u/katerinashi

I got my brows microbladed 10 years ago. It has faded. My brows are black so the artist used brown-black pigment. I have dark brown skin color so I'm afraid to do laser and have the area turn a different color. But it still needs to fade more. At the time microblading was new so I didn't know how it was going to be. I thought it would fade eventually but I think whatever ink the artist used made the pigment go deeper. It has faded but not fully. The tail ends are now reddish color. The inner parts of the brow are still a black brown color. It's just all faded looking. What have you done to fade your micro blading?
What products worked?
How do you get rid of the reddish tail color?

I have a few fibroids and a 2.1 cm ovarian cyst. I'm trying to get rid of them naturally before doing surgery
Or if you have any herbalist or integrative holistic doctors you can recommend. Please let me know!
Thank you!

I've been dealing with being discarded by my partner. He's extremely toxic and narcissistic. We have been together for 10 years. But now things have changed. I've been discarded much more for the past 7 months after he became more close with his friends. Any time I would tell him to be nice to me or put boundaries he would try to break up but I would try to stop him because I usually would say to stop always trying to break up to manipulate. I don't get why he just can't be nice. But yet he doesn't really put real effort to actually ending the relationship either. It's very weird. Did you deal with this in your toxic relationship? Is this how they get? Being discard feels incredibly painful.

Im starting to feel hopeless in being able to shrink them. I've noticed more bleeding and cramping and pressure and pressing bladder. Most of my fibroids are outside my uterus. One is intramural. Largest is 8cm. I think I have to do surgery. I'm really dreading this. And im scared since this will be my first surgery. How do you manage with your fibroids?

After spending a long time together and watching your partner change for the worse and start to lose love and care for you. Start to not prioritize you. Everyone else becomes more important than you. Seeing less effort put in. Not want to hear from you. The coldness and rudeness. Even if it's something health related, he still doesn't care. Watching the relationship slowly die while in it is painful. I can't comprehend how people become so heartless towards someone they once loved so much. I never thought the day would come where this would happen. All this is happening out of nowhere. And I know it's not anything I did.
He just doesn't want me anymore. Doesn't want the relationship anymore. He says he wants to be alone. He once said he can't live without me. And that's changed. And I was here from the start when he had absolutely nothing and no one there for him. It's heartbreaking

After spending a long time together and watching your partner change for the worse and start to lose love and care for you. Start to not prioritize you. Everyone else becomes more important than you. Seeing less effort put in. Not want to hear from you. The coldness and rudeness. Even if it's something health related, he still doesn't care. Watching the relationship slowly die while in it is painful. I can't comprehend how people become so heartless towards someone they once loved so much. I never thought the day would come where this would happen. All this is happening out of nowhere. And I know it's not anything I did.
He just doesn't want me anymore. Doesn't want the relationship anymore. He says he wants to be alone. He once said he can't live without me. And that's changed. And I was here from the start when he had absolutely nothing and no one there for him. It's heartbreaking

Everyone keeps saying that after you have a myomectomy that your fibroids will come back and it makes me feel hopeless so I guess I'm just looking for some hope that maybe it doesn't happen to everybody 😣
If yours didn't come back, what did you do to change your lifestyle?

I feel conflicted on if I should delete them or not. A part of me doesn't even want to remember him because the relationship was so horrible and I was discarded and thrown away like I did not matter and replaced by his friends. But another part of me wants to keep the pics cause it's a memory even though it's not a good memory. I have been deleting some slowly. I now only have a few pictures. But I've been hesitating in deleting it all. Did you still keep yours after the break up? It's so different when it's a toxic relationship

My partner and I have been together for 10 years no kids yet. We currently don't live together since I am taking care of my parents for the time being. Last year in September he decided to move in his friend and wife in to his place since they were looking for a place to stay. Ever since then he has been hanging out with his friends more. Since this year in January it has been worse. I keep getting stood up for hangouts. It just feels very incredibly rude. It wasn't like this before. He seems so comfortable canceling and standing me up all the time. I only come over on the weekends. He hangs out with his friends on weekdays as well. And now he's hanging out with his friends on weekends. I even ask to make sure if we are still hanging out on the weekend and he will say yes and then that day will come and he stands me up saying he had plans to watch the basketball game or ufc fight or some soccer game. Or it will be something else like he's out with his friends eating out and will take a longer than usual and end up standing me up.
This is my first relationship. I don't really have anyone that can give me advice. I didn't really grow around an environment that showed me what a healthy relationship was. So I could use some advice. Is this normal after you've been together for so long?
I'm honestly getting really tired of it. Like how much space am I suppose to give. Lately it's like all he thinks about is hanging out with his friends and talking to them. It's like I don't even cross his mind. It's like I'm suppose to go according to whatever he wants like I'm a dog is how I feel. Like if he tells me to come I come. If he doesn't want to I don't. He can cancel on me and I'm suppose to just deal with it cause it's what he wants. Not what I want.

I have fibroids outside my uterus and the past week I've been noticing some aching pain that comes and goes on the left side of my bikini area and it happens at certain angles like when I walk and put pressure on the left side or if I lay on that side I feel it more. I sometimes get it even when sitting. Does anyone else have this? What did you do to fix this?

What do you consider as cheating in a relationship? Do you think flirting and checking out other women is cheating in a relationship? Do you think going to strip clubs or similar places (twin peaks, hooters,etc) meaning establishments where women are sexualized and objectified is considered cheating in a relationship?

Edit: yes for the wandering eye i meant if your partner looks at other women for more than a few seconds or they check out a bunch of women while you are there with them as well.

I love the album but I can't help but think every time I listen to it that Michael would have done the songs differently and get upset that they released his unfinished music

I just took my first dose of Buspirone 5mg. I'm not sure If that low dose will do anything. It might need to be increased later. So far I didn't have any side effects. No dizziness. Hopefully this helps my anxiety and nervous system...How was your experience on Buspirone? How long did it take for it to work? Did you get any side effects with increased dosage?

I never imagined for my relationship to end up like this. For some reason being discarded feels so much worse. I spent 10 years with him and he simply does not seem to care. He only cares about hanging out with his friends. He doesn't want to call or text me and doesn't want to hear from me. He's always disrespectful in the way he talks to me. Im not included in anything. I don't even cross his mind. He's happier if he doesn't even hear from me. He finds me annoying when I'm not even doing anything to him. It's like my very existence bothers him but yet he stays in the relationship What's crazy is he was not like this when I met him. I can't even process how someone could be this cruel to another that you can't even show basic human respect. He's nice to others though even strangers but just not me. He's so comfortable with me. He doesn't even care about losing me. And I wish he did which makes no sense since it's better for me to not even be with him. I guess I want him to know what he lost but I doubt he will. It seems like he will be happier without me and that hurts to know. And here I am suffering in pain while he doesn't even care what he did to me or care he has lost me.
Were you also discarded in your relationship like this? Is this how it always ends with toxic people?