what does the album "blonde" mean to you?

hello,

i have been thinking about this lately, considering the album is turning 10 soon. i want to know what this album means to some people, and how it changed their lives. when did you first listen to it? what songs stuck out to you? has your view changed on it at all? here is my story.

i have had quite the love/hate relationship with this album over the course of my life. the story begins in summer 2023, a very sad time for me. i was 14 if i'm not mistaken. i was at a super low point, didn't eat much, didn't sleep much, and was sad over a boy who could care less i existed. then i discovered "nights" and it felt as if it cured all of this...uncertainty i felt in my spirit. i felt like it described how i felt inside at the time. it was an unreal discovery.

after that, i began to slowly comb through the album, but for me personally, each song represents a part of my life. for example, "skyline to" was a very monumental song for me during november 2023. i attached it to an old person i used to know. and most recently, "nikes" was my song for this summer. i recently met a boy in april and i liked him so much. and i didn't know he liked frank ocean until we hung out in mid-june. he played it in his car on our way to downtown. we just sat there and listened to it, no words spoken. it was unreal for me because i've never listened to frank ocean with anyone, and "nikes" is one of, if not my favorite track on the album. it's so ironic because i used to never play it or listen to it because i just disliked the track a few years ago, but i grew out of that completely. anyways. things did not work out with the guy (i confessed to him on that same hangout and he said he didn't like me back, and now we no longer talk) and it still hurts me a bit.

during the years of 2024-2025, blonde was a really depressing album for me. "seigfried", "godspeed", and "ivy" were tracks that made me think of people who hurt me and i would listen to blonde at night whenever i felt sad and i remember so many nights where i would just lay and cry to them. it got to a point where i had to block frank ocean on spotify so i would avoid making myself sad intentionally. but whenever i needed blonde, it was there, for me. it speaks through me. it's a person i can rely on 24/7, that will comfort me in my darkest moments.

i enjoy every track from the album. "futura free" and "close to you" mean a lot to me, but some tracks i cannot listen to often because of their impact on me. one being "pink + white". my ex best friend really loved that song and when i listen to it i think of her. i loved the song so much, but it holds a negative feeling for me personally so i avoid it. "solo" is a wonderful track but it also makes me emotional and very sad, given the track title, it reminds me that i have been very lonesome situations.

that is some of my story. i am really hoping this post reaches some people who want to share what it means to them. i cannot wait to read the stories and i hope my story resonates with you, the reader. if you have any questions for me personally, i am happy to share. if you're just here to read, i hope you have an amazing day and all of your dreams and wishes come true, in anything you want and desire.

- S

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u/s0le_wint3r — 3 days ago
▲ 503 r/texts

My friend sent me this message knowing that I am struggling with homelessness

shes been my best friend for many years and i recently told her about my living situation. i never slept in the street but ive been going from hotel to hotel with my family. it still offended me in a way because my mom struggled with drugs and the message just seemed really offputting. thoughts?

edit: we are both 17 and have known each other for 5 years. we also have been really close but we don't talk that often nowadays. she's an interesting person and does make jokes often but this one just wasn't appealing to me.

she said it was a bad joke herself but didn't apologize for it, which is fine. but if it were me, i wouldn't make a joke like that to someone who is in a similar situation as myself.
you don't know how they might interpret it or what's going on behind the screen.

edit 2: i am not on drugs. at all. ever. i did not explicitly tell her that and i just kinda left her on read after she responded and told me it was a bad joke or wtv. i wasn't in the best mood at the time honestly and the last thing i felt like doing was making an issue out of something.

edit 3: why are we being racist in the comments? :/

edit 4: hi newcomers! had to get the post locked because the comments were getting out of control. please read the entire description before you form an opinion and say my friend is a bad person. she's great and made a joke that didn't land well with me. and it's okay! my situation will get better and we say no to drugs!

u/s0le_wint3r — 11 days ago

i figured out how to turn the duolingo version with hearts into a web app! ✨

its really cool! its definitely less than the original app version but it is NO ads (not even pop-ups) and 5 hearts! still has leagues, gems, etc! if anyone wants a tutorial on how to do this for ios, show interests in the comments! i will post a tutorial for it tomorrow :)

u/s0le_wint3r — 11 days ago

I applied to McDonald's and got rejected but my friend got accepted instantly

hello,

i am a hs student with a 4.0 GPA, in band, in clubs, with prior job experience as a server. however, my friend with a ~2.0 GPA and no clubs or extracurriculars did one interview and got accepted on the spot. for me, i did one interview and it went very well and then i got an email one week later saying that they will not move forward with the job process. why...? (this was a year ago btw, i dont have the email anymore but it was something i just remembered)

edit: i was available any hours after school and on weekends. band and my clubs did not interfere with my schedule.

i am a poc, and so is my friend. i am female, he was male, if that means anything

my friend had no prior job experience while i did

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u/s0le_wint3r — 12 days ago

17F, looking for friends + night owls!

hii! my name is leecey and it's been a really long and boring summer and i'm hoping to find some
friends? i love cooking, listening to music, spending time with my family and my super cute dog, and learning spanish!

i really enjoy math and stuff and i think i'm planning to join the navy after i graduate high school. if you live in the usa thats super cool but im totally okay with international friends! i literally only talk to two people a day so trust me i will answer fast.

some of my other interests are nature, photography, gaming, blue raspberry anything, seafood, cloudy/rainy weather, sports like football/basketball, shows like breaking bad, bcs, euphoria, tsitp. i also journal and write to pen pals on an app called slowly. i highly recommend it :)

i hope this is a great introduction! also i'm up at night all the time so if u have trouble falling asleep too maybe we could just yap until we cant keep our eyes open anymore. looking forward to hearing from you! dms open!!

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u/s0le_wint3r — 17 days ago
▲ 28 r/food

omelet progress [homemade]

first one was real rough but i'm getting there! i'm a teen learning to cook. i enjoy green peppers, olives, and spinach in my omelets :)

u/s0le_wint3r — 17 days ago