How can the SLE get in a knockdown drag out fight and then everything is cool in a few hours?

I have known many SLE types and we can get in a knockdown drag out fight just hours before where it's really brutal, and then just a couple of hours later they forget about it and all is well. Someone please explain this to me.

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u/nelsne — 2 days ago

Has anyone tried legally getting Ketamine injections or microdosing Ketamine for anxiety?

I've tried every SSRI and anti-psychotic known to man for anxiety and they all failed for me. The only thing that has worked for me has been benzos and those are impossible to get now. I've heard good thing about legal Ketamine. Has anyone tried it?

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u/nelsne — 6 days ago
▲ 2 r/OCD

I openly despise and have fought fist the, "Just be a man" people.

OCD and panic disorder can be debilitating and completely exhausting. The panic attacks are mentally hell and leave you totally incapacitated. However, despite that I am a man.

In the male world, one is taught to be tough, strong, resilient, and take care of one's family. HOWEVER, I have seen an annoying amount of men with zero anxiety disorder constantly tell me that I'm, "A pussy" and to "Suck it up and be a man.".

I despise these men because I'd like to swap brains with people like that and give them a good taste of OCD.....Not only would they never say ignorant things like this ever again...BUT.... They'd probably do anything (and mean anything) to get rid of this anxiety.

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u/nelsne — 8 days ago
▲ 50 r/Anxiety

Can't get a good job without good mental health, but can't get good mental health without a good job!

I'm in a disastrous situation right now: I live in the United States and the mental health care here is an absolute joke. I have had Panic Disorder my entire life and have really outright suffered with panic attacks since childhood.

I have tried every medication known to man, every medicinal herb known to man, and every form of talk therapy known to man to treat my condition and nothing has even held a candle to this anxiety except benzodiazapines.

I have tried over 20 different SSRIs and they destroyed my intimate relationships with women and gave me side effects so devastating that I was basically trading anxiety disorder with a physical health condition like stomach pain, headache or even joint pain.

Since being weaned off benzos, many meds that used to work for me, now give me odd side effects so I need a doctor that understands benzos in and out to be treated. Many people think I'm drug seeking because of this but I'm not. I just simply want someone that understands the medication because otherwise they can't help me.

It's sad because a good 8 out of 10 doctors that I've heard of that prescribe Xanax are already filled up and not taking new patients. I've found a few doctors that don't take insurance that will prescribe it for like $400. Should I just do that? I promise I'm not drug seeking it's just that nothing touches this problem but the the damn benzos! It's so hard to keep a job without them!

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u/nelsne — 9 days ago
▲ 4 r/OCD

Can't get a good job without good mental health, but can't get good mental health without a good job!

I'm in a disastrous situation right now: I live in the United States and the mental health care here is an absolute joke. I have had Panic Disorder my entire life and have really outright suffered with panic attacks since childhood.

I have tried every medication known to man, every medicinal herb known to man, and every form of talk therapy known to man to treat my condition and nothing has even held a candle to this anxiety except benzodiazapines.

I have tried over 20 different SSRIs and they destroyed my intimate relationships with women and gave me side effects so devastating that I was basically trading anxiety disorder with a physical health condition like stomach pain, headache or even joint pain.

Since being weaned off benzos, many meds that used to work for me, now give me odd side effects so I need a doctor that understands benzos in and out to be treated. Many people think I'm drug seeking because of this but I'm not. I just simply want someone that understands the medication because otherwise they can't help me.

It's sad because a good 8 out of 10 doctors that I've heard of that prescribe Xanax are already filled up and not taking new patients. I've found a few doctors that don't take insurance that will prescribe it for like $400. Should I just do that? I promise I'm not drug seeking it's just that nothing touches this problem but the the damn benzos! It's so hard to keep a job without them!

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u/nelsne — 10 days ago

Teddy Roosevelt: LSE 1w2 Sx/so?

I consistently see Teddy Roosevelt typed as an SLE So/sx 8w7. I don't buy this typing at all for him. I think he was an LSE 1w2 Sx/so....

  1. He was obsessed with fighting the moral decay of society and brought several institutions to justice; corrupt corporate businesses, corrupt police departments, corrupt politicians, and much more. What LSE makes it a life mission to rid America of corruption. LSE can be very 1ish but SLEs aren't.

  2. He was extremely gritty and he basically had to have had 4D Se. The dude was ultra badass, practiced MMA with boxing and Judo before it was popular, did a whole 80 minute speech after just getting shot 5 minutes ago, and much more.

  3. He seemed to definitely be Sx/so. He was ultra charismatic and was clearly Sp last. He got shot and then gave a 80 speech right there before going to hospital. During the Spanish American War, he led his troops to the battlefield and he was famous at this time and everyone knew him. Therefore, it made him a target on the battlefield. He then rode his horse and galloped to the to enemy side and they came very close to death. This guy had zero sp.

  4. His Fe is not 1D and could clearly work a crowd. That leaves LSI impossible

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u/nelsne — 11 days ago

Is Sydney Sweeney an ESE Sx 2? I'm curious because the Sx 2 women turn out to almost always be SEE.

Does anyone else think Sydney Sweeney is an ESE SX/SO 2?

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u/nelsne — 14 days ago

Heavy Fi types: Are you generally aggressive but will avoid confrontation if it means losing a close friend?

