Natural birth or C-Section?

People who have had children- I have constant tearing at the opening. So much so that it tears Everytime I have sex. I’m considering pregnancy and wanted to ask about experiences with or preferences on natural birth vs C-Section. Thank you!

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u/pumpkinboogie — 3 days ago
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Chronic pain management windham Nh

Hi- my father is on palliative care, most likely dying and in chronic pain that morphine won’t touch. I’d love a referral for an acupuncturist near windham NH. Londonderry and Salem are close. Manchester is 40 minutes away. Bonus points for house calls.

He has sjorgens disease, AFIB, and interstital lung disease. He says all of those things he could live with but his chronic heads ache makes him want to die (speculated to be pinching of a nerve in his neck due to arthritis but not officially diagnosed). Does anyone have any recommendations? I want to help him so badly.

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u/pumpkinboogie — 3 days ago

HPV vaccine

Hi! I never got the HPV vaccine and am in my late 30’s. I’m debating if I should or not. I’m a bit hesitant vaccines might cause a flare up. Does anyone have any experience or advice with this? Thanks!

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u/pumpkinboogie — 25 days ago

Anger

I started buspar last night 5mg. Than 5mg around 1 pm today.

I also took my vyvanse arouns 9 am as usual.

From 2-8 I was super angry and irritable. It felt like rage. I felt pretty unable to function and can’t imagine continuing to teach my piano students or play at a wedding if I ever felt like that again. I’m scared to even try it for a couple days to see if it stops.

Should I discontinue? Try a lower dose? Push through it? Doesn’t go away quickly?

Thanks!

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u/pumpkinboogie — 1 month ago
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Coverage for outdoor gigs

Hey gigging harpists! I offer a white EZ for outdoor weddings that don’t offer canopies or shade. I’d love something a little prettier. Does anyone have any alternatives? Thanks so much!
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u/pumpkinboogie — 1 month ago

Jeans help

Should I return the first and/or last pair?

The middle two are ones I own for comparison. But if the first pair isn’t better than them I want to return.

The last one is me trying to step away from skinny jeans. But feel like I maybe missed the mark and should return those as well?

And advice on what style might work best on me would also be appreciated! Thank you!

u/pumpkinboogie — 1 month ago

Jeans help

Hi! I’d love some help with jeans.

I’m debating if I should return this first pair. The following two are jeans I already own and wondering how they compare. If they aren’t better I’ll save the money and return.

The last pair is me trying to get away from skinny jeans. Trying to find a “cute butt loose jeans” look but I may need some direction on what style to look for lol. Should I keep or return that last pair as well?

Thanks for any help!

u/pumpkinboogie — 1 month ago

Tenant responsible for repairs under $500. Is that legal

In my contract it says I am responsible for minor repairs regardless if it is my fault. Minor meaning less than $500.

My bathroom sink stopped working. The town shut off everyone’s water to do some repairs but when it came back the bathroom sink is a slow trickle.

I know landlords are responsible for plumbing so I’m wondering if this is legal?

Thanks for any advice. I’m in New York

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u/pumpkinboogie — 2 months ago

Hi! I’d really like to try this suggestion of taking meds before fully waking up. But I’ve found with Aderolll I have to take it with a protein filled breakfast or else I get a strange effect from it (focusing on negative things, feeling socially awkward, too intense). I’m wondering if anyone experiences this? Is there anything I should look into switching- dosage, medication type etc, or is it fairly common to need a full meal for it to have positive effects?

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u/pumpkinboogie — 2 months ago

Hi! I’m thinking of having a baby and own a music studio. I would love any and all advice as to how to make it work (or if a career switch may be needed).

I see 38 kids from Monday-Thursday as well as perform harp at weddings and other gigs. I would love to hear how other women have done it while maintaining their career. Were you able to teach while having your baby in the room or was a baby sitter necessary? And how did it work at Older stages? Once my child is in school I’m afraid I would never see them if continue using to work afternoon/evening hours (but maybe not teaching Friday-Sunday makes up for that).

Please share your experience with me :) thank you!

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u/pumpkinboogie — 2 months ago
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Hi! I’m thinking of having a baby and own a music studio. I would love any and all advice as to how to make it work (or if a career switch may be needed).

I see 38 kids from Monday-Thursday as well as perform harp at weddings and other gigs. I would love to hear how other women have done it while maintaining their career. Were you able to teach while having your baby in the room or was a baby sitter necessary? And how did it work at Older stages? Once my child is in school I’m afraid I would never see them if continue using to work afternoon/evening hours (but maybe not teaching Friday-Sunday makes up for that).

Please share your experience with me :) thank you!

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u/pumpkinboogie — 2 months ago
▲ 16 r/pianoteachers+1 crossposts

Hi! I’m thinking of having a baby and own a music studio. I would love any and all advice as to how to make it work (or if a career switch may be needed).

I see 38 kids from Monday-Thursday as well as perform harp at weddings and other gigs. I would love to hear how other women have done it while maintaining their career. Were you able to teach while having your baby in the room or was a baby sitter necessary? And how did it work at Older stages? Once my child is in school I’m afraid I would never see them if continue using to work afternoon/evening hours (but maybe not teaching Friday-Sunday makes up for that).

Please share your experience with me :) thank you!

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u/pumpkinboogie — 2 months ago