u/lunarthistles

Just got into a HEATED Reddit argument with a fellow lesbian who could not wrap her brain around the idea that butchfemme is so much more than just an aesthetic and that it’s actually political and always has been! She just didn’t want to hear anything I had to say and couldn’t believe that the roots of butchfemme are and always have been in blue collar 😒🙄

I’m so TIRED of people not understanding who and what we are! I’m so tired of butchfemme being misunderstood as just being a play upon straight dynamics- it’s unacceptable in this big year of 2026.

That’s it, that’s the post. It’s almost laughable really. I’m about to be gone for 4 days and I know my dog will be looked after and loved beyond measure by my parents while I’m away. I logically know that every time I’m gone, even if it’s just for a few hours she’s totally fine- and yet my mind plays horrible, visceral mind movies of her devastated and missing me terribly until I end up texting my mom to confirm she’s okay. And she always is.