u/juicylemonnn

I just want to know how many you have parents who have not saved up for your marriage or for any emergency situation and relying fully on you.

Hi all

Today is my mom’s bday. I got her cake and gave her gift as well. During cake cutting once she cut the cake I came back in my room.

My parents,brother and Bhabhi kept me calling but I didn’t came. I said I’m going to change my clothes.

Then my mom got upset and said ki beta thodi aur der ruk jaate bahar. I said I didn’t wanna stay as my brother was drunk ( he drinks a lot and I avoid him)

Then my parents started moral policing me that this is wrong blah blah blah , rishto mei samjhota karna pdhta hai.

Reality is my brother takes full footage at house. Today during cake cutting my mom didn’t give me cake. Funny thing is I got the cake and only I got her the present. She always gave me the cake but she didn’t this time. My parents are also too bloody ignorant of my brother’s behaviour.

I feel I’m just an ATM machine at home.

For ref I’m 30 F

My father has developed itchy hives. Rashes. And all. Not super extreme. Treatment is 6 months long but is there any ghar ka nuskha you guys would recommend? Anyone who’s been on same boat!

Hello everyone,

I’m in one dire situation right now.

In my current company I got bit unlucky and found myself among bullies. As a result I had a “managed exit” and I resigned. Although my LWD is in August but company decided to put me off the hook and in two days only I’ll have my access revoked.

So much happened in last 2 weeks from resignation to no work laptop in next 2 days. I’ve also got EMIs to pay and I’m in an urgent need to get a job.

There are more issues but those are besides the point right now. Can anyone of you refer me? I can join immediately and I will not disappoint.

For quick background
I’m 29F. Single. Paying off home loan thru emi and living with retired parents and taking care of them too.

Worked as technical product owner in cloud operation space. Handled DevOps team and ran multiple roadmap items in parallel. I’m a quick learner and can adapt well.

Just needed a referral 🙏

I was doing wfh and recently i was told to resign. Reason being I had workplace bullies who literally made my life a living hell. So my chapter is closed in this company.

In two days my access will be revoked and I need to return the company laptop. But I haven’t told about this to my parents.

They know that something weird is happening with me and I need to look for job soon. But they don’t know specifics of it. When I earlier told this my parents blamed me and said I should have adjusted instead of moving out. My mom even started crying and I had to be her support instead of them being mine.

The good part in all this situation is that I’ll be continued to get my salary up until September which is like 3 months runway but the fact I haven’t told my parents about this thing is making me nervous.

I was thinking I’d need to serve my notice period but my company gave me buy out and instead paying me one month extra as grace pay.

I pay 40k emi every month
And 20k for auxiliary expenses

Now that my job is at stake last time my father said Tumko ab job Milna mushkil hai. Try for govt job maybe. And my mom created a big scene.

And I fear it will going to repeat itself.

Do you guys have any suggestions how to navigate this situation? Not having a job right now is a stress but dealing with my parents is a bigger problem. They will break my confidence when I tell them all this. And it is going to be lonely journey I feel

Edit: my papa started crying. Saying he never wanted to hurt me. I feel so stupid 😞🥹

I’ve resigned from my job but could avail fitness allowance. So I bought an Apple Watch for my father.

I don’t know whom to share this news with so doing it here with all of you

Hello everyone,

Because of bullies at workplace I was given a “managed exit”. My access will be revoked in 2 days. After that I’m still on payroll for next two months but my work comes to an end.

I’m not sad per se but I’m very much stressed out. I really hope I’m able to get job soon

Posting this here to know who are also in same boat as me?

Note: I’m 29 year old. Soon to be 30 in 2 months
Also single. Living with parents and was in WFH setup

I don’t have any affinity towards this neither do I know anyone.

However….
I always was intrigued by this illness as I saw one documentary when I was in class 8th or 9th

And since then schizophrenia to me comes across as an extremely devastating mental health conditions

Anyone has any brief knowledge on this?

Hi all

I’m 30F and not married yet. Today my father got very sick. He had high fever which kinda hit his brain. When he was at the peak of his fever, he started crying.

We asked him why you crying and he said I’m feeling so unwell and I am sad I couldn’t even get you married.

I felt so bad :(

My parents never force me to get married but at times when he was feeling unwell, his prime focus was seeing me with someone in case something happens to him

He’s better now.
But I’m just thinking how much our parents think and worry for us.

There are other problems happening in my life right now. But I am thinking to keep those at bay right now.

My father is 65 and this is first time I saw him crying

Edit : aap sab kitne pyaare ho. May God bless you all. This sub Reddit is genuinely so good. I’m excited for 30s cuz of you all 🩷

Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua

Hi all,

I’ve a boy problem.

I’ve a friend. We are part of a friend circle. He has always been little aloof. But a complete gem of a person. Recently he joined Instagram and that was a shocker cuz it took him 8-9 years to come here.

Now many of my friends say that we both are very similar. In person he also takes care a lot. I’ve also felt that maybe we both have something’s in common.

Now when he joined insta I started sending him reels. Pretty much everyday. And by reels I sent him like 10-15/day and he reacted on all of them diligently. Then his birthday came and suddenly he didn’t respond for 3 days which is very much unlike him. Then he did. Saw all of my reels and texted on a reel.

Now past few weeks before his bday I saw him being very warm with his other female friends. Like leaving comment on their reels. Of course sweet ones. And that kind of made me feel that I guess he’s just sweet with everyone… (he has many female friends too since he was part of a dance group)

Now, idk what struck me but I didn’t respond to him. Didn’t send him any reel. Completely clocked out from the conversation

And guess what. A week went by he didn’t text me or even sent a reel back. Completely DEAD.

Then he posted a insta story for one of a female friend. Very generic story. And I felt like that he’s active on insta…. I thought maybe he didn’t reply me cuz he was offline or something

But then I saw him liking other reels and that realisation was pretty hurtful. The conversation only went on cuz I invested in it. Not otherwise.

So I went to his profile
Unfollowed him and removed him as a follower too

And guess what
No message till this date ( it’s been 3 week)

Hi all,

I’ve a boy problem.

I’ve a friend. We are part of a friend circle. He has always been little aloof. But a complete gem of a person. Recently he joined Instagram and that was a shocker cuz it took him 8-9 years to come here.

Now many of my friends say that we both are very similar. In person he also takes care a lot. I’ve also felt that maybe we both have something’s in common.

Now when he joined insta I started sending him reels. Pretty much everyday. And by reels I sent him like 10-15/day and he reacted on all of them diligently. Then his birthday came and suddenly he didn’t respond for 3 days which is very much unlike him. Then he did. Saw all of my reels and texted on a reel.

Now past few weeks before his bday I saw him being very warm with his other female friends. Like leaving comment on their reels. Of course sweet ones. And that kind of made me feel that I guess he’s just sweet with everyone… (he has many female friends too since he was part of a dance group)

Now, idk what struck me but I didn’t respond to him. Didn’t send him any reel. Completely clocked out from the conversation

And guess what. A week went by he didn’t text me or even sent a reel back. Completely DEAD.

Then he posted a insta story for one of a female friend. Very generic story. And I felt like that he’s active on insta…. I thought maybe he didn’t reply me cuz he was offline or something

But then I saw him liking other reels and that realisation was pretty hurtful. The conversation only went on cuz I invested in it. Not otherwise.

So I went to his profile
Unfollowed him and removed him as a follower too

And guess what
No message till this date ( it’s been 3 week)

Hi all

I’m just bit intrigued to know that which placement generally show that a person might develop cancer in their lifetime?

I’ve seen lot of cancer people and I always felt what they’ve in their chart to end up in this position