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Short and simple just like that. I want to meet the love of my life, live a happy and fulfilled life, be pretty, and also have a bunch of money too. How?

Short and simple just like that. I want to meet the love of my life, live a happy and fulfilled life, be pretty, and also have a bunch of money too. How?

Ill try to keep this as short as possible. Theres this guy that ive recently become super close friends with. Meaning we text all day long, we go to the gym 4 times a week together and spend so many hours together chilling too, even spending hours with my head on his shoulder.

We have only been talking for 2 months and i did end up confessing to him. He explained to me that it is really hard for him to gather up having feelings for someone. He firstly wants to know them really really well, become best friends and then actually develop strong feelings to create something permanent and long-lasting.

In short terms, im friendzoned. How do i get out of the friendzone and guarantee myself a relationship with him?

(I have started listening to subliminals)

Ill try to keep this as short as possible. Theres this guy that ive recently become super close friends with. Meaning we text all day long, we go to the gym 4 times a week together and spend so many hours together chilling too, even spending hours with my head on his shoulder.

We have only been talking for 2 months and i did end up confessing to him. He explained to me that it is really hard for him to gather up having feelings for someone. He firstly wants to know them really really well, become best friends and then actually develop strong feelings to create something permanent and long-lasting.

In short terms, im friendzoned. How do i get out of the friendzone and guarantee myself a relationship with him?

(I have started listening to subliminals)

Ive been talking to a guy for a month, weve become really good friends and spend a bunch of time together. He always treats me in a special way with a lot of care and kindness, but in a way that genuinely made me feel that he liked me more than just a friend.

I liked him and confessed. I kind of self rejected myself in the confession saying that i knew he didnt like me back and its okay. He said that at the moment he just wasnt looking for anything of the sort at all and that it was really hard for him to start having feelings for someone without genuinely knowing them really well.

I joked around saying "okay so ill just wait for you to know me better". He said "you could" to which i replied "its impossible for you to like me if you havent already". To that he replied with "nothings impossible".

I don't know if i should have hope or not.

Ive been talking to a guy for a month, weve become really good friends and spend a bunch of time together. He always treats me in a special way with a lot of care and kindness, but in a way that genuinely made me feel that he liked me more than just a friend.

I liked him and confessed. I kind of self rejected myself in the confession saying that i knew he didnt like me back and its okay. He said that at the moment he just wasnt looking for anything of the sort at all and that it was really hard for him to start having feelings for someone without genuinely knowing them really well.

I joked around saying "okay so ill just wait for you to know me better". He said "you could" to which i replied "its impossible for you to like me if you havent already". To that he replied with "nothings impossible".

I don't know if i should have hope or not.

Ive been talking to a guy for a month, weve become really good friends and spend a bunch of time together. He always treats me in a special way with a lot of care and kindness, but in a way that genuinely made me feel that he liked me more than just a friend.

I liked him and confessed. I kind of self rejected myself in the confession saying that i knew he didnt like me back and its okay. He said that at the moment he just wasnt looking for anything of the sort at all and that it was really hard for him to start having feelings for someone without genuinely knowing them really well.

I joked around saying "okay so ill just wait for you to know me better". He said "you could" to which i replied "its impossible for you to like me if you havent already". To that he replied with "nothings impossible".

I don't know if i should have hope or not.

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A quick scroll through my page is all it takes to know about the situation. A failed 2 year relationship due to my ex losing feelings for me randomly, failed talking stages, constant heartbreaks.

Everytime something bad happens i think "its okay this is meant to happen because everything happens for a reason and im just being prepared for somethig greater".

The more i say this to myself the more it feels like just cope.

This year has lead me to genuinely believe that i am unlovable and unable of being special to other people.

My breakup really fucked me up bad. It was a 2 year relationship in which i gave everything but my ex boyfriend gave absolutely nothing. 2 years of crying. 2 years of trying my best only to be unloved in the end.

People only like me for a maximum of 3 months and then suddenly im nothing special anymore.

I started talking to a guy again. Made me feel hopeful that maybe this one could end up being something good. Maybe everything really does happen for a reason. Maybe god was finally on my side again and given me something to finally be happy over (i havent had an easy life but thats not the point here).

He was everything i dreamed of. I started to really really like him. He was incredibly sweet to me. Constantly saying that stuff that i said or did were cute and that i was really cute and sweet. He said that he trusted me. He would tell me everything. We would speak 24/7 and be fully honest with each other. He started to give me the idea that he liked me too. He was incredibly caring. Would ask things about me the whole time and even if i mentioned the slightest thing that was off about me, he would ask constantly if i felt better or not. I felt special for a second in comparison to others. We became really good friends. We go to the gym together, still text all day long, and next year well have a bunch of the same classes so well be together for a really big part of the day.

I figured that i had actually started falling for him.

