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I Did Not think Condola Was a Bad Person , messy to Issa or even mean at all. I i thought i loved the direction they took with making her and Issa be friends and getting to see a side of her being a normal good woman. Her issues with Lawrence were all valid Lawrence was an ass moving away knowing you’re Gonna have a baby and then showing up whenever it was convenient for him

Am I the only one that wishes the story could’ve been a bit different ? I wish Issa would’ve just broken up with Lawrence and this be the reason he got himself together and later they came together after dating different people . I wish the cheating would’ve been gone from the story. Because it put Issa in a position where she was chasing him and his forgiveness and before that he was a horrible patner all around . And all of that was forgotten just because she cheated. I did enjoy when his friend told him tho. And another thing am I the only one who thinks the way the girls talk to each other is so rude sometimes ? I’m Hispanic so I’m not sure if this normal in the black community for friends to talk to each other like this.

Hey Guys First Off i wanna start saying i love Rosalía i love her music. And i was wondering if anyone agrees with me on one thing . If her sense of style was as good as zendaya it would actually be so much better for her . Her sense of style is actually not abstract or cool is just not good overall. And i feel like she had the porential to be

Hey Guys I’m a 27F Just graduated With a business degree and persuing project management , business analyst or HR roles or admnistrive assistant . My question is i see so many people have so many certifications but when i check these certifications are thousands of dollars . I know some employers pay for them but I’m having trouble getting those jobs in the first place Should i just get the certifications myself ? Which one do you guys recommend for entry level ? And i also have 7 years of Healthcare experience so I’ve considered healthcare administration as well to sort of leverage my experience. And also is there any way to get these certifications for cheaper ? My goals is a job i can do hybrid or remote and can eventually make six figures .

Hey so im a 27F Going On a Two year relationship With a 31M. My in laws have been very nice and welcoming always BUT I’m
Also a very realistic Girl . Ive noticed the type of family they are . They nit pick every single girlfriend ( my brother has a couple siblings) and sort of defend one of their sons bad behavior (hes kind of a shallow guy who’s been single since like high school wants kids and a wife real bad but if a girl is over weight or even just a medium hell say shes not good enough for me. As if she would want him in the first place . His dad says he was bullied as a kid for being Chubby and Is Not kinda critical . I said hes almort thirty he can grow some balls) they age in their own say overbesring follow me on all social medias instagram as well . But only interact with stuff my boyfriend is in as if they don’t care about me as a Person which based on ho they act i suspect is the case and couldn’t care less . ( The only person to interact with everything even when my boyfriend is not in it is my boyfriends step moms mom shes so sweet) so i already don’t like them too much. Specially because we broke u for like two months and his brother unfriended me on social media one i actually thought we were super cool ! So I’m wary of all of them cool and nice but would like a healthy distance . How can i get them off my socials without it being a big deal or spiraling . I do not want nosy people on my stuff at all.

My boyfriend 32M and I F/27 have been together for almost two years. I had been away for two weeks, and he had been counting down the days until I got back. Because of that, I was really excited for the reunion. I pictured us hugging, kissing, and just being happy to see each other.
Instead, as soon as I landed he was questioning everything to time perfectly his arrival ( nothing wrong with that ) I got back way earlier than expected and waited outside for him to make things easier . He calls me when he’s 10 mins away and starts yelling that I better be in the terminal I said and to notwalk away I said I’m here . He pulls up, gets out the car, he was already in a bad mood. He complained about the drive and about the airport traffic and how the police were rushing everyone to move. We barely talked during the two-hour drive home because the mood was so tense.( mind you the police never spoke to him directly they just pointed to keep moving , he seems very susceptible to people giving him directions )
When we got home, I left the house because I didn’t want to be around him. Later, he wanted to hug and kiss me as if nothing had happened. When I wasn’t receptive, he asked why I was upset. I explained that I was still hurt by how our reunion went.
I completely understand that airport traffic is frustrating, and I’m not expecting someone to be cheerful every second. What hurt me was that there was never a moment where I felt welcomed back. There was time for a quick hug, a smile, or even just “I’m so happy you’re home” before venting about the traffic.
The bigger issue is that this isn’t an isolated incident. He tends to react to relatively minor inconveniences as though they’re major crises, while I’m the opposite. My mindset is usually, “We’ll figure it out.” I don’t get worked up over small things, so our reactions to stress are very different. For those who have dated someone who becomes very stressed or negative over relatively minor inconveniences, how did you approach those conversations? What helped you determine whether it was something that could improve or whether it reflected a deeper incompatibility?

