u/chenxinya_245

I recently had a debate with a male friend and asked him if he would hide his credit card from his future wife. When he said yes, I asked him why, and he admitted it was because he wouldn't trust her. I then questioned why he would marry someone he didn't trust in the first place, to which he responded, "Because I love her."

I told him that true love cannot exist without trust. He disagreed, arguing that he simply values his privacy, that it is his hard-earned money, and that she could always just ask him whenever she wants to buy something.

I saw his trend on tiktok about "women dont need men" me and my boyfriend talked about it i ask him if what he thinks about it he said it's bullshit since women need men.

How can u lose arm fat like i tried everything, diet, carry heavy weights, calorie deficit still my arms looks flabby and its so annoying

How can u lose arm fat like i tried everything, diet, carry heavy weights, calorie deficit still my arms looks flabby and its so annoying

Is there any substitute for rice, cookies, burger, or even noodles? Ive been craving a lot recently and i want those high carbs food T o T) not expensive like CHEAP cause im broke as hell.

I want to share a stressful situation involving my boyfriend and his family. I am 18, and my boyfriend, who is 20, have been together for 6 years. Last week, I planned to visit him at his house. It got late, so he suggested I stay over. One week turned into a month, and eventually, I ended up staying there for three straight months because we got attached.Here is the problem: his mom constantly abandoned her twin toddlers with us. She would leave the house by 6:00 AM and wouldn't return until 2:00 AM, barely taking care of them. One night at 2:00 AM, she brought a guy home to her room. This guy is actually a year younger than my boyfriend. While they were asleep, my boyfriend's brother took a photo of them and sent it to their dad, who works overseas.Their dad was furious because she has cheated multiple times before, but he couldn't believe she brought a man into the house with the kids. When the dad confronted her, she lied and said, "I brought him because my son and his girlfriend were sick." His dad didn't even know I was staying there, as he doesn't want me over, but the mom knew. Because she repeated this excuse, the dad got furious with my boyfriend for letting me stay. He cursed at them, saying things like "putanginamo," is like equivalent on saying "fuck you" and told his son he should only focus on his studies and the twins.Following this, the mom left the house with the guy. The dad then called the maternal grandmother to tell her everything. Afterward, the dad called my boyfriend again and blamed me, saying, "That's why your grandmother doesn't visit—because your girlfriend is still there." I felt so unfairly blamed. Why am I being attacked when I was the one helping his grandson clean the house and care for the toddlers?The next day, I went back to my own home. The dad announced he is flying back to the country to divorce his wife, and the mom is now forbidden from returning to the house. However, the dad has now decided to start a new life and move the family to a province that is incredibly far from my house. My boyfriend hasn't finished his studies yet. I feel so overwhelmed that I can't sleep. I firmly believe he needs to prioritize his future, his education, and our relationship right now, instead of carrying the burden of his twin sisters and his highly toxic family.

I want to share a stressful situation involving my boyfriend and his family. I am 18, and my boyfriend, who is 20, have been together for 6 years. Last week, I planned to visit him at his house. It got late, so he suggested I stay over. One week turned into a month, and eventually, I ended up staying there for three straight months because we got attached.Here is the problem: his mom constantly abandoned her twin toddlers with us. She would leave the house by 6:00 AM and wouldn't return until 2:00 AM, barely taking care of them. One night at 2:00 AM, she brought a guy home to her room. This guy is actually a year younger than my boyfriend. While they were asleep, my boyfriend's brother took a photo of them and sent it to their dad, who works overseas.Their dad was furious because she has cheated multiple times before, but he couldn't believe she brought a man into the house with the kids. When the dad confronted her, she lied and said, "I brought him because my son and his girlfriend were sick." His dad didn't even know I was staying there, as he doesn't want me over, but the mom knew. Because she repeated this excuse, the dad got furious with my boyfriend for letting me stay. He cursed at them, saying things like "putanginamo," is like equivalent on saying "fuck you" and told his son he should only focus on his studies and the twins.Following this, the mom left the house with the guy. The dad then called the maternal grandmother to tell her everything. Afterward, the dad called my boyfriend again and blamed me, saying, "That's why your grandmother doesn't visit—because your girlfriend is still there." I felt so unfairly blamed. Why am I being attacked when I was the one helping his grandson clean the house and care for the toddlers?The next day, I went back to my own home. The dad announced he is flying back to the country to divorce his wife, and the mom is now forbidden from returning to the house. However, the dad has now decided to start a new life and move the family to a province that is incredibly far from my house. My boyfriend hasn't finished his studies yet. I feel so overwhelmed that I can't sleep. I firmly believe he needs to prioritize his future, his education, and our relationship right now, instead of carrying the burden of his twin sisters and his highly toxic family.