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This is my dream tbh. To be period and child free forever. I already have to fallopian tubes removed, I wish I had asked if it is possible to remove the whole uterus. While on BC I didnt really have a period, but I have it again and wow its awful.

Has anyone had this? Is it even possible? Is it possible under the idea of gender dysphoria instead of BC? (which I feel if maybe why I hate my period so muc)?

Bonus points for what field youre in! I do massage and currently commute 45 min one way. I wish I could work closer but its just not really feasible at this time:/ what are yall commute and do you like it or hate it?

Obviously spoiler, but for what movie?? What I remember is two man are in space on a long mission. They have these beds where they can link their minds (?) Or somehow visit earth and their family, through this pod, without ever leaving space. Man #1 i believe has his house broken into or is kidnapped, and his family and his earth body are murdered, and he is now stuck in space with no family and no outlets. He starts using the body/ bed of man #2 so he can have some sort of outlet. Eventually I think he ends up getting too close to man #2 wife, and abuses his access to the other man's pod. He ends up murdering the family of man #2.

What movie is this?? I watched it in the last few years on a streaming service, but I cant remember any actors, character names, or where I watched the movie. It randomly spawned in my memory at work and I cant stop thinking of it

We all know that while getting tickets at presale they just vanish before you can actually look at seats, compare prices, etc. What is the best strategy to get a decent seat and not pay 500+? My budget is like $300 for 2 tickets, which will probably be higher up in the venue i understand. Do you just grab the first ones you can and go? I would hate to miss out on a tickets because I am too slow to pick. I am not familiar with the Ohio stadium at all as I have never been there. Could use any advice thank you 🙏

I waited until now to plant due to being busy and hating weather under 70. I direct sow, this is my 2nd year ever growing but tbh have not been looking into in much this year due to the aforementioned business. I would like to grow leaf lettuce, carrots, onions, potatoes, sweet corn, and strawberries (not direct sow). Is there anything that is too late or early to do this weekend? I am not trying to optimize yields or anything, just like watching things grow.

In my first "real" year of college getting an associates degree online (have only recieved certificate in the past). This semester went a lot better than the first, and I wanted to send a thank you email to my professors for having a well put together online class, because last semester things felt chaotic because the classes were set up poorly. However, I have never contacted my professors at all this semester, so this would be the first time hearing from me, so I don't know if that is weird or not.

I am thinking of doing a private courthouse/ elopment wedding and a party after. For those that did it, did you do your own hair and makeup or hire someone? Where did you get ready? I would need to hire someone for hair because I have zero hair skills, but could maybe pull off a makeup look. Im just worried about where would FH and I get ready? Our house is full of pets and is far from the city courthouse we would do it at, so that isn't ideal. Rent a hotel i guess?

I am loosely planning my wedding in my head for 2028. I've only been a guest at 1 wedding as a plus 1, and one as a child, so I feel like I don't know what guests want.

We want a fairly non-traditional wedding, with the ceremony being only immediate family (parents, siblings, grandparents) and a reception following right after/ couple hours later with more family and friends, but still fairly small, maybe 50ish people total.

We also do not want to spend much money on a wedding as the theatrics are not important to us, we just want to have a party. These are the things I would like to do, but don't know if it would be a bad experience as a guest.

- self serve drinks and food. Have a designated time food comes out and tell people to eat, but have it "buffet style". And drink bar so people can help themselves, just beer, NA drinks, maybe wine?

- people entering the reception without bride and groom present. Was thinking possibly setting receptionist time the same time as our ceremony, and have a "grand entrance" as a married couple. I would have a wedding coordinator/ greeter at the door to direct people and tell them we are currently doing the ceremony and will be out soon.

- no dance floor. We do not like dancing, most guests are family/older people and wouldnt be on it anyway. Would have yard games, board games, or just other things to do instead.

- no "Grand exit" / specific time people should leave. Im worried some people might linger too long (FMIL is good at that), but it would be nice to have just close friends at the end to chill and decompress with. Ideally, have the party at the same place we stay the night, so people can leave organically, close people stay late, and no one has to bring us home.

So as a guest, would this be enjoyable? Just coming to a reception, grabbing your own drinks, bride and groom come out shortly after, mingle, eat, mingle/games, disperse. What would you need or want in order to have a great time?

I have no sex drive and I don't know what to do, it is distressing me and my relationship. I used to go up and down from none to just a small amount of desire, but now it seem I just have no interest or pleasure from sex.

People say its normal, or that its in my head, or an issue with my partner, but it is none of that. It has been this way for a long time, and I hate it. I dont know what to do. HELP