I am recently rewatching it and there's a lot of fun lines. I just heard "Peralta, leave Hitchcock alone!" by Captain Holt and the way Andre Braugher delivers it's so good. Also, the dance Gina does to the recruits it kills me 😂
I'm on the verge of changing my life for the best. Do everything I want to turn the table and be happy. But I need to know, is it worth it? With everything bad that's going on the world, is it really worth it to take a leap of faith and keep living? I don't want to make the wrong choice and notice it later.
Hi guys!! Goodnight!
I feel disrespected by someone I know for a long time now. And it's something that really kills my spirit constantly. I'm chilling at my bed right now, and started thinking of a situation where I felt I was disrespected in front of someone else, belittled and treated like a child. I am sure if I dig more, I will notice many other situations like this one. Have you ever went through a relationship where you felt that way? And what were the signs that showed it?
And if you had to pick one of each album to listen in an island with an mp3 waiting for the rescue, what those would be?
I was watching Jennifer's Body again yesterday for the sake of the good 2000s movies. Being a kid born in 99, it was nostalgic. Needless to say it has such a cool soundtrack. After the movie ended, I went to IMDb to look for the soundtrack. And I read Teenagers by Hayley Williams. Listening to it right now and it's a good short one, her raw vocals from the Riot! album are unmatched. Did you knew this song? I never could imagined it, didn't remember much of the movie, if so the soundtrack. Coming from someone who know all Hayley and Paramore's songs, it's such a nice surprise!
Goodnight!!
For a long time, I have constant disagreements with my mother about not wanting to know anything about people from my family. Since I was a teenager, I had a clear understanding that a lot of members of my family are bad persons, and it was very clear to me I didn't wanted nothing to do with them. But my mother always had an emotional dependence when it comes to family. She is very fond of what my grandmother and grandfather think of her, she is always giving to the family, she still looks for a good relationship with her sisters (whose humilliate her when they were teenagers) and she defends her asshole arrogant crap of a brother. And they have no respect for her, never did, as a person, you know? So, not only she gives too much for them, she is always telling me and my sister things about everybody. I had my personal issues with most of the bad side of the family, and most especially, lately I cannot stand my mother's brother. It's like, always when I deal with him at a family thing, I remember why I don't like this mf. I could tell the issues I had with him, but I do not want to ramble more.
My mother is in the process of retirement, and is taking care of her brother's mother-in-law, who is very sick. This way, she makes some money for now. The thing is, even though I have empathy for her situation (I do not want to see any person sick), I don't like her too, because she was very disrespectful towards me and other persons in the past years. So, I don't like my mother's brother and nobody from the family he married into. They're all arrogant, entitled to whatsoever and disrespectful.
So, what I'm trying to figure it out is how can I make my mother stop sharing information with me about those "relatives" I do not care, given the fact they were awful to the point I had a lot of beef with them in the last few years?
PS: If needed any more information, ask!! I will explain!
Hi there!! Goodnight!
I was wondering, do y'all have recomendations of songs about liking someone and wanting to be with them? Not really about the romance, but more the desire of someone. That kind of song you listen and think about the person that's your type. A sexy song, you know.
I'm going to leave two recomendations.
Hot Blooded by New Constellations
Hello? by Clairo
Good night, everybody!
I woke up some minutes ago. I had a good day yesterday, Mother's Day was happy. Was happy to see my mom happy.
Still, I am feeling bad right now, and that is something I usually feel when I wake up. Very sad, drained and desperate. Normally I'm used to just go along and move on with my day, but not today. I really need to talk to someone. So hi! Anybody wants to chat?
Good morning!
Just looking for friends to chat while I am bored and doing nothing. Love movies, books, music, basically almost every kind of art. Wanna have deep spiritual convos and also talk about breakfast. It's all love. Don't be shy, dm me!
Good night, everybody!
I was wondering this. How much do you believe kids have to take care of their own parents when they get older? What's the must do and what's not?
I am wondering this because I noticed my mother has a lot of issues that no one can fix but herself. To start, she needs psychological help since forever. She has trauma from ages ago, from her teenage years. Should've been in therapy since then, and never stop. She has a huge emotional dependence. Whether it's looking for love and validation from her parents, whether it's from her kids, or romantic relationships. Never felt capable to life without the help of someone. And I noticed she is going to have some issues about physical health too, because she does nothing, no exercises, no healthy food.
And a lot of times I was there for her, especially when she was feeling sad and stressed for whatever reason. Whether is family issues, or work issues, anything. She never seems to learn how to cope with things in a better, healthier way. Besides there's the physical health stuff, too.
She will struggle in the future with some problems, unfortunately. So I have been wondering, what kind of support should I provide and where do I need to cross a line and put boundaries? I don't want to become a burden so big, that it will affect my personal life in multiple ways. For those who take care of their parents, I would appreciate so much if you could share some insights and stories.