I was watching keeping up with the kardashians and also a bit of life with Kylie. Jordyn’s and Kylie’s friendship was very beautiful but I can tell right away why it didn’t work. Kylie was always the center of attention and Jordyn as a big girl then and not as known always her shadow. What happened with Tristan was completely wrong but Jordyn was young and truly I do think he was more wrong than her . I do think God has a beautiful way of working in purpose because Jordyn grew from that situation and had to sort of figure things out on her own without sharing the spotlight (more like being in the background of Kylie) so it makes me happy than Jordyn found her way, and has her shine on her own. I do hope one day her and Jordyn can just as close as before but I feel like that would be hard since Jordyn wouldn’t be accepted by the rest of the family or be able to be around them ( which I’m glad Kylie broke this cycle of them only forgiving men and keeping them around and giving them so much grace and not other women ) I do think Kylie is a girls girl truly and I hope she as well as timothee have her happy ending. And also if you watch the beginning of KUWTK Khloe was the one who was the harshest on Kourtney for forgiving Scott and giving him a million chances . Khloe actually hated Scott at some point . Look at them now best friends despite the pain he caused her sister. At every single family event . I’m
Glad Jordyn and Kylie slowly rekindled their friendship because it was honestly so cute you could tell they were truly best friends.

I was watching keeping up with the kardashians and also a bit of life with Kylie. Jordyn’s and Kylie’s friendship was very beautiful but I can tell right away why it didn’t work. Kylie was always the center of attention and Jordyn as a big girl then and not as known always her shadow. What happened with Tristan was completely wrong but Jordyn was young and truly I do think he was more wrong than her . I do think God has a beautiful way of ring in the purpose because Jordyn grew from that situation and had to sort of figure things out on her own without sharing the spotlight (more like being in the background of Kylie) so it makes me happy than Jordyn found her way, and has her shine on her own. I do hope one day her and Jordyn can just as close as before but I feel like that would be hard since Jordyn wouldn’t be accepted by the rest of the family or be able to be around them ( which I’m glad Kylie broke this cycle of them only forgiving men and keeping them around and giving them so much grace and not other women ) I do think Kylie is a girls girl truly and I hope she as well as timothee have her happy ending. And also if you watch the beginning of KUWTK Khloe was the one who was the harshest on Kourtney for forgiving Scott and giving him a million chances . Khloe actually hated Scott at some point . Look at them now best friends despite the pain he caused her sister. At every single family event . I’m
Glad Jordyn and Kylie slowly rekindled their friendship because it was honestly so cute you could tell they were truly best friends.

I have some questions about this documentary . I hope someone has answers maybe I missed it and it’ll be helpful to understand. First off why was the medical staff aware of what she was posting on social media about her being pregnant . Wouldn’t that be violating HIPPA to be searching her up and aware of what she’s posting . At my hospital it is not allowed to search patients up. Also if they had a code pink on her why wasn’t crisis called for an involuntary hold . Someone claiming to be pregnant who medically cannot should be at least brought up for psychological evaluation. These are my two biggest questions about this documentary. I also did not enjoy how it all focused on Taylor should’ve been more about Reagan. I know everyone did the best they could but if anyone around you is showing major signs of mental instability please try to ge them some sort of help. It pains me that Reagan lost her life and her baby in such a violent way. It was very sad .

