u/dopplenger

I'm a 24M, and I've been single for about 4-5 years.

This year, I finally decided to put myself out there because I was feeling really lonely. I live around 1,300 km away from my family, so nights can get pretty quiet. I started using Reddit and Hinge to meet new people.

I've matched with a few women. The conversations usually start well. We text, sometimes call, and I've even met a couple of them in person. I always try to be respectful, genuine, and not play games.

But after a while, the same thing keeps happening. They slowly become distant or ghost me.

Recently, I met someone I genuinely liked. She would call me after work, tell me about her office problems, and I'd always make time to listen. But I realized the conversations were mostly about her. She rarely asked how I was doing or what was happening in my life.

Now she's interested in another guy, which is completely her choice, and I respect that. One thing that confuses me is that she openly talks to me about another guy she likes. Since we've only been talking for a couple of weeks, I know I can't tell her not to like someone else or expect anything from her. That's completely her choice.

So I just listen and try to be supportive. But at the same time, it makes me wonder if she only sees me as someone to vent to. She shares her problems with me, but she rarely asks about my life or how I'm doing.

Should I just accept that she's not interested and stop putting in so much effort? Or is there something I'm doing that puts me into the "just a friend" category?

What hurts is that she barely replies anymore. Even if I send a message at 11 PM, I don't expect an instant reply, but sometimes I don't hear back even the next day.

I'm starting to wonder if I'm doing something wrong.

Am I coming across as too available? Too nice? Too invested too early? Or is this just a normal part of dating today?

I'd really appreciate honest feedback, especially from women. If you've lost interest in someone who was kind and respectful, what usually caused it?

I'm a 24M, and I've been single for about 4-5 years.

This year, I finally decided to put myself out there because I was feeling really lonely. I live around 1,300 km away from my family, so nights can get pretty quiet. I started using Reddit and Hinge to meet new people.

I've matched with a few women. The conversations usually start well. We text, sometimes call, and I've even met a couple of them in person. I always try to be respectful, genuine, and not play games.

But after a while, the same thing keeps happening. They slowly become distant or ghost me.

Recently, I met someone I genuinely liked. She would call me after work, tell me about her office problems, and I'd always make time to listen. But I realized the conversations were mostly about her. She rarely asked how I was doing or what was happening in my life.

Now she's interested in another guy, which is completely her choice, and I respect that. One thing that confuses me is that she openly talks to me about another guy she likes. Since we've only been talking for a couple of weeks, I know I can't tell her not to like someone else or expect anything from her. That's completely her choice.

So I just listen and try to be supportive. But at the same time, it makes me wonder if she only sees me as someone to vent to. She shares her problems with me, but she rarely asks about my life or how I'm doing.

Should I just accept that she's not interested and stop putting in so much effort? Or is there something I'm doing that puts me into the "just a friend" category?

What hurts is that she barely replies anymore. Even if I send a message at 11 PM, I don't expect an instant reply, but sometimes I don't hear back even the next day.

I'm starting to wonder if I'm doing something wrong.

Am I coming across as too available? Too nice? Too invested too early? Or is this just a normal part of dating today?

I'd really appreciate honest feedback, especially from women. If you've lost interest in someone who was kind and respectful, what usually caused it?

I'm a 22-year-old vegetarian male, 5'7" (170 cm) and 67 kg.

I don't cook much because I leave for work early, so I'm trying to figure out whether I'm getting enough protein and if whey protein would be a good addition to my diet.

My typical diet is

Breakfast

• 200 ml milk banana shake
• 100 g paneer

Lunch

• 100 g paneer
• Salad (carrot, beans, cauliflower, etc.)

Dinner

• 5 rotis
• Sabzi
• 1 bowl dal
• Rice

I think I'm probably not hitting my daily protein target, especially since I want to improve my fitness and eventually start going to the gym.

My questions:

1. Roughly how much protein do you think I'm getting from this diet?
2. How much protein should a 67 kg vegetarian male aim for?
3. Is whey protein a good way to fill the gap if I can't cook more protein-rich meals?
4. Are there any easy high-protein vegetarian foods I can add that require little or no cooking?

I'd appreciate any advice from other vegetarians who have been in a similar situation.

