u/panganotchanga

I met Samar

So few days ago I met samar, big fan these days due to Khasara and Tum na ho.
He was with Ameema saleem, this girl definitely had some attitude, I said hello to her before approaching samar, she went out while rolling her eyes but Samar was actually really really sweet, greeted us nicely and took pictures too. 🥺

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u/panganotchanga — 16 hours ago
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Did they get married? Who am I?

I used to think female friendships were unbreakable. Especially the kind that starts in childhood.

So there were two girls, A and M. Best friends since they were kids. The type who shared everything, were always together, knew every detail about each other’s lives. Everyone around them thought they’d grow old as best friends.

When they were around 15-16, they met a guy online through a game. Let’s call him F. A eventually fell in love with him. Things didn’t work out at the time, and F disappeared from both their lives.

Years later, before COVID, F somehow came back into A’s life through mutuals. M also became friends with him again, so all three were talking normally. During COVID, A and F got close again and genuinely fell in love. F even wanted to marry her, and A was finally happy.

But behind her back, M was trying to ruin everything.

In 2020, M’s father passed away. A stayed beside her through all of it. Even though A’s own father had COVID at the time, she still stayed with M constantly to support her. F was there for M too. They both treated her like family.

And that’s what makes this worse.

One day A found messages on M’s phone where M was secretly convincing F not to marry her. Saying things like:
“She’s too sharp for you.”
“Don’t spoil her.”
“Why are you ordering food for her?”
“Why are you gifting her things? She can do things herself.”

Constant manipulation.

Then it got worse. M and her sister even called F to meet them privately, where they basically told him they wouldn’t help with the marriage because:
“We also have a daughter to get married” (meaning M), so why would they help A?

F secretly recorded those conversations and showed everything to A later.

Imagine finding out your childhood best friend, the person you trusted more than anyone, had been trying to sabotage your relationship the entire time while pretending to support you.

A eventually cut M off. Not dramatically, not overnight, but slowly after realizing none of it was genuine.

Honestly, sometimes the deepest betrayals don’t come from relationships.
They come from friendships you thought would last forever.

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u/panganotchanga — 16 hours ago
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Eid ul Adha ⚔️ Show off ✅

I'm sorry to say this but this "shoqeen" culture is blatant show off. I cannot under any explanation believe that this is acceptable. Sunnat e Ibrahimi ka mazaq bana diya hai. There I said it. There's a clear principle in Islam, your actions should not be the cause of hurting someone physically, emotionally or mentally. If a rich brat is blocking the road to show off his sacrificial animals, that's wrong.

If Islam says "If one is unable to share food, it is advised to ensure the neighbor is not upset by the delicious aroma of the cooking."

Then how is showing off your purchase acceptable?

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u/panganotchanga — 8 days ago