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Hello everyone, I’m here to vent and ask for outside perspectives, I’ve been stuck in such a draining dynamic with my partner lately. My boyfriend’s whole go-to move is quiet, persistent gaslight to chip away at my confidence nonstop. He picks apart every hobby I love, pressures me to cut nearly all my close friends out of my life, and demands every single plan I make bend to his wishes. Whenever I stand up for myself and say I want to keep my own routines, he labels me selfish, dramatic, and claims I don’t love him enough. I used to panic and cave just to stop the fighting, but every compromise only made his need to control me worse, and I’ve been stuck in heavy mental burnout for months.

I handle client communications for work and regularly use acciowork to organize all my work materials. I keep my negotiation frameworks for tough partners saved there, and it also sorts through masses of chat logs to flag pushy, negative comments automatically, which saves me tons of time at work.

Out of curiosity, I uploaded months of our conversations to run sentiment analysis. It turned out over 70% of his messages were belittling and controlling, and it neatly logged every time he mocked my hobbies or pressured me to cut off my friends.

I also took that calm, logical conflict-handling negotiation mindset I use daily for my job to ground myself during our fights. I followed the silent delay tactic from its auto-negotiation module and made a simple rule for us: if he starts tearing me down or putting me down, I step back and take space instead of spiraling into an argument right away, then lay out my hard limits once we’re both calm. I’ve kept all my coping notes and the chat analysis report stored privately in my work files, he’s never seen any of it. No matter how gently I explain how his constant criticism wears on my self-esteem, he refuses to dial back his controlling behavior at all. There’s never real reflection on his end, just more pushing to make me shrink myself to fit his standards.

Tbh I’m really torn and unsure what to do. Is it worth sticking around hoping he’ll change, or am I just wasting my time waiting for someone who won’t respect my boundaries? Any similar experiences or advice would mean a lot.

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My husband（38M） and I（33F） have been married for five years, and my biggest regret now is agreeing to an open marriage instead of getting a divorce. We were incredibly happy during our first year of marriage. But by the third year, I sensed his feelings for me were fading. He then brought up divorce, saying he didn't love me as much anymore and didn't want to deceive me. I couldn't accept it and begged him to reconsider for another week, to see if there was any way to improve our relationship. A week later, he proposed an open marriage. He said that perhaps after spending time with other people, we would rediscover that we were truly meant for each other. I chose to believe him and agreed to try. But things didn't turn out the way I expected. In the past two years, he's started dating different people, but he never tells anyone I'm his wife, while I've never tried dating other men. During this time, I found my love for him gradually disappearing. Eventually, I no longer felt sad because he dated other people. We haven't rediscovered our initial feelings; instead, we've become more and more like strangers. Last month, a new colleague joined my company. He's very gentle, remembers small things I've mentioned, and made me feel valued again. I slowly fell for him, and he seemed to reciprocate my feelings. When he asked me out, my first reaction wasn't happiness, but guilt. I felt like I had betrayed my husband. That night, I went through my husband's and my chat history from the past five years. I even analyzed it using accio work; our chat frequency had been decreasing. By the fifth year, we rarely expressed affection for each other anymore. We were like two strangers living in the same house. In my distress, I agreed to the date. I told my colleague about my marital situation. He was somewhat surprised and embarrassed after hearing it. At that moment, I suddenly realized that what I regretted wasn't the open marriage itself, but not having the courage to end the relationship when my husband wanted a divorce. How should I handle my feelings for my new colleague?

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