u/palmwick48

HAHAHHAA. All three ENTJs I’ve been mates with and we’ve made a Spotify blend and it was their idea 😂 I’m grateful for the existence of Spotify blends man

I just found a list of values by searching on Pinterest for one. Then I copied down the ones I aligned with. Here they are

I value gratitude

I value honesty

I value authenticity

I value kindness

I value humility

I value being romantic

I value being appreciative

I value taking accountability

I value openmindedness / openness to experience

I value creativity

I value bravery

I value optimism

I value curiosity

I value charity

I value community

I value friendship

I value courage

I value passion

I value silliness

I value enjoyment

I value humour

I value whimsy

I value positivity

I value adventure

I value exploration

I value imagination

I value originality

I value uniqueness

I value creativity

Maybe this could be a trend!!

I just found a list of values by searching on Pinterest for one. Then I copied down the ones I aligned with. Here they are

I value gratitude

I value honesty

I value authenticity

I value kindness

I value humility

I value being romantic

I value being appreciative

I value taking accountability

I value openmindedness / openness to experience

I value creativity

I value bravery

I value optimism

I value curiosity

I value charity

I value community

I value friendship

I value courage

I value passion

I value silliness

I value enjoyment

I value humour

I value whimsy

I value positivity

I value adventure

I value exploration

I value imagination

I value originality

I value uniqueness

I value creativity

I’m in my last year, graduating soon. Psychology degree. I definitely want to stay in my city (which is also my home city). I’m expecting a First but have limited work experience!

*Masters possibilities*

I’ve got a few ideas for masters courses but don’t love the sound of any of them to commit to ONE. I heard I can apply up until Sep 2026 for entry in Sep 2026. Two of them are psychology masters at my uni. Two of them are at the other uni near me.

Maybe I could see if there’s a Community Psychology degree somewhere near the south west. I’d probably enjoy doing a masters in community psychology.

*Summer ideas*

My plan for the summer is volunteering (but that’s only one day a week). And hobbies. I will also apply to volunteer at a mental health charity. Hopefully I get it but it’s volunteering so hopefully they take me and so I can build work experience.

Also there’s an opportunity this summer for a research internship at my uni. It’s 8 weeks. I’m gonna apply.

I’ll probably live at home for the summer (in the same city as my uni).

But I haven’t even sorted out accommodation for next year!! I’m hoping - seeing as I haven’t decided if I’m doing a masters or not - a landlord will let me take a room in a student house (i expect joint tenancy agreement) - for if I am a student status OR if I’m a “young professional”. Then I can get accommodation and settle that without having pressure to decide if I’m going a masters

I’ll do a masters anyway, the question is just if I should take a year off first, working, or if I should go straight into it. I do LOVE psychlogy and research.

Other than that, I have no idea what I want to do next year. Can anyone give advice?

*My work experience history* : I’ve only had 2 jobs in my life, both were hospitality. One was for a year. The other was for nearly 2 years. Both were several years ago - I don’t think I even have references from these jobs because the team leaders I was under don’t even work there anymore.

So I feel like I don’t have much work experience!! I have workplace anxiety - I feel I’d worry about getting fired.

I know a lot of people work for a year in ANY job like working at tescos or something. I would only manage this for about two 8 hour shifts a week if it was something that mundane. If I had to do this for a year I would need to be studying on the side (if not straight into a masters, then a Level 1 course somewhere).

And also then how would I make friends and stuff? I love being on a uni campus and being in a student community

There are some careers I’m interested in: CBT therapist, community psychologist. But I want to stay in my area and don’t know how much I’m committed to just one career idea.

Thanks!

Cognitive function brainrot - I am too aware of cognitive functions, in myself and other people.

Since I learned cognitive functions it’s all I see - how do you forget this? How do I see people without this? How do I describe someone like they’re funny attentive etc, instead of thinking they’re Fe dom or Te aux or whatever.

My own thoughts are always wrapped around my cognitive functions. I am using metacognition (thinking about thinking) and self-analysis too much

I have anxious thoughts like

“Am I not Ne dom anymore because I haven’t had ideas lately. But people say stack can’t change. But what if I’m the exception and I’m a freak case. What function am I using now? How do I know”

I JUST WANT TO THINK NORMALLY INSTEAD OF THIS

I see Fe in everyone now. I prefer Fe, i think people should have Fe. Then I worry “am I not a Fi user anymore”. I look at my phone notes, personal diaries, possessions, memories - I find evidence that I’m still a Fi user

I’ve developed my functions and have pretty balanced functions, causes me to feel like some types one day and some types another day because my functions are at pretty even levels.

I go on dating apps and feel like I know their type. Everyday at some point, I know if my own thoughts are Ne or Ni or Te or Ti or whatever.

I think things like “right I’m gonna Te this out”. I exercise my Ti and Ne and enjoy it. I want to tap into my Fi again that I neglected probably due to trauma of having high Fi (and I then worked to lower the Fi intentionally)

This is besides the point. HOW DO I FORGET THIS STUFF. I WOULD LOVE TO NOT THINK ABOUT COGNITIVE FUNCTIONS FOR A MONTH

For me it’s I love small talk!! There’s several ways I’m not the stereotype and this is one of them. I’m not like “I need deep conversation I don’t like small talk.”

I have great chats asking people for a lighter or just being like “how’s your day going” and then getting to smile and laugh during chat with them. I probably have small talk every day (I’m at uni).

It’s fun, good way to find out about someone else’s day / connect with someone

It doesn’t always have to be deep. In fact I lowkey prefer it to getting super deep with a stranger. Anyone relate?

What’s a way youre not the stereotype?