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I’m 18 and about to start college soon, and me and some friends got a house painting job that starts in about a week and a half.

The weird thing is I’ve always had a job or something going on, so I’ve never really had this much time with basically no responsibilities. It honestly feels kind of off not having anything scheduled for the next couple of weeks, like I don’t really know what to do with myself.

I don’t want to just spend the whole time gaming or scrolling my phone, but I also don’t know what people usually do in this kind of in-between phase before college/work starts.

Any ideas for stuff that actually makes the time feel useful or just less weird?

Day 4 nicotine-free and still going strong.

Today was rough though. I’ve been absolutely starving all day. Tried to control it, tried to stick to good foods, but honestly the hunger got the best of me and I ended up eating a lot.

On top of that, the bloating from quitting nicotine is making everything feel even worse, so it’s kind of a double suck situation right now lol.

Still, I haven’t caved. Staying strong and reminding myself this is part of the process. Just wanted to do a little check-in because today definitely tested me.

I’ve been doing keto for about a month now, and overall I honestly really like it. I’m not doing it to lose weight — I’m happy with where I’m at physically — but I love how full it keeps me and especially the mental clarity/steady energy that comes with ketosis. I’ve been in ketosis consistently for a couple weeks now and that part has felt genuinely great.

The thing I’m struggling with is more the enjoyment/creativity side of food. I’m a cook, so food is usually something I really enjoy thinking about and making, but lately I feel like I’ve mostly just been eating meat, cheese, butter, eggs, etc. because it’s simple and those foods keep me the fullest. It works, but after a while it starts feeling less like “I’m excited to eat this” and more like “I’m just trying to fill myself up.” It’s not even that I dislike those foods — I actually do enjoy them — it just feels like keto cuts down your options so much that food starts to feel repetitive and kind of sad sometimes.

I also recently quit nicotine pouches, so I’m wondering if part of this feeling is my brain missing the constant sweetness/flavor stimulation I used to get from those.

I stay pretty active too — I jog most days and stay busy — so I don’t think it’s an energy issue.

I’m curious if anyone else felt this way early into keto, and if it eventually passed. Also, for people who eventually added carbs back into their diet after doing keto for a while, did you notice any major differences mentally, physically, energy-wise, hunger-wise, etc.? Did you feel better, worse, or just different?

I’ve been doing keto for about a month now, and overall I honestly really like it. I’m not doing it to lose weight — I’m happy with where I’m at physically — but I love how full it keeps me and especially the mental clarity/steady energy that comes with ketosis. I’ve been in ketosis consistently for a couple weeks now and that part has felt genuinely great.

The thing I’m struggling with is more the enjoyment/creativity side of food. I’m a cook, so food is usually something I really enjoy thinking about and making, but lately I feel like I’ve mostly just been eating meat, cheese, butter, eggs, etc. because it’s simple and those foods keep me the fullest. It works, but after a while it starts feeling less like “I’m excited to eat this” and more like “I’m just trying to fill myself up.” It’s not even that I dislike those foods — I actually do enjoy them — it just feels like keto cuts down your options so much that food starts to feel repetitive and kind of sad sometimes.

I also recently quit nicotine pouches, so I’m wondering if part of this feeling is my brain missing the constant sweetness/flavor stimulation I used to get from those.

I stay pretty active too — I jog most days and stay busy — so I don’t think it’s an energy issue.

I’m curious if anyone else felt this way early into keto, and if it eventually passed. Also, for people who eventually added carbs back into their diet after doing keto for a while, did you notice any major differences mentally, physically, energy-wise, hunger-wise, etc.? Did you feel better, worse, or just different?

When i need my fix of a bit of soda, but am not trying to microdose my caffiene throughout the day, a/w cream soda, or any a/w for that matter, always hits.

When i need my fix of a bit of soda, but am not trying to microdose my caffiene throughout the day, a/w cream soda, or any a/w for that matter, always hits.

Second day off of pouches. Feeling foggy, as expected. Something that has helped me so far is waiting to have that first meal of the day, since i’m so used to a post-meal pouch. Anyways, going alright so far, and i’m ready for anything to come.

Anyone have any advice or tips for days 3-7 and on?

