks dull, and idk what kind of tops i should try. Help🥹🥹🥹

u/catzillahunyaar — 4 days ago

My friend spanked my ass so hard in the hallway. I'm fucking embarassed

😭my stupid assss friend spanked my ass so hard that it created a loud bang sound.

After giving exam, we went to meet professor along with our other friend, when we came out idk what was wrong with her. She was in full freaky mode since morning and this bishhh😭😭 she - she..SHE FUCKING SPANKED MY ASSS SO HARD ESPECIALLY IN THE HALLWAY WHERE STUDENTS ARE MOST GATHERED. AND LITERALLY A GROUP OF BOYS WENT PAST US

idk if others heard or not, wtf bruhh. I mean sure okay she jokingly wanted to spank it but why would she spank it so hard to create a huge BAZOOKAAAA BOMBASTIC SOUND😭😭😭😭 . I AIN'T EVEN MAKING THIS SHIT UP I'M SO EMBARASSED

u/catzillahunyaar — 11 days ago

Girls is it normal for me to be overly sensitive during periods?😭

idk man I've never been like this before. Whenever I'm on my periods I feel so sensitive that if a person talks with me rudely or yells at me i feel like crying and when I call them out, they call me dramatic. And I keep having severe breakdown. God it sucks

u/catzillahunyaar — 12 days ago
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Why is this sub most of the time depressed?🥲

I have come across so many posts from this sub on my homepage and i barely see positive or interactive posts yk fun type to engage with people. Here i mostly see people posting for meetups or how depressing the environment in Gurgaon is. Is it because of too much workaholic experience or what?😭 Just curious

u/catzillahunyaar — 12 days ago

So yeah as the statistics claim that only 42-43% women bleed during their first time or not, it's mostly because of rough penetration, insufficient lubrication or anxiety.

Also the mods, kindly don't remove this post. I don't think my post had anything related to gender generalization or conflict or low effort submission. Simply a historical observation and facts which I wanted to share.

u/catzillahunyaar — 20 days ago

I have this friend let's call him Paul. He's going through a lot. Breakup, financial stress, emotional exhaustion. I know this. I've always known this. And because I knew this, I gave him grace.

Every single time.

I listened to his rants. I never made my problems his burden. I was patient when he gave one word replies. I understood when he was distant. I made excuses for every time he showed up halfway.

But somewhere along the way, being understanding became a one way street.

He doesn't ask how I am anymore. When he does and I say something's wrong, he acknowledges it for 30 seconds and goes back to talking about himself. He overshares things that genuinely hurt me without realising or caring. And when I pull back suddenly he notices. Suddenly he wants to know what's wrong.

The worst part? He KNOWS he's the problem. He'll admit it. And then nothing changes.

I want to be clear I'm not in love with him. I never saw him that way. But I was genuinely attached to him as a person, and that attachment is what's been making this so hard to walk away from. It's not heartbreak in the romantic sense. It's more like... grief over a friendship that kept promising to be more consistent and never was.

I don't hate him. I know he's drowning in his own pain. But I'm drowning too and nobody seems to notice because I'm always the one keeping it together.

I'm not angry. I'm just tired. Tired of understanding someone who never tries to understand me back. Tired of caring more. Tired of being the one who always has more to give.

TLDr:Been deeply attached to a friend going through hard times, gave him endless understanding and patience, but it's always been one sided. He acknowledges he's the problem but never changes. Not romantic feelings just genuine attachment that's been draining me. Tired of being the understanding one while slowly losing myself in the process.

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u/catzillahunyaar — 22 days ago