Good morning, everybody!
I'm here wondering this because in the last years, I found myself drinking too much, staying out all night long, constantly. I'm dealing with struggles and frustation in my life, and I used alcohol as a way to cope with it. I know it's a bad way to deal with things, and I know everybody knows it's a bad way, but for people who are in a dark place, alcohol might look like your best friend, when it's not, so it's better to be careful. A quote from a movie I really like is the one from Beautiful Boy, when Nic is asked about his problem and he answers that he's an addict and alcoholic, and the rehab counselor says "no, that's how you are treating your problem". Anyways, I quit doing that (hanging out to wherever and consuming a lot of alcohol constantly). I barely go out and only drink now when there's a family thing going on. I didn't even liked hanging out, and was sabotaging myself, and decided to stop. I was in a verge of becoming an alcoholic. So, what I'm thinking about is what is the signs that you're going down that road. If anybody develop an addiction and feels comfortable enough to share your thoughts with me, I would appreciate. Stay strong, y'all! ❤️
Hey, WA lovers
In May, WA will be at my country, and I will do everything I can to watch them. I swear, if everything goes well, I would be so so happy! Man, it will be a good time.
Anybody watched them already? Tell me how it was, who you went with and if they played your favorite song! Much love ❤️
Good night!
Some years ago, I was looking for foreign universities that have a good post grad program for the major I want. I found out about Cornell, and by looking it up, it's a college where I would love to study after graduating, if I stick with the so called plan. Anybody studies at Cornell who would like to chat and open up my world about it? Hahaha
Mine is There'd Better Be A Mirrorball.
Arabella, Snap Out Of It and 505 were songs in my adolescence soundtrack though, such good songs!
Has anybody cutted ties with the family?
I ask because I finally had the courage in me to start making that decision. I know it's something that does not happen immediately, it's a process and with time, I'll get to the distance I want to have from the members I want to be distant, which in my case is a lot.
I had a disagreement yesterday with one of them, and I was very angry. I was defending my cousin, of who my mother's brother started criticizing so badly. The story is my cousin had a karate contest on the club we go, and the family went there for him. He's eleven years old. I didn't even care about if he would win or lose, I just was there for him. Personally, I think it's sick and vile that parents and relatives value kids from much they win, how much they are sucessful in what they do as young ones. My cousin fought, lost, got a silver medal, and we were happy for him. When I left after taking pictures of him, I went back to where the other family members were. And as a sign of pride and happiness for him, I showed everybody his medal.
That's were it started. My mother's brother started rambling about how it could have been better, this and that. He watched the ending, about the last thirty seconds of the fight, and was already getting drunk, which is when he starts to feel entitled and talk shit. To give context, he is a very bitter and arrogant man, and I've noticed this since I was a young adult. He thinks he's better than everyone else because of his whatever doctorate, which it's not that surprising, because a lot of people has too, but my family, who didn't come from money, value this shit more than it should be, instead of being a respectable and gentle and kind person. Always has an arrogant posture and it's a rude self-interested individual too. Anyways, my sister and I started defending my cousin, and I'm always very mad at things like that because I've dealt with this shit for ten years now. He started being arrogant, belittle my sister, belittle other people's opinion. But I didn't hold back, because that's not something that should be ever tolerated. Nobody can talk this badly about a kid, especially one that's the son of one of your sisters.
The big time hypocrisy is that my cousin's father (yes, his own father) came to me to understand what was going on, like I was the one acting poorly and causing a mess. I didn't said nothing to no one before my mother's brother started talking shit. As I said, was showing up the medal because I was proud. I know what made his father confront me and not his buddy. My family has a disgusting tendency to protect and wipe things away. They always did, but for who is convenient for them. My family is also always gathering for drinking any time they can, so of course he's going to protect his drinking buddy. But this time, I was fed up with this. Flat out told my cousin's father that I wasn't arguing with him, but if he had a problem with me speaking out (which he should be doing too, as a father), he can talk to me about it and not sugarcoat the situation. Said that I was talking face to face, and if nobody wasn't up to that, I didn't care enough to say anything at all.
Anyways, I went somebody else and was less stressed out, and clearly ignoring everybody I did not needed to talk. My mother tried to blame me when we got home, and I cut her off before she started, because I had this conversation times before, where I stood up for someone at family gatherings, who wasn't there to defend themselves or was just too young to be this offended. So I cut her off, we had an argument, I was angry again and decided to go to my grandfather and grandmother's house, where I still will deal with things I do not want, but it's better than the other option. Besides, right now I can't afford a place, so I'm playing with the cards I've dealt. And after all that, I decided to cut contact with every member of my family I believe I should. And it's the best decision I've had in years. This happened yesterday, and I already feel so much better.
Does anyone cut ties with family? What happened that made you take that decision? Was it something specific or years of being done?