Thanks.

I’m 18M, and I think I’m finally realizing how much of my life has just been built around coping instead of actually living.

For about 2 years, I smoked weed pretty heavily, and about a month ago I finally quit for good after realizing I was mostly using it to cope with loneliness and isolation. Looking back now, it slowly turned me into someone who avoided life instead of actually participating in it. I isolated myself a lot and just numbed everything instead of dealing with it.

The weird thing is that once I quit, life immediately started feeling better. Not easier, but more real. It honestly feels like all the emotions I pushed away for the last 2 years are finally catching up to me now. I feel way more connected to myself, more present, and more motivated than I have in a long time.

Around 2 months ago, I also quit vaping after being badly addicted from around May 2025 to March 2026. At first, I started vaping because I was trying to lose weight. Nicotine killed my appetite, and I abused that hard. But eventually my brain completely rewired itself around it. I started associating nicotine with eating, stress, boredom, literally everything. Every meal needed nicotine after it. Every uncomfortable feeling somehow needed nicotine attached to it.

Quitting vaping was honestly one of the most relieving feelings ever. Not having to constantly and secretly hit some flavored bar just to feel normal felt insanely freeing.

But if I’m being honest, I didn’t fully quit nicotine. I just switched to pouches.

For the last 2 months I’ve been using them every day, around 3-4 a day, and even though it’s definitely way better than vaping nonstop, I recently realized something uncomfortable: I’m still using nicotine the exact same way I used weed. As a coping mechanism.

And I know people joke about nicotine pouches because “it’s just nicotine,” but when you constantly have one in, it genuinely feels like your mind is being hijacked. I started realizing that some of the calmest and happiest moments I have are actually when I don’t have a pouch in. But then I’ll put one in chasing that little buzz, and afterward I just feel anxious, restless, and disappointed in myself.

It also makes my OCD and anxiety so much worse. When I’m constantly using nicotine, it feels like everything in my life suddenly has to go exactly according to plan or I spiral. My diet, my organization, my routines, my future, everything. Even tiny things start feeling mentally “off” if they aren’t perfect. I’ve also been trying to find a summer job recently, and I genuinely think nicotine has been making the stress from it like 10x worse. My brain just gets stuck in these loops where I overthink everything instead of just living normally.

And honestly, physically it affects me way more than I like admitting. It messes with my digestion, makes me feel more tired, makes me look more tired, and sometimes I genuinely feel kind of sunken in physically and mentally when I’m constantly using it. What’s ironic is that I actually feel more confident, more calm, and more like myself without nicotine, yet I still keep using the damn stuff anyway. That’s when I realized it really is a drug like any other drug. It’s just normalized.

It’s like I trained my brain to put dopamine and comfort into this tiny flavored pouch instead of into real things that actually matter. Friendships. Goals. Music. Exercise. Experiences. Real life.

Nicotine also completely messed up my hunger signals. Sometimes I genuinely can’t tell whether I’m hungry or just craving nicotine because I wired the two together for so long. And honestly, the hardest part is realizing I did this to myself.

But at the same time, I think realizing all of this is a good thing.

I’m 18. Summer is about to start. I already quit weed a month ago. I already quit vaping. Now it’s time to finally let go of the last thing I keep using to avoid fully facing myself.

And honestly, I know it’s probably gonna feel overwhelming at first. I know my emotions are probably gonna hit me hard once I stop constantly numbing and stimulating myself. But for the first time, I actually feel ready for that. I’d rather feel overwhelmed and real than numb and disconnected from myself.

I want to recenter my life around things with actual meaning instead of substances and temporary dopamine hits. I know I have potential as a person, and I think part of me has known for a long time that I’ve been self-sabotaging. Not because I’m lazy or hopeless, but because I got too comfortable escaping instead of confronting things.

For the first time in a while, I genuinely feel hopeful. I want routines. I want goals. I want discipline. I want real confidence that isn’t chemically attached to something. I want to fully feel my own thoughts again without constantly numbing or redirecting them.

I know quitting won’t magically fix my life overnight, but I truly do think it can give me a huge head start.

If anyone’s gone through something similar or has any advice they could give to keep me motivated, that would be awesome. Thank you.

