u/fetta_cheeese

Moving out for the first time early next year, I'm so excited but what is something you wish you knew bf moving out for that first time that would have helped ALOT?

Has anyone ever gotten shaky hands? Like a mix of twitches and shaking? I have a tremor in my left hand ring and pinky finger pretty much 24/7 I wish I could get rid of 😑, but the shaky hands come and go? Someone said it could be bc my thyroid levels are to high? Has anyone experienced this? If so what helped? I had a doctors appointment today ima bring it up but just wanted to get some thoughts ☺️ hope youre all going well

Eeeek, I (23f) just have to share, I have battled with so many health issues and and some mental health issues but also depression before, 2024 I got diagnosed with chronic conditions I never thought I would meet anyone but February 2026 hits and we fall in love at fist sight and I finally got to find out what that means, finding someone and thinking you already know them they are safe and liking everything about them already, enjoying who I am with them and the time with them!, anyway he's all I want and more, I didn't know people like him exist, we watched the stars on his trampoline the other day, we hang out every night we both respect our boundaries, yesterday was huge for me, I get very small depressive episodes on my period lasts one day at most, but they are bad, I was so scared to call him but I texted asking to call and he did right away, we called for 2h then met and he comforted me all night even tho the call made me feel so much better already 🫂, I'm so excited to spend forever with him, we both work with communication and his family like barely never argue and it's not a front I'm always at his bc of my family that argue ever day, finding more and more amazing things about him and us both working on our flaws together is huge, we both support each other and I love it, yes it's hard sometimes but we need to work together out learn old bad habits one step at a time, and we communicate that too! It's great I can talk about anything and not feel stupid dumb and same for him anything he tells me would never change the way I love him, maybe make me love him more 😊 i just had to share I know I'm young but I have been though ALOT my previous partner did not respect me or my body one bit, I'm grateful beyond being about to write in words how grateful I am he's never once disrespected me or my body, not once ever and that's what I need, bc I want to feel like a beautiful woman not someone's girl, I hope everyone is able to find love like this, I now understand love truly, if anyone else has similar experiences please feel free to yap about your partner please 😊, I sprinkle Gods love over anyone that reads this, you are worth so much more than you can ever imagine, I hope someone makes you feel like a peace of art work carved out of stone 🫂🥰💕

My boyfriend just came to me and said he didn't want to just game, he also wanted hobbies to better spend his time with, so now I want to buy a few starter packs to help him get a feel of what he wants!?, ofc Lego (why is it so expensive 😭) he's not a fan of art(paint sculpture etc) what are some hobbies you men do in your free time, would love to hear all your hobbies! Please 😊

I wore some nice new pretty white/cream undies and I WORE Them for the first time FIRST Time, I go to the bathroom bc I felt odd, yes joyest times got some pre period crap ON THEM HELPPPPP hahaha anyway thanks for coming to my rant hope everyone's pretty whites aren't ruined like mine Edit: my period is due in like 8 days 😑 it better hold off for a few days

I wanted to ask what people like better, i am currently on 25mg of mTX injection, but going home to get injected as I can't do it myself has recently become so much of a inconvenience, I want to switch to tablets in my next rheumi appointment but want to ask your opinions first! Who's on pills/tablets and do they work? Has anyone switched from injection to meds? My appointment is forever away but I think far ahead Heheh,

Weather it's for 2 weeks a few days or a few years or even just forever? How are some ways you don't feel so guilty about not working?, sometimes I get a feeling in my chest of disappointment that I'm at home not doing something, but I'm so tried and in pain, no one wants people with disabilities for volunteering work, work in general (were I am that is) is extremely hard to find even with a fully working body, and most of the time I keep myself busy, currently making things for a market stall ima open and I slowly clean around the house clean my room and play games, watch shows, draw. But still sometimes I'm hit with "Youre being a bum bc your not trying hard enough to work", "your useless bc no job could ever work for your body", "what if you'll never be able to work and your just a burden to your partner" , "your just dramatic" it's hard to talk up "I'm on government help I get what I need and I'm able to save right now!", "I can use this time to prep my body for when I get a job", "I can use this time to get alot of appointments done or stragthen my faith in my religion" or"i can get higher help if I can't work I will not be a burden for him" but I just still feel bad, I have only been off work for a year now which is the longest I have ever not worked in 6 years, it's hard to say "hey I need this bc I'm actually struggling to live", "hey this is actually helping WAY more than you think" maybe in a good way I'm not ready for work until the time comes, but I would also love please anyone to hear what you think or say to yourself when you don't work, or if you have been without work for while?

Sum: What makes you feel less or not guilty about not having a job?

I feel around a week or 9 days after my period I think that's ovulation? I feel depressed and not myself it's a userly three weeks before my period I don't feel like getting out of bed nor doing anything I'm sad or just empty, would this be a PCOS or PMDD (I'm not asking for a diagnosis just so I can go to a doctor and get tested, but if it's normal I won't bother) I have a few other health issues that could be an issue but I just want to ask others experiences what they did and if it can go away bc honestly I hate it haha, I hope no one has to go Through this but if so please spread your wisdom 💕🫂

I feel I needed to say this to myself today so ima share it, but I was sitting in a meeting for my church, and ofc last night I slept on rocks haha, idk what I did but I'm so so stiff sore/in pain and uncomfortable it's hard to sit still and be quite, I thought "just chill your being dramatic" then I looked around a little and relised hey its really not normal to be in so much pain you can't sit still for 30 minutes, most of us are in pain everyday, no break no chill, and even if it's just during flare those are rough, I'm proud of you guys and hope you know your doing well, yes it's powerful to sit "still" in a meeting or when hanging out with friends/family while your in pain, yes it's being strong to cry but still go on, yes we are strong we are enough, it's not at all dramatic it's the opposite, being in pain is quite literally a pain, it sucks it hurts and it ruins things but we push though bc we got this, bc we know we can do this, take it easy everyone, and be proud of yourself bc you still did that thing in pain you still helped them while in pain you still did so much while in pain and you can do so much more 💕🫂💕

Struggling really bad right now with having RA and especially at 23, but I'm excited to head to the beach today and sit by the water for hours and relax while I have a nice snack, kinda want to hear what you guys do for fun or a destresser, it can be something like have a nap or even watch a show you like, might cheer me up a bit hearing all your fun activities, hope everyone's doing well 💕🫂