u/gramgram19

First time posting here. I'm 28M, 5'6 and below average in attractiveness. For majority of my life I have accepted my uglinesss and have never put effort into dating, thus why I'm terminally single.

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That all changed 7 months ago when I took up the courage to cold approach every woman I thought was around my age. Through it all, I have approached 300+ woman, received 7 numbers (6 ended up being fake), and 0 dates manifested. Too many times girls have viewed me as a creep and disgusting by simply having the guts to approach.

Despite all the futility, I put myself out there again tonight. I walked up to 2 woman having dinner outside at a restaurant, introduced myself and began chatting. Within 20 seconds, the restaurant's waitress came up in between me and the 2 woman and demanded I leave. I pushed back (figuratively) and told her I have the right to speak with them.

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Soon after, the waitress told me to leave or else she'd call the manager. I left and walked away.

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While I was walking back to my car, the restaurant's manager ran after me and told me I was harassing the staff and customers. While RECORDING ME, he told me I'm bannned from ever stepping into restaurant and that he will press charges for tresspassing and call police if he sees me again.

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My self esteem was crushed. If a 6'3 attractive 10/10 guy did any of this, nothing would happen. Because I'm an ugly guy trying to punch above my weight I get shit on and disrespected. I want to give up completely.