I’m 18M, and I think I’m finally realizing how much of my life has just been built around coping instead of actually living.

For about 2 years, I smoked weed pretty heavily, and about a month ago I finally quit for good after realizing I was mostly using it to cope with loneliness and isolation. Looking back now, it slowly turned me into someone who avoided life instead of actually participating in it. I isolated myself a lot and just numbed everything instead of dealing with it.

The weird thing is that once I quit, life immediately started feeling better. Not easier, but more real. It honestly feels like all the emotions I pushed away for the last 2 years are finally catching up to me now. I feel way more connected to myself, more present, and more motivated than I have in a long time.

Around 2 months ago, I also quit vaping after being badly addicted from around May 2025 to March 2026. At first, I started vaping because I was trying to lose weight. Nicotine killed my appetite, and I abused that hard. But eventually my brain completely rewired itself around it. I started associating nicotine with eating, stress, boredom, literally everything. Every meal needed nicotine after it. Every uncomfortable feeling somehow needed nicotine attached to it.

Quitting vaping was honestly one of the most relieving feelings ever. Not having to constantly and secretly hit some flavored bar just to feel normal felt insanely freeing.

But if I’m being honest, I didn’t fully quit nicotine. I just switched to pouches.

For the last 2 months I’ve been using them every day, around 3-4 a day, and even though it’s definitely way better than vaping nonstop, I recently realized something uncomfortable: I’m still using nicotine the exact same way I used weed. As a coping mechanism.

And I know people joke about nicotine pouches because “it’s just nicotine,” but when you constantly have one in, it genuinely feels like your mind is being hijacked. I started realizing that some of the calmest and happiest moments I have are actually when I don’t have a pouch in. But then I’ll put one in chasing that little buzz, and afterward I just feel anxious, restless, and disappointed in myself.

It also makes my OCD and anxiety so much worse. When I’m constantly using nicotine, it feels like everything in my life suddenly has to go exactly according to plan or I spiral. My diet, my organization, my routines, my future, everything. Even tiny things start feeling mentally “off” if they aren’t perfect. I’ve also been trying to find a summer job recently, and I genuinely think nicotine has been making the stress from it like 10x worse. My brain just gets stuck in these loops where I overthink everything instead of just living normally.

And honestly, physically it affects me way more than I like admitting. It messes with my digestion, makes me feel more tired, makes me look more tired, and sometimes I genuinely feel kind of sunken in physically and mentally when I’m constantly using it. What’s ironic is that I actually feel more confident, more calm, and more like myself without nicotine, yet I still keep using the damn stuff anyway. That’s when I realized it really is a drug like any other drug. It’s just normalized.

It’s like I trained my brain to put dopamine and comfort into this tiny flavored pouch instead of into real things that actually matter. Friendships. Goals. Music. Exercise. Experiences. Real life.

Nicotine also completely messed up my hunger signals. Sometimes I genuinely can’t tell whether I’m hungry or just craving nicotine because I wired the two together for so long. And honestly, the hardest part is realizing I did this to myself.

But at the same time, I think realizing all of this is a good thing.

I’m 18. Summer is about to start. I already quit weed a month ago. I already quit vaping. Now it’s time to finally let go of the last thing I keep using to avoid fully facing myself.

And honestly, I know it’s probably gonna feel overwhelming at first. I know my emotions are probably gonna hit me hard once I stop constantly numbing and stimulating myself. But for the first time, I actually feel ready for that. I’d rather feel overwhelmed and real than numb and disconnected from myself.

I want to recenter my life around things with actual meaning instead of substances and temporary dopamine hits. I know I have potential as a person, and I think part of me has known for a long time that I’ve been self-sabotaging. Not because I’m lazy or hopeless, but because I got too comfortable escaping instead of confronting things.

For the first time in a while, I genuinely feel hopeful. I want routines. I want goals. I want discipline. I want real confidence that isn’t chemically attached to something. I want to fully feel my own thoughts again without constantly numbing or redirecting them.

I know quitting won’t magically fix my life overnight, but I truly do think it can give me a huge head start.

If anyone’s gone through something similar or has any advice they could give to keep me motivated, that would be awesome. Thank you.

