u/iambunnycat

My cat is usually either cuddling me, following my mom, or looking out the window. I just got her two days ago and play with her a lot, but usually when she starts panting I stop, give her a treat, and let her cool off. She usually comes to me after 5-6 minutes and starts meowing again, so I play with her some more. I just feel bad seeing her walk around and do nothing while I watch TikTok’s or study. Is there any way to stop feeling so guilty?

Specifically that really sad one that keeps going viral on TikTok? I’m so confused, she can look at my iPad and stare at the music for hours! Do some cats like music?

So I did my standard first aid and CPR with heaven can wait, and apparently it lasts only 1 year and not 3. Which is weird because they offer a 3 year one. I was wondering if I could still go to clinical with it? I mean it expires in 2027 may, so it would still be valid?

Back in 2022 (I was 15 years old at the time) my mother decided to surrender my two cats because she couldn’t handle all the veterinary expenses. She was very emotional at the time and the staff told her if everything worked out she could readopt them but that was only if they didn’t get adopted. Unfortunately they got adopted fairly quickly (they’re the best cats in the world who wouldn’t love them) and I was so depressed. I couldn’t process what had happened.

Eventually, I’ve found myself wanting to get a cat again. I can pay the expenses and I’ve saved so much money over the year to make sure I wouldn’t depend on my mother and it would be SOLELY my cat. I have a meet and greet tomorrow and I’m a bit scared because they’re going to look up my address and I’m assuming they’ll see my mom surrendered 5 years ago. Will that affect MY chances of adopting? I’m almost 20 now, so can they make an exception?

This has happened a couple of times so I submitted a form to no avail. Is there any way this can be resolved?

“Born” Muslim but never truly believed. Tried to read up on Christianity but it’s too closely related to Islam and I can’t see myself believing despite such a pull towards it. My mom already knew for a long time. But it feels so weird to say it.

I truly don’t know why I feel this way but ever since I was a kid I’ve always had not been as attached to Islam. Even though I never practised Christianity, I always felt such a strong natural pull to it like a comfort almost. I want to look into that and find out why I feel that way. Can anyone recommend me things to read up on?

I’m entering my second semester and I just got an email saying that I have to pay my tuition deposit by June 11 and I don’t know if I will be able to pay the 250 in time. Will there be a penalty for me?

I was never raised in a super strict Muslim household I was allowed to do pretty much whatever I wanted. I have had relationships before I’ve gone out with friends. I’m basically just a Muslim by name. My mom doesn’t care what I do with my life and I am extremely thankful for that. But I’m still so scared to actually leave. I think what scares me the most is the fact that we’re all going to die and I’m scared of being wrong and living in eternal hell. At this point, my view has of Islam has been so tainted. I read the Hadiths about Aisha and it made me sick to my stomach. My mom suffered a lot of sexual abuse at the hands of Muslims and I see how it affects her every single day. Sometimes she has doubts but anytime I question them or try to speak to her about them she just tells me to forget about it and don’t let them consume my mind. She’s very much a Muslim, but she’s a “woke” one. It just makes me so sad that this religion puts women down at such a rapid state and nobody seems to care, including the women who practised it so I want to know what everyone’s tipping point was to leave. I’m so ready ti be done with it. Give me anything. Verses, Hadiths. I’m ready to see the truth.

Buying my mother a birthday present and I want to surprise her, but she’s nosy and I know she goes through my mail! Is the entire process digitally?

My mom was an alcoholic for as long as I could remember. She would drink 3 to 4 days of the week. For a long time I resented her for it. She always provided for us and bought my brother and I the most expensive things and let us do whatever he wanted, but I just hated seeing her that was. It wasn’t until about 13 she told me the reason why she drank. It was to numb the pain of her molestation. The details are graphic so if you don’t want to read them I understand; but she went into full detail and I can’t get it out of my mind. She told me who did it. Her brother, cousins, uncles, and they would do it in groups. I genuinely don’t understand what they found attractive in a literal child, let alone their own flesh and blood. What makes her most devastated is how they’re living normal lives with families and kids of their own, and everyone is telling her to forgive and to forget. I hate this so much for her. She has nightmares about it. Sometimes I hear her crying in her sleep when she’s sober and I hate it so much. She’s my mom. She does everything in her power to take care of me. Anytime I had issues with nursing school she was my shoulder to cry on and always helped me navigate my life. I want to do the same for her but I don’t know how to help her. She has started drinking again after taking a 1.5 year break and she said it was because she had a nightmare and it all came flooding back. My heart aches so bad right now. Please what can I do for her? I can’t undo the trauma but I want to help. I wish someone was there for her. I would do anything for her to be happy.

Hey guys!

I have been wearing glasses since I was 10 and I’ve noticed my prescription getting worse overtime. This is partially due to the fact I don’t wear my glasses often. It’s more of a cosmetic thing and I personally don’t think I look great wearing glasses.

I wanted to get contact lenses for the first time, but I’ve never had them before. My mom says they’re really expensive but I just wanted to try them out to see how I look without wearing glasses. Can anyone break down the general cost of prescription contact lenses? I’m assuming they’re around 150 or upwards to $200? I’ve never had contacts before so I’d have to get a prescription and was hoping to go to SpecSavers tomorrow just to get a breakdown. If any of you guys have any recommendations on where you get your contacts please do. Let me know. I am a broke college student so I wanna save as much money as I can!

Thanks in advance :3

I feel like she doesn’t get the recognition she deserves.

My favourite song that she’s wrote is Scandal, which not only is a banger but is such a smart title because if you search up “twice scandal” hoping to find something, that’s all that pops up 😭

Drop your favourite Dahyun b-sides!!

My mom surprised me with a MacBook neo as I am in nursing school and in desperate need of a laptop (got scammed on eBay but that’s a different story) and I got it in the blush colour. Are there any tips I should know before getting my Neo? I’m coming from windows.

Had a meeting with my advisor and she told me I won a scholarship, I told her I didn’t know this and she said I can see it on my balance and unofficial transcript. My question is where do I see it? I literally checked everywhere and it’s not there.

Planning to do anatomy and sociology.

How much would it be for the entire semester? And if I’m on OSAP, when would that money be deposited into the account? I’ve already enrolled as a part time student on OSAP. Would paying the tuition deposit allow me to click the courses I want?