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galera é o seguinte

minha vida é bem complexa, no sentido de nunca está 'em paz', por conta de questões familiares, as vezes minha mãe mora comigo, as vezes ela volta pro meu pai, as vezes eles querem invadir minha casa e eu tenho que chamar a polícia, enfim.......... conturbado pra dizer o mínimo.

a questão é: eu tenho 29 anos, e eu nunca aprendi a controlar meus próprios gastos, pq trabalhei pra minha família desde que tinha 12 anos e nunca recebi um salário, sempre era só eles pagando meu cartão de crédito e tal, em nenhum momento me tratando como adulto, me preparando para o mundo. de uns meses pra cá eu tenho estado mais solo, meu irmão mora comigo, e estamos dividindo as despesas, mas ele ganha muito mal ainda infelizmente. eu consegui um emprego que paga muito bem home office, vou receber pela primeira vez amanhã e estou em panico por que não faço ideia como controlar gastos, planilha de despesas??????????w
enfim, queria saber de vocês como fazem sobre isso, usam planilha, app, fazem na mão etc?

eu nunca sei quanto dinheiro eu tenho, quanto eu devo, quanto (ou se) vai sobrar, e preciso muito mudar isso, por favor pessoas com tdah que conseguem manter um mínimo semblante de organização financeira:

help

basicamente o que tá no título

comecei em 2016, mas tem muito tempo que não jogo, queria umas dicas do que mudou nos ultimos anos, o que tá bom no momento sei lá qlqr coisa não sei nem por onde começar mais kkkkkkkk

Hi! I'm pondering doing a cord cutting ritual to sever any connections between me, my siblings and our parents. Veeeeery brief context, they are very narcissistic and every time we get a little bit of distance, they find a way to sneak back into our lives, and we're so sick and tired, honestly.

I know cord cutting can be done for all relationships, not just romantic, but I'm looking for your experience with it! Any kind of input is welcome, but I'd specially like to hear from someone who has actually done it in regards to parents.

Thanks!

Hi! I'm pondering doing a cord cutting ritual to sever any connections between me, my siblings and our parents. Veeeeery brief context, they are very narcissistic and every time we get a little bit of distance, they find a way to sneak back into our lives, and we're so sick and tired, honestly.

I know cord cutting can be done for all relationships, not just romantic, but I'm looking for your experience with it! Any kind of input is welcome, but I'd specially like to hear from someone who has actually done it in regards to parents.

Thanks!

I have very narcissistic parents, and I've recently gone no contact with them and it's been hard since we still need to finalize some things (my mom lived with me recently and most of her stuff is still at my house).

I was wondering if there's anything I can do to kind of make them forget about me and my siblings, literally a leave-me-alone spell, if there is such a thing, because they are obsessed, and I'm constantly worried they might show up at my doorstep at any moment. My brother lives with me, and we are planning on moving soon, so that's something.

Can anyone help me?

Tenho pais muito narcisistas e recentemente cortei contato com eles. Tem sido difícil porque ainda precisamos finalizar algumas coisas (minha mãe morou comigo recentemente e a maior parte das coisas dela ainda está na minha casa).

Eu estava me perguntando se existe algum feitiço que eu possa fazer para meio que fazê-los esquecer de mim e dos meus irmãos, literalmente um feitiço para que nos deixem em paz, se é que existe algo assim. Eles são obcecados, e eu vivo preocupada com a possibilidade de aparecerem na minha porta a qualquer momento.

Meu irmão mora comigo, e estamos planejando nos mudar em breve, então isso ajuda. Mas eu realmente queria alguma coisa, um feitiço, ritual, qualquer coisa, pra meio que encerrar essa conexão espiritual.

Alguém pode me ajudar?

I have very narcissistic parents, and I've recently gone no contact with them and it's been hard since we still need to finalize some things (my mom lived with me recently and most of her stuff is still at my house).

I was wondering if there's any spell I can do to kind of make them forget about me and my siblings, literally a leave-me-alone spell, if there is such a thing, because they are obsessed, and I'm constantly worried they might show up at my doorstep at any moment. My brother lives with me, and we are planning on moving soon, so that's something. But I really wanted something, a spell, ritual, anything, to kind of close off that spiritual connection.

Can anyone help me?

I have very narcissistic parents, and I've recently gone no contact with them and it's been hard since we still need to finalize some things (my mom lived with me recently and most of her stuff is still at my house).

I was wondering if there's any spell I can do to kind of make them forget about me and my siblings, literally a leave-me-alone spell, if there is such a thing, because they are obsessed, and I'm constantly worried they might show up at my doorstep at any moment. My brother lives with me, and we are planning on moving soon, so that's something. But I really wanted something, a spell, ritual, anything, to kind of close off that spiritual connection.

Can anyone help me?

vocês que tomam venvanse, sofrem muito com a boca seca? o que fazem pra ajudar com isso? sinto que tomo uns 5 litros de água por dia e mesmo assim não resolve, quando escovo os dentes parece que não limpa a língua, enfim..... existe algo a se fazer?

I’m not a native English speaker, even though I use it every day for work and also teach it as a second language, meaning, I’m very familiar and comfortable with it. Most of the resources I find on witchcraft are in English, be it books about different practices or spells.
With books and reading I don’t mind a lot, but with spells I sometimes translate any verbal components to my native language because it ‘feels right’.
Does anyone have the same experience? Do you think it’s ’wrong’ (or less effective) to perform a spell in a different language? Is this a dumb question? I need opinions!!

Hi! So on the blue moon on June 1st I had a job interview, I was super nervous bc I really needed this job, it pays well and it will allow me to leave a tough situation at home, so I did some rituals before the interview, some grounding work for the anxiety etc. and I got the job! It was a very easy interview, I was basically already hired from our previous communication and they were just introducing me to the company owners and whatnot.

So my question is: when you do a spell or any work asking for something, do you usually do anything to show gratitude? I know some people who work with deities and it's much more straight forward to thank a deity for something you asked and were granted, but if you don't work with anyone specifically, how do you say thanks?

I usually try to do something good for someone else, to kind of send the good energy forward, but I wanted to know if anyone does anything more specific or direct!

Thanks!

Hi! So on the blue moon on June 1st I had a job interview, I was super nervous bc I really needed this job, it pays well and it will allow me to leave a tough situation at home, so I did some rituals before the interview, some grounding work for the anxiety etc. and I got the job! It was a very easy interview, I was basically already hired from our previous communication and they were just introducing me to the company owners and whatnot.

So my question is: when you do a spell or any work asking for something, do you usually do anything to show gratitude? I know some people who work with deities and it's much more straight forward to thank a deity for something you asked and were granted, but if you don't work with anyone specifically, how do you say thanks?

I usually try to do something good for someone else, to kind of send the good energy forward, but I wanted to know if anyone does anything more specific or direct!

Thanks!