I’m 18M, and I think I’m finally realizing how much of my life has just been built around coping instead of actually living.

For about 2 years, I smoked weed pretty heavily, and about a month ago I finally quit for good after realizing I was mostly using it to cope with loneliness and isolation. Looking back now, it slowly turned me into someone who avoided life instead of actually participating in it. I isolated myself a lot and just numbed everything instead of dealing with it.

The weird thing is that once I quit, life immediately started feeling better. Not easier, but more real. It honestly feels like all the emotions I pushed away for the last 2 years are finally catching up to me now. I feel way more connected to myself, more present, and more motivated than I have in a long time.

Around 2 months ago, I also quit vaping after being badly addicted from around May 2025 to March 2026. At first, I started vaping because I was trying to lose weight. Nicotine killed my appetite, and I abused that hard. But eventually my brain completely rewired itself around it. I started associating nicotine with eating, stress, boredom, literally everything. Every meal needed nicotine after it. Every uncomfortable feeling somehow needed nicotine attached to it.

Quitting vaping was honestly one of the most relieving feelings ever. Not having to constantly and secretly hit some flavored bar just to feel normal felt insanely freeing.

But if I’m being honest, I didn’t fully quit nicotine. I just switched to pouches.

For the last 2 months I’ve been using them every day, around 3-4 a day, and even though it’s definitely way better than vaping nonstop, I recently realized something uncomfortable: I’m still using nicotine the exact same way I used weed. As a coping mechanism.

And I know people joke about nicotine pouches because “it’s just nicotine,” but when you constantly have one in, it genuinely feels like your mind is being hijacked. I started realizing that some of the calmest and happiest moments I have are actually when I don’t have a pouch in. But then I’ll put one in chasing that little buzz, and afterward I just feel anxious, restless, and disappointed in myself.

It also makes my OCD and anxiety so much worse. When I’m constantly using nicotine, it feels like everything in my life suddenly has to go exactly according to plan or I spiral. My diet, my organization, my routines, my future, everything. Even tiny things start feeling mentally “off” if they aren’t perfect. I’ve also been trying to find a summer job recently, and I genuinely think nicotine has been making the stress from it like 10x worse. My brain just gets stuck in these loops where I overthink everything instead of just living normally.

And honestly, physically it affects me way more than I like admitting. It messes with my digestion, makes me feel more tired, makes me look more tired, and sometimes I genuinely feel kind of sunken in physically and mentally when I’m constantly using it. What’s ironic is that I actually feel more confident, more calm, and more like myself without nicotine, yet I still keep using the damn stuff anyway. That’s when I realized it really is a drug like any other drug. It’s just normalized.

It’s like I trained my brain to put dopamine and comfort into this tiny flavored pouch instead of into real things that actually matter. Friendships. Goals. Music. Exercise. Experiences. Real life.

Nicotine also completely messed up my hunger signals. Sometimes I genuinely can’t tell whether I’m hungry or just craving nicotine because I wired the two together for so long. And honestly, the hardest part is realizing I did this to myself.

But at the same time, I think realizing all of this is a good thing.

I’m 18. Summer is about to start. I already quit weed a month ago. I already quit vaping. Now it’s time to finally let go of the last thing I keep using to avoid fully facing myself.

And honestly, I know it’s probably gonna feel overwhelming at first. I know my emotions are probably gonna hit me hard once I stop constantly numbing and stimulating myself. But for the first time, I actually feel ready for that. I’d rather feel overwhelmed and real than numb and disconnected from myself.

I want to recenter my life around things with actual meaning instead of substances and temporary dopamine hits. I know I have potential as a person, and I think part of me has known for a long time that I’ve been self-sabotaging. Not because I’m lazy or hopeless, but because I got too comfortable escaping instead of confronting things.

For the first time in a while, I genuinely feel hopeful. I want routines. I want goals. I want discipline. I want real confidence that isn’t chemically attached to something. I want to fully feel my own thoughts again without constantly numbing or redirecting them.

I know quitting won’t magically fix my life overnight, but I truly do think it can give me a huge head start.

If anyone’s gone through something similar or has any advice they could give to keep me motivated, that would be awesome. Thank you.