Can All Yall With MBAS stop applying to entry level jobs ? It’s truly sooo annoying to me and that’s a First sign of How bad the job market is . When I’m applying to a job where i would be top applicant and scroll down and see people with a MBA have applied to it . And also I’m getting call backs every single week with recuriters but never make it past that stage to a hiring manager . Is this happening to others as well? I’m located in Mass. This job market sucks

So I have recently started watching season 3 and first of all when did Cassie and Nate actually fall inlove ? Their relationship feels like Nate is actually trying to please Cassie so it does seem like he does love her . And he did not seem to have any interest in Maddy at all. They could’ve had a scene together or something . That scene he had with Jules and saying that she’s the last person he expected to see would’ve been more fitting with Maddy. BTW does anyone have any tea on what’s up with the divided cast ? Nobody has scenes together. Seems like an intentional decision to have all characters away from each other and like the writers did the best they could . I loved Maddy at times but wish she had a better storyline . Cassie’s storyline is pure kink for the weirdos. Jules’ is super selfish as usual and with lack of direction and Lexi is just same as always nothing interesting about her character. Would’ve been better to have her left off screen as having built a life with Fez . give him a happy ending he couldn’t have in real life in the fake one . Overall super sad how shit they show has gone . Anyone that works in tv and has some insight please tell me if there’s some drama in this cast because it’s so weird the lack of scenes altogether . And no mention of Kat was weird. And how the girls treated BB at the wedding was weird too. Love Angel so far. I’m only on episode 3

So two days ago was my college graduation, and I invited a few friends/coworkers out Friday night to celebrate. There were four of us total.

Before the night out, one of my friends, “Megan,” mentioned that our other friend “Kayla” graduates in a month and said we could celebrate both of us together. I said sure because I didn’t want to make it awkward, but internally I was kind of annoyed because… why not just go out again when Kayla actually graduates? Mine had literally just happened and hers wasn’t for another month.

Anyway, I brushed it off.

The night comes, and Megan shows up with two flowers. One red and one orange. She walks up saying “Congrats!” and holds both flowers out for us to pick from.

I reached for the red flower, and she literally pulled it back out of my hand and gave it to Kayla instead, then handed me the orange one.

Now I’m sitting here wondering if I’m overthinking this. Part of me feels like maybe it was harmless, but another part of me feels weird about the whole thing, especially because this was originally supposed to be my graduation celebration.

If both flowers were meant to be equal, why not just get the same color? And why let me grab one first just to take it away and hand it to someone else?

Am I being too sensitive or does this come across as subtly shady to anyone else?

Im not sure if my relationship is over but the day of my graduation I told my boyfriend to bring me flowers he left them in car saying he didn’t know if they were allowed then I also asked for some pictures and he took a video (this seems silly but the context is he never does just what I ask or want he always finds a loophole to do something different like when we started dating I said I loved flowers and he got me little plants or little frame of flowers until I confronted him like why are you doing variations and not just what im asking for ) and also when I came out he was barely excited to hug me I went to hug him . He didn’t even say congrats. But then we went to a restaurant and that’s when he saw a girl coworker and said congrats to her so happily it made me sad because he did not have that same energy for me . And he kept staring at her until I said do you wanna switch seats ? So you can see better and he got embarrassed . I don’t know if my mind is making this up but this is same cowoekr I found on his Facebook search as well as he has talked about her before and even baked a cake the week of his birthday since it was around her birthday too. ( it had been like six years since he baked for his coworkers and she’s fairly new only been there a couple months) I don’t know if my mind is extrapolating all these things but I feel very unhappy and feel like I don’t even want to be around him and like I deserve better . The interesting thing is that he’s considering a job in another state and had asked if I would move with him. But our relationship had been rocky for months lack of intimacy ( once to twice ina month ) I figured his libido had just been low but one day got on his phone and found many porn stars searches on his Facebook as well as this coworker) I definitely refuse to move my life for him because I don’t feel cherished but I want to know if I’m overreacting or if what I’m explaining makes sense.