Hey everyone I am 24m looking for swimming classes in thane or Navi Mumbai please recommend me after 4pm I am free I am totally newbies

Hi everyone,

I'm a 25-year-old working professional based in Navi Mumbai. I work full-time, but I'm currently struggling with credit card debt and need some extra income to get out of this cycle.

I'm available after 5 PM on weekdays and throughout Sundays. I'm open to almost any honest part-time work.

I'm hardworking, reliable, and willing to learn new skills if needed.

If anyone knows of any openings or can point me in the right direction, I'd really appreciate the help. Please feel free to comment or send me a DM.

Thank you.

I'm a 25-year-old guy living in Navi Mumbai.

Recently, I went on a date with a girl. During the conversation, she asked me what I do after office hours. My office finishes around 4 PM, and honestly, I didn't have a good answer.

Most days I just go back to my PG, scroll through my phone, watch random videos, eat dinner, and sleep. Hearing her talk about her business, projects, and interests made me realize how little I'm doing with my free time.

I felt a bit embarrassed, but it was also a wake-up call.

I'm not looking to become a millionaire overnight or start a huge business. I just want to build a more interesting life, learn new things, meet people, and have something meaningful to talk about when someone asks what I do outside work.

For people who were in a similar situation:

• What hobbies or skills did you pick up in your mid-20s?
• Are there any activities around Navi Mumbai that you'd recommend?
• What can I do between 4 PM and 9 PM that is actually productive and enjoyable?
• How did you stop wasting hours scrolling on your phone?

Open to anything: volunteering, side hustles, learning a language, music, activities, etc.

Would love to hear your suggestions and experiences.

Hey everyone,

I’m looking for an occupied flat and checking if anyone is looking for a flatmate. Preferred locations are Thane, Bhandup, or Mulund. My budget is around ₹7k–9k/month, and I’m planning to move in by July 1st.

Main preference is a place close to the station since I have a morning shift starting at 7 AM, so daily travel convenience is really important for me.

A little about me:

• Veg
• Non-smoker
• Non-drinker

I’m completely okay with flatmates who smoke or drink, no issues as long as the environment is chill and respectful.

If anyone has a vacancy in their flat, any leads, or is also looking for a flatmate, please DM me. Would really appreciate the help 🙌

Hey everyone,

I’m looking for an occupied flat and checking if anyone is looking for a flatmate. Preferred locations are Thane, Bhandup, or Mulund. My budget is around ₹7k–9k/month, and I’m planning to move in by July 1st.

Main preference is a place close to the station since I have a morning shift starting at 7 AM, so daily travel convenience is really important for me.

A little about me:

• Veg
• Non-smoker
• Non-drinker

I’m completely okay with flatmates who smoke or drink, no issues as long as the environment is chill and respectful.

If anyone has a vacancy in their flat, any leads, or is also looking for a flatmate, please DM me. Would really appreciate the help 🙌

Hey everyone, curious question from someone researching e-commerce trends in Australia.

What are some products or online stores you wish existed here, with:

• faster shipping
• better quality
• better pricing
• or just less junk overall?

Could be anything, honestly:
camping gear, pet stuff, car accessories, home products, fitness, tools, gadgets, etc.

It feels like a lot of online stores here either have overpriced products or super slow shipping lately.

Would love to know what Australians actually buy online regularly and what annoys you most about current stores.

Hey everyone,
I’m looking for part-time work after 3 PM on weekdays and I’m also fully available on weekends.

I live in Airoli and I’m open to any genuine work opportunity. Ready to start immediately and willing to work hard.

Open to:

• Remote work
• Data entry
• Customer support
• Store/shop assistant work
• Packing/warehouse jobs
• Evening shift work
• Freelance tasks
• Weekend jobs
• Any side hustle or part-time opportunity

If anyone knows about openings, referrals, or any opportunities, please let me know. I’d really appreciate the help 🙏

Hey everyone,
I’m looking for part-time work after 3 PM on weekdays and I’m also fully available on weekends.

I live in Airoli, and I’m open to any genuine work opportunity. Ready to start immediately and willing to work hard.