I’m 18M, and I think I’m finally realizing how much of my life has just been built around coping instead of actually living.

For about 2 years, I smoked weed pretty heavily, and about a month ago I finally quit for good after realizing I was mostly using it to cope with loneliness and isolation. Looking back now, it slowly turned me into someone who avoided life instead of actually participating in it. I isolated myself a lot and just numbed everything instead of dealing with it.

The weird thing is that once I quit, life immediately started feeling better. Not easier, but more real. It honestly feels like all the emotions I pushed away for the last 2 years are finally catching up to me now. I feel way more connected to myself, more present, and more motivated than I have in a long time.

Around 2 months ago, I also quit vaping after being badly addicted from around May 2025 to March 2026. At first, I started vaping because I was trying to lose weight. Nicotine killed my appetite, and I abused that hard. But eventually my brain completely rewired itself around it. I started associating nicotine with eating, stress, boredom, literally everything. Every meal needed nicotine after it. Every uncomfortable feeling somehow needed nicotine attached to it.

Quitting vaping was honestly one of the most relieving feelings ever. Not having to constantly and secretly hit some flavored bar just to feel normal felt insanely freeing.

But if I’m being honest, I didn’t fully quit nicotine. I just switched to pouches.

For the last 2 months I’ve been using them every day, around 3-4 a day, and even though it’s definitely way better than vaping nonstop, I recently realized something uncomfortable: I’m still using nicotine the exact same way I used weed. As a coping mechanism.

And I know people joke about nicotine pouches because “it’s just nicotine,” but when you constantly have one in, it genuinely feels like your mind is being hijacked. I started realizing that some of the calmest and happiest moments I have are actually when I don’t have a pouch in. But then I’ll put one in chasing that little buzz, and afterward I just feel anxious, restless, and disappointed in myself.

It also makes my OCD and anxiety so much worse. When I’m constantly using nicotine, it feels like everything in my life suddenly has to go exactly according to plan or I spiral. My diet, my organization, my routines, my future, everything. Even tiny things start feeling mentally “off” if they aren’t perfect. I’ve also been trying to find a summer job recently, and I genuinely think nicotine has been making the stress from it like 10x worse. My brain just gets stuck in these loops where I overthink everything instead of just living normally.

And honestly, physically it affects me way more than I like admitting. It messes with my digestion, makes me feel more tired, makes me look more tired, and sometimes I genuinely feel kind of sunken in physically and mentally when I’m constantly using it. What’s ironic is that I actually feel more confident, more calm, and more like myself without nicotine, yet I still keep using the damn stuff anyway. That’s when I realized it really is a drug like any other drug. It’s just normalized.

It’s like I trained my brain to put dopamine and comfort into this tiny flavored pouch instead of into real things that actually matter. Friendships. Goals. Music. Exercise. Experiences. Real life.

Nicotine also completely messed up my hunger signals. Sometimes I genuinely can’t tell whether I’m hungry or just craving nicotine because I wired the two together for so long. And honestly, the hardest part is realizing I did this to myself.

But at the same time, I think realizing all of this is a good thing.

I’m 18. Summer is about to start. I already quit weed a month ago. I already quit vaping. Now it’s time to finally let go of the last thing I keep using to avoid fully facing myself.

And honestly, I know it’s probably gonna feel overwhelming at first. I know my emotions are probably gonna hit me hard once I stop constantly numbing and stimulating myself. But for the first time, I actually feel ready for that. I’d rather feel overwhelmed and real than numb and disconnected from myself.

I want to recenter my life around things with actual meaning instead of substances and temporary dopamine hits. I know I have potential as a person, and I think part of me has known for a long time that I’ve been self-sabotaging. Not because I’m lazy or hopeless, but because I got too comfortable escaping instead of confronting things.

For the first time in a while, I genuinely feel hopeful. I want routines. I want goals. I want discipline. I want real confidence that isn’t chemically attached to something. I want to fully feel my own thoughts again without constantly numbing or redirecting them.

I know quitting won’t magically fix my life overnight, but I truly do think it can give me a huge head start.

If anyone’s gone through something similar or has any advice they could give to keep me motivated, that would be awesome. Thank you.

