u/saraanshhhh

Hey folks M24 here, I’m in Ajmer till tomorrow so just needed some advice what can I do here just for a change and a bit fun. Up for all types of ideas. Cheers!

Would you still fall in love that’ll be the best time of your life but it will end in pain or rather go back in time and undo it?
This is something which really comes in my mind very often and I think it’s gonna have some mixed opinions. Cheers guys!

Hi, me and my gf are dating from January this year in long distance. We’ve planned sometimes to meet for 2-3 days and all you know when like excitement and threshold hits and you’re like now we really gotta meet. We’ve planning like around 4-5 times but it never really worked out so we haven’t met ever.
Current I’ve been planning to go and meet her but she’s denying for it. She said that she doesn’t want to meet the man she loves and sees her future with for just 3-4 days because in just these 3-4 days she don’t wanna judge me wrongfully and if she wants to know me properly, we need much more days. If we’re just meeting for 3-4 days then we definitely are gonna sleep together because we know that we’re not gonna get this chance again for like months so it’s just like increasing the body count, she said. Her and I agreed to me switching to her city for the job but due to my hard luck I’m unable to find a job in her city, though I’m still trying.
I called her today morning saying the same and she said I won’t come to meet you, it kinda broke me down cus I really wanna see her, I even said that I’ll just come to your city and spend sometime with you then I’ll leave (which will cost me enough but still I can manage just to have a glance of her). I feel very needy to just see her asap but idts she wants to meet me like that. She said that come only when you’ve a job here otherwise don’t come, I said it’s already been 6 months because of the job search, idk how much more time it’s gonna take so let’s meet but she clearly denied for it and hung up on me. Idk what to do now. Please help me!

Hi, so I came in a relationship with my gf in January and we planned that I’ll take a job switch in the city only where she’s currently working, it’d be good for me in terms of career also and relationship too.
She never ever was a long distance type of person, she still gave her best, stayed with me but last night she told me this long distance is bothering her so much because she wants to be with my irl so much and she just isn’t able to manage this anymore, she hit her threshold. Which I just knew that it’d happen someday. I’m unable to find a job in that city till now. I feel like a disappointment and failure cus I really love her and I never ever wanna lose her because of this. She just isn’t able to manage this pressure of just staying on video calls all the time and everything because it’s kinda annoying all the time but being with your partner on a vc and chat ever time even if you’re not a chat or call person. She’s a very good girl and definitely someone I’d love to be with or want to live with irl.
She told me all this that now she just don’t know she’s out of topics to talk and all. She also told me she really wants this relationship but this long distance isn’t kind of working anymore as she feels kinda pressurised all the time to be available on this phone all the time and it’s like she always has this thing that she’s so fun of a person to be with irl except this chatting and video calls, tbh I get POV that’s why I’m asking you guys that what should I do now. Please no hate, thanks for helping.

Hi, so I came in a relationship with my gf in January and we planned that I’ll take a job switch in the city only where she’s currently working, it’d be good for me in terms of career also and relationship too.
She never ever was a long distance type of person, she still gave her best, stayed with me but last night she told me this long distance is bothering her so much because she wants to be with my irl so much and she just isn’t able to manage this anymore, she hit her threshold. Which I just knew that it’d happen someday. I’m unable to find a job in that city till now. I feel like a disappointment and failure cus I really love her and I never ever wanna lose her because of this. She just isn’t able to manage this pressure of just staying on video calls all the time and everything because it’s kinda annoying all the time but being with your partner on a vc and chat ever time even if you’re not a chat or call person. She’s a very good girl and definitely someone I’d love to be with or want to live with irl.
She told me all this that now she just don’t know she’s out of topics to talk and all. She also told me she really wants this relationship but this long distance isn’t kind of working anymore as she feels kinda pressurised all the time to be available on this phone all the time and it’s like she always has this thing that she’s so fun of a person to be with irl except this chatting and video calls, tbh I get POV that’s why I’m asking you guys that what should I do now. Please no hate, thanks for helping.

My brother is staying today at my house and we have the house to ourselves. Want to watch some crazy horror movie which should make it impossible for us to sleep. I love horror movies and have watched most of the known ones that are available on Netflix and Prime. It’d be great if it’s a cult horror sort of.
Suggest me some very good level of horror movie. Thanks in advance peeps.

I'm planning for a good ReactJS project so suggest me some really good AI related projects in ReactJS which I can build. I know you guys have probably built good ones so just open to ideas and I'll on them and so I can start working on it.

I'm a Frontend developer currently with good knowledge of ReactJS, NextJS and somewhat backend also. What's happening is that I was in the process of 3 companies at different times, the first one's hiring froze at my last round, the second one's interview was scheduled but the HR left the company and didn't inform about my interview to their team which later on got cancelled while I was trying to join the call but nobody let me in because of no communication on their side and for the third company's final discussion round the managerial guy got into some medical emergency so he's in hospital as HR told me.
These three events happened with me consistently, I worked so hard I applied a lot everywhere including LinkedIn, Naukri, Career portals and finally when I saw the hope of interviews being scheduled, these events happened. What I felt bad about is that no matter how much I've been trying to switch I just can't, it's not like I'm rejected as I'm not even getting at that part I don't mind getting rejected but since past few weeks I've started blaming my luck and myself I don't know why and how. I feel very low about this. I earn around 30K/month in my hometown which is fair but I see everyone around me having such a good luck in switching jobs and it's like good things are coming in their way so easily. I'm not jealous of them but it's like I feel bad about myself that why these things are happening with me again and again I'm not getting the switch just because of some dumb reasons from these companies. I don't know what to do and how to proceed now. Can somebody guide me how to feel about this and how to actually do this in a better way?