Yesterday after some things happened i finally got the courage to confess my feelings. I honestly wasnt very confident that he liked me back even though i had a feeling. I wrote him a long message saying that i had started to have feelings for him and i understood thst he didnt but it was okay i still wanted to be friends.

It was true that he didnt like me back. He said that right now he didnt want anything romantic in his life. (I explained that i didnt want anything offical for the moment either but i had to confess that i had started feeling something more than just friendship). He also mentioned that its really difficult for him to really like someone because he firstly had to know them really really well. (We were only talking for a month or so so not too much time to know each other)

I joked around asking if he was going to start liking me if he knew me more. He said maybe. I said that i thought it was impossible for him to start liking me later. He said nothing is impossible.

Thinking that something might happen in the future seems just like stupid coping to me.

We are 2 incredibly compatible people. I really fell for him. It just hurts.

Im not sure what to do now. Now im fully convinced that im unlovable.

Maybe some people really arent meant to have someone special to them. Maybe being alone is a better off option for someone like me.

A quick scroll through my page is all it takes to know about the situation. A failed 2 year relationship due to my ex losing feelings for me randomly, failed talking stages, constant heartbreaks.

Everytime something bad happens i think "its okay this is meant to happen because everything happens for a reason and im just being prepared for somethig greater".

The more i say this to myself the more it feels like just cope.

This year has lead me to genuinely believe that i am unlovable and unable of being special to other people.

My breakup really fucked me up bad. It was a 2 year relationship in which i gave everything but my ex boyfriend gave absolutely nothing. 2 years of crying. 2 years of trying my best only to be unloved in the end.

People only like me for a maximum of 3 months and then suddenly im nothing special anymore.

I started talking to a guy again. Made me feel hopeful that maybe this one could end up being something good. Maybe everything really does happen for a reason. Maybe god was finally on my side again and given me something to finally be happy over (i havent had an easy life but thats not the point here).

He was everything i dreamed of. I started to really really like him. He was incredibly sweet to me. Constantly saying that stuff that i said or did were cute and that i was really cute and sweet. He said that he trusted me. He would tell me everything. We would speak 24/7 and be fully honest with each other. He started to give me the idea that he liked me too. He was incredibly caring. Would ask things about me the whole time and even if i mentioned the slightest thing that was off about me, he would ask constantly if i felt better or not. I felt special for a second in comparison to others. We became really good friends. We go to the gym together, still text all day long, and next year well have a bunch of the same classes so well be together for a really big part of the day.

I figured that i had actually started falling for him.

Yesterday after some things happened i finally got the courage to confess my feelings. I honestly wasnt very confident that he liked me back even though i had a feeling. I wrote him a long message saying that i had started to have feelings for him and i understood thst he didnt but it was okay i still wanted to be friends.

It was true that he didnt like me back. He said that right now he didnt want anything romantic in his life. (I explained that i didnt want anything offical for the moment either but i had to confess that i had started feeling something more than just friendship). He also mentioned that its really difficult for him to really like someone because he firstly had to know them really really well. (We were only talking for a month or so so not too much time to know each other)

I joked around asking if he was going to start liking me if he knew me more. He said maybe. I said that i thought it was impossible for him to start liking me later. He said nothing is impossible.

Thinking that something might happen in the future seems just like stupid coping to me.

We are 2 incredibly compatible people. I really fell for him. It just hurts.

Im not sure what to do now. Now im fully convinced that im unlovable.

Maybe some people really arent meant to have someone special to them. Maybe being alone is a better off option for someone like me.

A quick scroll through my page is all it takes to know about the situation. A failed 2 year relationship due to my ex losing feelings for me randomly, failed talking stages, constant heartbreaks.

Everytime something bad happens i think "its okay this is meant to happen because everything happens for a reason and im just being prepared for somethig greater".

The more i say this to myself the more it feels like just cope.

This year has lead me to genuinely believe that i am unlovable and unable of being special to other people.

My breakup really fucked me up bad. It was a 2 year relationship in which i gave everything but my ex boyfriend gave absolutely nothing. 2 years of crying. 2 years of trying my best only to be unloved in the end.

People only like me for a maximum of 3 months and then suddenly im nothing special anymore.

I started talking to a guy again. Made me feel hopeful that maybe this one could end up being something good. Maybe everything really does happen for a reason. Maybe god was finally on my side again and given me something to finally be happy over (i havent had an easy life but thats not the point here).

He was everything i dreamed of. I started to really really like him. He was incredibly sweet to me. Constantly saying that stuff that i said or did were cute and that i was really cute and sweet. He said that he trusted me. He would tell me everything. We would speak 24/7 and be fully honest with each other. He started to give me the idea that he liked me too. He was incredibly caring. Would ask things about me the whole time and even if i mentioned the slightest thing that was off about me, he would ask constantly if i felt better or not. I felt special for a second in comparison to others. We became really good friends. We go to the gym together, still text all day long, and next year well have a bunch of the same classes so well be together for a really big part of the day.