I’m 18M, and I think I’m finally realizing how much of my life has just been built around coping instead of actually living.

For about 2 years, I smoked weed pretty heavily, and about a month ago I finally quit for good after realizing I was mostly using it to cope with loneliness and isolation. Looking back now, it slowly turned me into someone who avoided life instead of actually participating in it. I isolated myself a lot and just numbed everything instead of dealing with it.

The weird thing is that once I quit, life immediately started feeling better. Not easier, but more real. It honestly feels like all the emotions I pushed away for the last 2 years are finally catching up to me now. I feel way more connected to myself, more present, and more motivated than I have in a long time.

Around 2 months ago, I also quit vaping after being badly addicted from around May 2025 to March 2026. At first, I started vaping because I was trying to lose weight. Nicotine killed my appetite, and I abused that hard. But eventually my brain completely rewired itself around it. I started associating nicotine with eating, stress, boredom, literally everything. Every meal needed nicotine after it. Every uncomfortable feeling somehow needed nicotine attached to it.

Quitting vaping was honestly one of the most relieving feelings ever. Not having to constantly and secretly hit some flavored bar just to feel normal felt insanely freeing.

But if I’m being honest, I didn’t fully quit nicotine. I just switched to pouches.

For the last 2 months I’ve been using them every day, around 3-4 a day, and even though it’s definitely way better than vaping nonstop, I recently realized something uncomfortable: I’m still using nicotine the exact same way I used weed. As a coping mechanism.

And I know people joke about nicotine pouches because “it’s just nicotine,” but when you constantly have one in, it genuinely feels like your mind is being hijacked. I started realizing that some of the calmest and happiest moments I have are actually when I don’t have a pouch in. But then I’ll put one in chasing that little buzz, and afterward I just feel anxious, restless, and disappointed in myself.

It also makes my OCD and anxiety so much worse. When I’m constantly using nicotine, it feels like everything in my life suddenly has to go exactly according to plan or I spiral. My diet, my organization, my routines, my future, everything. Even tiny things start feeling mentally “off” if they aren’t perfect. I’ve also been trying to find a summer job recently, and I genuinely think nicotine has been making the stress from it like 10x worse. My brain just gets stuck in these loops where I overthink everything instead of just living normally.

And honestly, physically it affects me way more than I like admitting. It messes with my digestion, makes me feel more tired, makes me look more tired, and sometimes I genuinely feel kind of sunken in physically and mentally when I’m constantly using it. What’s ironic is that I actually feel more confident, more calm, and more like myself without nicotine, yet I still keep using the damn stuff anyway. That’s when I realized it really is a drug like any other drug. It’s just normalized.

It’s like I trained my brain to put dopamine and comfort into this tiny flavored pouch instead of into real things that actually matter. Friendships. Goals. Music. Exercise. Experiences. Real life.

Nicotine also completely messed up my hunger signals. Sometimes I genuinely can’t tell whether I’m hungry or just craving nicotine because I wired the two together for so long. And honestly, the hardest part is realizing I did this to myself.

But at the same time, I think realizing all of this is a good thing.

I’m 18. Summer is about to start. I already quit weed a month ago. I already quit vaping. Now it’s time to finally let go of the last thing I keep using to avoid fully facing myself.

And honestly, I know it’s probably gonna feel overwhelming at first. I know my emotions are probably gonna hit me hard once I stop constantly numbing and stimulating myself. But for the first time, I actually feel ready for that. I’d rather feel overwhelmed and real than numb and disconnected from myself.

I want to recenter my life around things with actual meaning instead of substances and temporary dopamine hits. I know I have potential as a person, and I think part of me has known for a long time that I’ve been self-sabotaging. Not because I’m lazy or hopeless, but because I got too comfortable escaping instead of confronting things.

For the first time in a while, I genuinely feel hopeful. I want routines. I want goals. I want discipline. I want real confidence that isn’t chemically attached to something. I want to fully feel my own thoughts again without constantly numbing or redirecting them.

I know quitting won’t magically fix my life overnight, but I truly do think it can give me a huge head start.

If anyone’s gone through something similar or has any advice they could give to keep me motivated, that would be awesome. Thank you.