Open to:

• Remote work
• Data entry
• Customer support
• Store/shop assistant work
• Packing/warehouse jobs
• Evening shift work
• Freelance tasks
• Weekend jobs
• Any side hustle or part-time opportunity

If anyone knows about openings, referrals, or any opportunities, please let me know. I’d really appreciate the help 🙏

Hey everyone,

I’m looking for a 1BHK/1RK flat around Thane, Mulund, or Bhandup with a budget of around ₹10k/month. Planning to move in by July 1st.

My main priority is good connectivity to the station since I have a morning shift starting at 7 AM, so travel convenience is really important for me.

Also, if anyone

• already has a preoccupied flat and is looking for a flatmate
• wants to team up and hunt for a flat together
• is also searching for a place
• or has any leads/recommendations

please let me know, it would really help 🙌

A little about me:

• Veg
• Non-smoker
• Non-drinker

But I’m totally okay with flatmates who smoke or drink, no issues at all as long as everyone is respectful and the vibe stays chill.

Thanks in advance! ✌️

Hey everyone,

I’m looking for a 1BHK flat in Thane with a budget of around ₹15k/month. Planning to move in by July 1st.

My main priority is that the flat should be close to the station since I have a morning shift starting at 7 AM, so daily travel convenience is really important for me.

Also, if anyone is:

• looking for a flatmate
• wants to team up and find a place together
• or has any leads/recommendations

please let me know; it would really help. 🙌

A little about me:

• Veg
• Non-smoker
• Non-drinker

But I’m completely okay with flatmates who smoke or drink, no issues at all as long as everything stays within limits and we maintain a chill, respectful environment.

Hey everyone,

I’m looking for a 1BHK flat in Thane with a budget of around ₹15k/month. Planning to move in by July 1st.

My main priority is that the flat should be close to the station since I have a morning shift starting at 7 AM, so daily travel convenience is really important for me.

Also, if anyone is:

• looking for a flatmate
• wants to team up and find a place together
• or has any leads/recommendations

please let me know; it would really help. 🙌

A little about me:

• Veg
• Non-smoker
• Non-drinker

But I’m completely okay with flatmates who smoke or drink, no issues at all as long as everything stays within limits and we maintain a chill, respectful environment.

Hi everyone,

I live in Airoli Sector 3, Navi Mumbai, and I’m looking for a good doctor nearby.

Lately I’ve been feeling extreme body pain and weakness. My hands and legs hurt a lot, and sometimes my hands feel so weak that I can’t even wash dishes properly. I also have constant leg pain, low energy, and feel tired most of the time.

My eyes also feel strained and exhausted regularly. Even small tasks make me feel very tired now.

If anyone knows a reliable doctor or clinic nearby, please suggest.

Thanks.

Hey everyone,

I’m looking for a shared flat in Thane with a budget of around ₹10k/month. Not looking for a PG, only proper flat sharing in a society/apartment.

My only requirement is that the flat should be near a railway station since I have a 6 AM morning shift, so commuting is a big factor for me.

If anyone has leads, knows someone looking for a flatmate, or can suggest good areas/societies, please let me know.

Thanks!

Hey everyone,

I’ve been running into an issue in Google Merchant Center and can’t figure out what’s breaking.

I’m getting:

• “Unable to check product pages”
• “Missing inventory data”

Google says it can’t crawl my product pages, but everything looks fine on my end.

Here’s what I’ve already checked:

• Robots.txt — nothing blocking product pages

User-agent: *
Disallow: /admin/
Disallow: /cart/
Disallow: /carts/
Disallow: /orders/
Disallow: /checkout/
Disallow: /account/

Allow: /products/
Allow: /collections/
Allow: /blogs/
Allow: /pages/
Allow: /policies/

• Product pages load fine manually (no 404/redirect issues)
• No password protection on the site
• Theme hasn’t changed recently
• Products were working fine before (this just started recently)
• Feed is connected properly
• Domain is verified

Still, Merchant Center is flagging a large number of products and not crawling them.

For the “Missing inventory data”:

• I’m not running local inventory ads
• Not sure why this suddenly became an issue either

At this point I’m stuck — feels like something small but hidden.

Has anyone dealt with this recently?
Would really appreciate any ideas on what I might be missing