I figured that i had actually started falling for him.

Yesterday after some things happened i finally got the courage to confess my feelings. I honestly wasnt very confident that he liked me back even though i had a feeling. I wrote him a long message saying that i had started to have feelings for him and i understood thst he didnt but it was okay i still wanted to be friends.

It was true that he didnt like me back. He said that right now he didnt want anything romantic in his life. (I explained that i didnt want anything offical for the moment either but i had to confess that i had started feeling something more than just friendship). He also mentioned that its really difficult for him to really like someone because he firstly had to know them really really well. (We were only talking for a month or so so not too much time to know each other)

I joked around asking if he was going to start liking me if he knew me more. He said maybe. I said that i thought it was impossible for him to start liking me later. He said nothing is impossible.

Thinking that something might happen in the future seems just like stupid coping to me.

We are 2 incredibly compatible people. I really fell for him. It just hurts.

Im not sure what to do now. Now im fully convinced that im unlovable.

Maybe some people really arent meant to have someone special to them. Maybe being alone is a better off option for someone like me.

A quick scroll through my page is all it takes to know about the situation. A failed 2 year relationship due to my ex losing feelings for me randomly, failed talking stages, constant heartbreaks.

Everytime something bad happens i think "its okay this is meant to happen because everything happens for a reason and im just being prepared for somethig greater".

The more i say this to myself the more it feels like just cope.

This year has lead me to genuinely believe that i am unlovable and unable of being special to other people.

My breakup really fucked me up bad. It was a 2 year relationship in which i gave everything but my ex boyfriend gave absolutely nothing. 2 years of crying. 2 years of trying my best only to be unloved in the end.

People only like me for a maximum of 3 months and then suddenly im nothing special anymore.

I started talking to a guy again. Made me feel hopeful that maybe this one could end up being something good. Maybe everything really does happen for a reason. Maybe god was finally on my side again and given me something to finally be happy over (i havent had an easy life but thats not the point here).

He was everything i dreamed of. I started to really really like him. He was incredibly sweet to me. Constantly saying that stuff that i said or did were cute and that i was really cute and sweet. He said that he trusted me. He would tell me everything. We would speak 24/7 and be fully honest with each other. He started to give me the idea that he liked me too. He was incredibly caring. Would ask things about me the whole time and even if i mentioned the slightest thing that was off about me, he would ask constantly if i felt better or not. I felt special for a second in comparison to others. We became really good friends. We go to the gym together, still text all day long, and next year well have a bunch of the same classes so well be together for a really big part of the day.

I figured that i had actually started falling for him.

Yesterday after some things happened i finally got the courage to confess my feelings. I honestly wasnt very confident that he liked me back even though i had a feeling. I wrote him a long message saying that i had started to have feelings for him and i understood thst he didnt but it was okay i still wanted to be friends.

It was true that he didnt like me back. He said that right now he didnt want anything romantic in his life. (I explained that i didnt want anything offical for the moment either but i had to confess that i had started feeling something more than just friendship). He also mentioned that its really difficult for him to really like someone because he firstly had to know them really really well. (We were only talking for a month or so so not too much time to know each other)

I joked around asking if he was going to start liking me if he knew me more. He said maybe. I said that i thought it was impossible for him to start liking me later. He said nothing is impossible.

Thinking that something might happen in the future seems just like stupid coping to me.

We are 2 incredibly compatible people. I really fell for him. It just hurts.

Im not sure what to do now. Now im fully convinced that im unlovable.

Maybe some people really arent meant to have someone special to them. Maybe being alone is a better off option for someone like me.

I'll keep this short and simple. I started talking to a guy and we became really good friends. He's a wonderful person and I realized that I had started falling for him. I was crushing on him a lot and maybe even a bit more than that if that's okay to say.

He is everything I'd want in a partner and I genuinely liked him a lot. He treated me exactly how you'd treat someone you were in a relationship with but to him it was all just platonic love and care.

Yesterday I confessed to him. It wasn't reciprocated but it's okay. Our conversation was very mature and there is no bad blood or anything. We'll still continue being best friends.

The problem is that I'm not sure how to actually be judt friends with him. How do i "turn off" the feelings that i have? How do i move on and keep on being normal with him?

I know that time fixes everything, but I need something different than that.

I am F17 and have started talking to a guy thats my age and weve been hitting it off pretty well. We were hanging out with another friend too today and we were holding his wallet (all chill no privacy threatened) until he suddenly remembered something and took it away from us in an instant. He told us he had some stuff there. After some pushing i found out that he had a condom there. He said that his friend had given it to him and he had just forgotten to take it out. Its not like he keeps those regularly or something of the sort.

But it still had me a little bit shocked to find out that as a teenager im talking to someone who has potentially lost his virginity. He didnt make a big deal out of it and said it was normal.

Should i also believe its normal?