I’m 18M, and I think I’m finally realizing how much of my life has just been built around coping instead of actually living.

For about 2 years, I smoked weed pretty heavily, and about a month ago I finally quit for good after realizing I was mostly using it to cope with loneliness and isolation. Looking back now, it slowly turned me into someone who avoided life instead of actually participating in it. I isolated myself a lot and just numbed everything instead of dealing with it.

The weird thing is that once I quit, life immediately started feeling better. Not easier, but more real. It honestly feels like all the emotions I pushed away for the last 2 years are finally catching up to me now. I feel way more connected to myself, more present, and more motivated than I have in a long time.

Around 2 months ago, I also quit vaping after being badly addicted from around May 2025 to March 2026. At first, I started vaping because I was trying to lose weight. Nicotine killed my appetite, and I abused that hard. But eventually my brain completely rewired itself around it. I started associating nicotine with eating, stress, boredom, literally everything. Every meal needed nicotine after it. Every uncomfortable feeling somehow needed nicotine attached to it.

Quitting vaping was honestly one of the most relieving feelings ever. Not having to constantly and secretly hit some flavored bar just to feel normal felt insanely freeing.

But if I’m being honest, I didn’t fully quit nicotine. I just switched to pouches.

For the last 2 months I’ve been using them every day, around 3-4 a day, and even though it’s definitely way better than vaping nonstop, I recently realized something uncomfortable: I’m still using nicotine the exact same way I used weed. As a coping mechanism.

And I know people joke about nicotine pouches because “it’s just nicotine,” but when you constantly have one in, it genuinely feels like your mind is being hijacked. I started realizing that some of the calmest and happiest moments I have are actually when I don’t have a pouch in. But then I’ll put one in chasing that little buzz, and afterward I just feel anxious, restless, and disappointed in myself.

It also makes my OCD and anxiety so much worse. When I’m constantly using nicotine, it feels like everything in my life suddenly has to go exactly according to plan or I spiral. My diet, my organization, my routines, my future, everything. Even tiny things start feeling mentally “off” if they aren’t perfect. I’ve also been trying to find a summer job recently, and I genuinely think nicotine has been making the stress from it like 10x worse. My brain just gets stuck in these loops where I overthink everything instead of just living normally.

And honestly, physically it affects me way more than I like admitting. It messes with my digestion, makes me feel more tired, makes me look more tired, and sometimes I genuinely feel kind of sunken in physically and mentally when I’m constantly using it. What’s ironic is that I actually feel more confident, more calm, and more like myself without nicotine, yet I still keep using the damn stuff anyway. That’s when I realized it really is a drug like any other drug. It’s just normalized.

It’s like I trained my brain to put dopamine and comfort into this tiny flavored pouch instead of into real things that actually matter. Friendships. Goals. Music. Exercise. Experiences. Real life.

Nicotine also completely messed up my hunger signals. Sometimes I genuinely can’t tell whether I’m hungry or just craving nicotine because I wired the two together for so long. And honestly, the hardest part is realizing I did this to myself.

But at the same time, I think realizing all of this is a good thing.

I’m 18. Summer is about to start. I already quit weed a month ago. I already quit vaping. Now it’s time to finally let go of the last thing I keep using to avoid fully facing myself.

And honestly, I know it’s probably gonna feel overwhelming at first. I know my emotions are probably gonna hit me hard once I stop constantly numbing and stimulating myself. But for the first time, I actually feel ready for that. I’d rather feel overwhelmed and real than numb and disconnected from myself.

I want to recenter my life around things with actual meaning instead of substances and temporary dopamine hits. I know I have potential as a person, and I think part of me has known for a long time that I’ve been self-sabotaging. Not because I’m lazy or hopeless, but because I got too comfortable escaping instead of confronting things.

For the first time in a while, I genuinely feel hopeful. I want routines. I want goals. I want discipline. I want real confidence that isn’t chemically attached to something. I want to fully feel my own thoughts again without constantly numbing or redirecting them.

I know quitting won’t magically fix my life overnight, but I truly do think it can give me a huge head start.

If anyone’s gone through something similar or has any advice they could give to keep me motivated, that would be awesome. Thank you.