I've studied Socionics for 10 years and Enneagram for 15. One thing that I've noticed about myself is that I'm a pretty aggressive person. In Enneagram my 8w9 and 9w8 fixes are quite close.

However, despite not giving a damn about confrontation with strangers and quick to react, I will have a different approach with close friends. I generally am not obsessed with being liked by people but if I have a friend that's really close, that if we had too bad of argument, that person may never speak to me again. This really bothers me and I might back down to a person if they are very close friend. Can any other heavy Fi types (3D+) relate?

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u/nelsne — 18 days ago

Studied Enneagram for 15 years and still don't know if I'm 8w9 or 9w8 fix

I've studied Enneagram for 15 years and I've known some big names in the field. My 8w9 and 9w8 fix are really close. How do I determine which one is dominant?

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u/nelsne — 18 days ago

Why are there so many 7s that try to act like a 1?

There are a ridiculous amount of 7s that think that they're a 1 and it's really funny to me. I will see these adventurous 7s doing all of these hedonistic, worldly things, but then will turn around and act like they are morally righteous the next day.

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I'll give you an example. So I have this 7w6 Sx/so friend and several days a week she'll post really sexualized images of herself on Facebook. She'll then post photos of her partying and getting loaded. She looks like the ultimate hedonistic party girl. She'll also then gloat about the amount of money she's getting.

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However, then on some days she'll post these like uplifting Bible verses and talks about following God's will. She'll then go on a Christian missions trip and It's very entertaining. Has anyone else noticed this about 7's?

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u/nelsne — 19 days ago

Jacksonville Puerto Rican restaurant that serves Mofongo

I'm looking for Puerto Rican Restaurants that serve Mofongo in Jacksonville. Suggestions?

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u/nelsne — 24 days ago

Channel where they use premade ingredients and rubs to cook? Most of the channels use like 15 different ingredients.

Can someone recommend me a channel where they just use common sauces and maybe just like a premade rub that I can find in a grocery store? Most of these recipes have like 10 different sauces and whatnot and it gets very costly to make

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u/nelsne — 25 days ago

I believe that your mobilizing and seeking (valued functions) can both get to a higher dimensionality.

I think the theory understates Neuroplasticity. I believe that, for example, an SEE starts off with 2 Te (which is okay but not awful) but they can develop the Te if they are around a heavy Te type. I believe it can get to 3D.

So what does that look like? How many SEE's do we know that had a problem with alcohol and drugs but then studied some trade and is now making decent money. That's what that looks like.

One can even develop their seeking function as well but that would take some serious dualizing. Given our example, what would an SEE look loo like if they already developed their Te but then developed Ni as well? That looks like some like Tony Robbins motivational speaker who is a master of human psychology.

This is just my theory. What are your thoughts?

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u/nelsne — 25 days ago

Hypothetical: 2 to trains are gonna crash and one train contains 5 people you love, the other contains 200 innocents. Who do you save?

I want to prove a point here. I was recently on a discord call with an EII and an ILI. The EII proposed a hypothetical situation that I found interesting.

So in the situation, you are in charge of pulling the levers and making sure trains don't collide with each other, and lives aren't lost. However, a chaotic situation presents itself:

You can only save the people in one train, and in the first train there are only 5 people on the train in total. There is no one else on the train but 5 people close to you and the staff it takes to operate the train. So it's basically just your close friends and a few other others.

On the second train, there are 200 innocent people. The train doesn't contain anyone you know but it contains a lot more people.

So what's your type and who do you choose to save: The people on train 1 with your close loved ones or the 200 innocents?

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u/nelsne — 27 days ago

Why are there so many IEE women with Borderline Personality Disorder?

This may be nothing but there seems to be a large amount of IEE women that have BPD? I don't know if this is a thing, but I'm playing the idea of this correlation.

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u/nelsne — 1 month ago

What's up with SLE's loving Chess? Every SLE I know is in love with Chess?

What is it about Chess that captivates the SLE so much?

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u/nelsne — 1 month ago

ILE's: Are you money motivated?

This could be nothing but when evaluating the difference between ILE and LIE, I notice that LIE tends to be more worldly and money motivated. ILE can do almost everything that the LIE can do, but ILE's don't seem to be that money motivated. Is this a thing?

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u/nelsne — 1 month ago
▲ 3 r/SSRIs

Does everyone not take the mental health meds well or does my body not tolerate SSRI and SNRIs well?

I bet you that I've tried 24 different mental health meds, and the only thing that held a candle to this anxiety without crazy side effects were benzos. I have tried pill after pill and they were all miserable and had horrendous side effects. The pills literally made my head hurt, stomach hurt, made me impotent, gave me joint pain, you name it.

However, I live in the US and the benzos are extremely hard to get now. It is almost impossible to get benzos now thanks to the DEA but I still know people that get them.

I'm about to see a new psychiatrist because my current one could care less about me. I'm having to get really creative with this process because nothing has worked for me. I'm just trying to come up with a pill combination that will work for me without hurting me or making me impotent.

Sadly, going about this process seems to be about as easy as Thomas Edison inventing the light bulb. I have to try like 50 different medications to find one that doesn't have debilitating side effects for me. Is this normal or does my body seem to really just hate mental health meds?

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u/nelsne — 1 month ago