I’m 18M, and I think I’m finally realizing how much of my life has just been built around coping instead of actually living.

For about 2 years, I smoked weed pretty heavily, and about a month ago I finally quit for good after realizing I was mostly using it to cope with loneliness and isolation. Looking back now, it slowly turned me into someone who avoided life instead of actually participating in it. I isolated myself a lot and just numbed everything instead of dealing with it.

The weird thing is that once I quit, life immediately started feeling better. Not easier, but more real. It honestly feels like all the emotions I pushed away for the last 2 years are finally catching up to me now. I feel way more connected to myself, more present, and more motivated than I have in a long time.

Around 2 months ago, I also quit vaping after being badly addicted from around May 2025 to March 2026. At first, I started vaping because I was trying to lose weight. Nicotine killed my appetite, and I abused that hard. But eventually my brain completely rewired itself around it. I started associating nicotine with eating, stress, boredom, literally everything. Every meal needed nicotine after it. Every uncomfortable feeling somehow needed nicotine attached to it.

Quitting vaping was honestly one of the most relieving feelings ever. Not having to constantly and secretly hit some flavored bar just to feel normal felt insanely freeing.

But if I’m being honest, I didn’t fully quit nicotine. I just switched to pouches.

For the last 2 months I’ve been using them every day, around 3-4 a day, and even though it’s definitely way better than vaping nonstop, I recently realized something uncomfortable: I’m still using nicotine the exact same way I used weed. As a coping mechanism.

And I know people joke about nicotine pouches because “it’s just nicotine,” but when you constantly have one in, it genuinely feels like your mind is being hijacked. I started realizing that some of the calmest and happiest moments I have are actually when I don’t have a pouch in. But then I’ll put one in chasing that little buzz, and afterward I just feel anxious, restless, and disappointed in myself.

It also makes my OCD and anxiety so much worse. When I’m constantly using nicotine, it feels like everything in my life suddenly has to go exactly according to plan or I spiral. My diet, my organization, my routines, my future, everything. Even tiny things start feeling mentally “off” if they aren’t perfect. I’ve also been trying to find a summer job recently, and I genuinely think nicotine has been making the stress from it like 10x worse. My brain just gets stuck in these loops where I overthink everything instead of just living normally.

And honestly, physically it affects me way more than I like admitting. It messes with my digestion, makes me feel more tired, makes me look more tired, and sometimes I genuinely feel kind of sunken in physically and mentally when I’m constantly using it. What’s ironic is that I actually feel more confident, more calm, and more like myself without nicotine, yet I still keep using the damn stuff anyway. That’s when I realized it really is a drug like any other drug. It’s just normalized.

It’s like I trained my brain to put dopamine and comfort into this tiny flavored pouch instead of into real things that actually matter. Friendships. Goals. Music. Exercise. Experiences. Real life.

Nicotine also completely messed up my hunger signals. Sometimes I genuinely can’t tell whether I’m hungry or just craving nicotine because I wired the two together for so long. And honestly, the hardest part is realizing I did this to myself.

But at the same time, I think realizing all of this is a good thing.

I’m 18. Summer is about to start. I already quit weed a month ago. I already quit vaping. Now it’s time to finally let go of these damn pouches I keep using to avoid fully facing myself.

And honestly, I know it’s probably gonna feel overwhelming at first. I know my emotions are probably gonna hit me hard once I stop constantly numbing and stimulating myself. But for the first time, I actually feel ready for that. I’d rather feel overwhelmed and real than numb and disconnected from myself.

I want to recenter my life around things with actual meaning instead of substances and temporary dopamine hits. I know I have potential as a person, and I think part of me has known for a long time that I’ve been self-sabotaging. Not because I’m lazy or hopeless, but because I got too comfortable escaping instead of confronting things.

For the first time in a while, I genuinely feel hopeful. I want routines. I want goals. I want discipline. I want real confidence that isn’t chemically attached to something. I want to fully feel my own thoughts again without constantly numbing or redirecting them.

I know quitting won’t magically fix my life overnight, but I truly do think it can give me a huge head start.

If anyone’s gone through something similar or has any advice they could give to keep me motivated, that would be awesome. Thank you.